Hello, I really like this site! I would like to share my story - I am very stupid! I have a good job, a good education, I am 23 years old! I also have a friend - the sweetest creature in the world - smart, beautiful, good! How wonderful! But I made a huge mistake. I am from a village. I lived in a bigger city! I met my friend by accident, I didn't like him at first, he wanted us to go out every day! I was pulling, I had feelings for my ex-boyfriend, he asked me about my life - I was ashamed to be from the village and I said I was from the city :( The days went happily with him, I fell madly in love, now we even live together. .. BUT he doesn't know the truth about me ... Every day I try to tell a lady, but for 8 months the words stop in my mouth - what will he say Why did I lie to him? Big girl, and to do such nonsense !!! Please give advice! I know
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Oh darling, don't worry, it's like I wrote this story. The same thing happened to me, only I never told him, but he understood. He asks me why I lied to him about such nonsense, and I was ashamed to tell him. I did not give him a logical explanation. But now, after 3 years, we are happily married and have a child and we have already forgotten about the ridiculous event :) But then, honestly, it was not funny at all. If I could go back in time, perhaps, I would tell him that I was ashamed of being from a village and that I lied to him about it. I don't know, darling ... but don't worry, even if you're from the country, I don't think he'll love you less. Good luck and write further what happened. And just one piece of advice - don't end the relationship with the boy just because you're ashamed to admit it, maybe this is your great love (as it was with me).
Dear girl, I see nothing shameful in exactly where a person was born. More importantly, you are ambitious and have achieved something in your life. Don't hesitate to tell him that if he loves you and holds on to you, he will understand you. Better to find out from you. If you want to have a serious relationship with this boy, you can't lie to him, there will come a time when you can't hide him and then you will feel even more stupid. Tell him, approach with a sense of humor. And please write what happened if you still decide to tell him. Success!
It doesn't matter where you are from .. if you are smart no one will ask you .. and if he is your man he won't even be impressed;)
Hehe, you will make me laugh, dear ladies! I'm from a big city, but the best and quality people I know are from the "village", so I see no reason to worry. Hey, you really made me laugh! :)
Tell him it's okay to be from a village. He will probably like it there. Admit it and I'm sure he'll understand you. You didn't do anything wrong. Why do so many people from the village have such complexes? I am from Sofia and how would I like to go to the village and feed the chickens ...
Hello. Would you be ashamed to say that you are from Bulgaria if you are abroad? I do not. (politics is another matter) So what worries you. I'm from Sofia. Simpletons are everywhere. The question is whether you are one of them. And if you love each other, he already knows you and you are not a simpleton for him.
GOD, GOD - GREAT SHAME GREAT SOMETHING - CALL YOUR PEASANT ?! RURELY RURAL NUMBERS ... My girl and I are from a village, but you surpass everything - what a shame, I can't understand ?! I'm from a village, or I'm Bulgarian, (Roma), do you want to deny something you are? Well, let me "light up" you, no one chooses their parents, their homeland, their origin, I hope your limited "urban" "case" realizes it .. Let me tell you that above all else - it was the settlements were the first similarities of cities, the only real city in the history of Bulgaria which is once a city is Dimitrovgrad - I think there is no need to explain why there is a history, you need an urban child. I want to say that I'm not against the cities or the people in them, but this story just got me out of my "skin" .. Come on now, to end your story with the following: what do you say to yours when you go to the village - this week I am in Borovets, the other in Pamporovo, and on the third my grandmother died (God forbid) I have to go to the village to bury her and so to understand. Is this the way to deny yourself? You love each other, what's the problem?
I want to tell you that my friend also lived in the village for many years, but that doesn't stop me from loving him madly ... the man is important and not where he was born, don't complain, tell him.
Well, things like that happen. I used to like a boy, but he decided to introduce me to his friend and so his boyfriend and I became boyfriends. We went out for maybe 2-3 months, until he was afraid to tell me that they were brothers. Can you imagine?! And I don't understand ... why they told me then - that they are friends, and so far I didn't understand. I don't care anymore. So, talk, this will solve the problem, where there is no problem, you just tighten up.
Hey, one piece of advice from me. Never be ashamed of where you are from! People are not divided into peasants and citizens, but into good and bad. Always be who you are. It is better to tell him where you are from now than to remain silent for a long time, sooner or later he will learn on his own and then it is not known what his reaction will be when he finds out that he has been lied to. I don't think he's with you because you're a citizen, but because of you. And one question: What are the peasants - humans or aliens from another planet? I wish you success!
I could not read any of the comments but now I will do it, and about my opinion ... if he really loves you he will not leave you because of such nonsense;) Good luck and tell me what happened.
This is complete bullshit.
I'm also from the "village", but that doesn't complicate me. I only had some inconveniences during my school years because I had to prove my abilities. I embarked on the race of life - you can, you want to and you do. I had the will and ambition to get the education I wanted, to realize myself, but also to choose my friends on another basis - humanity, not where they come from. I have a family, my husband is from the city. In recent years, he himself often prefers to relax in the silence of rural life. Honey, what matters is what you are, not where you are from. I don't think you have a reason to suffer. Walk to your place together, because it is important to you, and if he loves you, which I have no doubt, it will become his place.
You don't have to tell him to shut up and you're done. JusT SmiLe :)
It doesn't matter where you are from, but what you are .....
Spoko and I are from the village, but my boyfriend doesn't know, but he is so firmly attached to me and I to him that even if I tell him nothing will happen, I hope, that is, I want to say that if he loves you enough, nothing will happen ... УСПЕХХХ !!!!
Don't worry, we are all from the village! Some of us came to the city just 50 years ago, others 5 :)
To number 6, 7, 17 - you are absolutely right