He Doesn't Want A Relationship

I have been writing to a boy for 2 and a half months. We have known each other for a long time and we used to write to each other, but now we have started sending each other kisses and various love things. He invited me out a few times, but then he refused. There were some excuses every time. Otherwise, when we wrote to each other, he was always kind, complimented me, I felt liked and wanted. According to my best friend, there was something rotten about the whole thing. So, in the end, I was able to pressure him to tell the truth. Again, 2 and a half months ago, a long serious relationship ended. In the beginning he loved the girl very much, he was in love, he gave everything for her. While he was with her, he contacted me from time to time and we wrote to each other a little. It seemed to me that things between them were lame, but I did not dare to ask. So, he told me, that he was tired of relationships and commitments and did not want to start a relationship with anyone at the moment. I, on the other hand, have not had such a long relationship as him. I had three relationships and I always ended up being deceived, betrayed, deceived. And accordingly, I attacked him for lying to me, for not liking me enough, and that this was a common excuse when a man wanted to lose a woman. He replied that he did not want to be with anyone at the moment and that if I wanted, we could continue as before to write to each other. He also told me that we would see each other and go to a meeting, not to worry about it. But at the moment he just can't tell me exactly when this will happen, just not to press him and give him some time. Since we have a lot of acquaintances in common, I know that his ex has been dating others from time to time, she wasn't very honest with him and also made him pay her bills and spent a lot of his money. Maybe there are other things I don't know. According to my best friend, he was finally honest and doesn't stop me from waiting a while (unless it's been years) until he recovers from the relationship. What do you think Have you been in a similar situation? In general, he has all the qualities I look for in a man and I would not want to lose him. I don't know if I should be with him until he gradually overcomes this, or if I give up? I've been hurt so many times that I can't trust anyone anymore. Share your experience and give advice. I will be grateful to you. According to my best friend, he was finally sincere and doesn't stop me from waiting a while (as long as it's not years) until he recovers from the relationship. What do you think? Have you been in a similar situation? In general, he has all the qualities I look for in a man and I would not want to lose him. I don't know if I should be by his side until he gradually overcomes this, or if I give up? I've been hurt so many times that I can't trust anyone anymore. Share your experience and give advice. I will be grateful to you. According to my best friend, he was finally honest and doesn't stop me from waiting a while (as long as it's not years) until he recovers from the relationship. What do you think? Have you been in a similar situation? In general, he has all the qualities I look for in a man and I would not want to lose him. I don't know if I should be by his side until he gradually overcomes this, or if I give up? I've been hurt so many times that I can't trust anyone anymore. Share your experience and give advice. I will be grateful to you. that I can no longer trust anyone completely. Share your experience and give advice. I will be grateful to you. that I can no longer trust anyone completely. Share your experience and give advice. I will be grateful to you.