I am married and have a child, but I am unhappy. The story is very long, I don't even have time to write it. Years ago, I felt that my partner did not initiate sexual intercourse. He even responded with ridicule to my playful text messages. If, for example, I wrote something dirty, he would respond with "epic fail…" and never respond. And in the beginning, when we left, he was crazy about me and literally ran after me. We were a great couple, but over time it seemed to become a routine and we are now just roommates. Apart from caring for the child, we do not have the time and energy for anything else. I'm still young, and that's what happens to me. I sit and cry all day, I miss my husband, to court me, respect me, love me, kiss me ... I don't even want to adjust to him anymore. I am constantly arguing about why I took the child somewhere, why this is so, why I do not sit in my place and do not do what he tells me. I have no contact with anyone but him and the child and I am at home all day except at work. It weighs so much on me that I even wonder if I arranged my life correctly, although when I made these decisions there was no sign that it would be like that, everything was great. I'm not in love with him anymore and I don't know how to get rid of it ... I'm not in love with anyone, I'm just a rock. I don't like reality, not even life anymore. I don't find meaning in anything ... I don't even like buying rags, cosmetics, etc. anymore. I am very depressed. There is no meaning in my life. To this he says - doesn't the child make sense to you. Yes, but besides being a mother, I am also a woman and everything else and I have other needs. I am asking for advice. although when I made these decisions there was no sign that it would be so, everything was great. I'm not in love with him anymore and I don't know how to get rid of it ... I'm not in love with anyone, I'm just a rock. I don't like reality, not even life anymore. I don't find meaning in anything ... I don't even like buying rags, cosmetics, etc. anymore. I am very depressed. There is no meaning in my life. To this he says - doesn't the child make sense to you. Yes, but besides being a mother, I am also a woman and everything else and I have other needs. I am asking for advice. although when I made these decisions nothing indicated that it would be so, everything was fine. I'm not in love with him anymore and I don't know how to get rid of it ... I'm not in love with anyone, I'm just a rock. I don't like reality, not even life anymore. I don't find meaning in anything ... I don't even like buying rags, cosmetics, etc. anymore. I am very depressed. There is no meaning in my life. To this he says - doesn't the child make sense to you? Yes, but besides being a mother, I am also a woman and everything else and I have other needs. I am asking for advice. There is no meaning in my life. To this he says - does not the child make sense to you. Yes, but besides being a mother, I am also a woman and everything else and I have other needs. I am asking for advice. There is no meaning in my life. To this he says - does not the child make sense to you. Yes, but besides being a mother, I am also a woman and everything else and I have other needs. I am asking for advice.
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Tell him you are a woman and you have your needs. And if he can't give them to you ... you'll look for them somewhere else. Get a lover and that's it. That's it, about sports and passion. And you look after your family, the child, etc. :) Men do not understand that their "work" does not end with just having one child or another year. And it must be constant. There must be more and more passion even with age. To reach new heights in pleasure and passion. It is a pity that there are so many 'lazy' men. A matter of attitude. It's after he's tired of you and sex in general. Emmy ... without the thrill, there's no point in anything.
And I'm in the same situation, only a man, so comment number 1, which defines "men", "women", it's pointless. Coincidentally, my wife and I can't have sex, there's some bacteria and you drank a lot of antibiotics, I've been dry for a year, as they say. I'm not told what's wrong with me ... But that's not the point, it's that there is never time for me. He doesn't want to give me 10 minutes, to even kiss me. He just finds a "job" and various household chores. I don't know how this will work out, at least I tell her these things, I don't spare them. From there it starts in May :)
You need a serious conversation with him. Stand your ground and stop bowing your head and obeying! You are a young woman! You put the cards on the table and if he doesn't agree, it's over. And not just you to agree. When did he think of you? Your main problem is not the lack of tenderness / intimacy, but the way he treats you. As a lower person. Julian
It is normal for a person to strive for happiness! He doesn't make you happy - get rid of him! You fought! Don't let them make fun of you and undermine your dignity! You deserve what you dare to ask for! J. 31
don't read about it read about yourself and the next person you don't know when and how you will meet this one you have finished the course not every emotion can withstand the burden of everyday life
it is not to laziness, but to attraction and depth of the relationship you need natural attraction, natural depth and resilience of feelings, the weak and the artificial weather and remain ....