Hello. At the age of 18 and for 2 years I have been having sex. I changed my partner 4 months ago. The problem is that he does not want us to use condoms, and I do not want to drink contraceptives. We have been on interrupted intercourse for 3 months. How do I get him to put on the damn condom? What's so great that he doesn't want to. I don't want to be a young mother.
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He doesn't want "with", and you don't give him "without". Joke aside, a condom not only protects against unwanted pregnancy, think hard.
Tell him exactly what you wrote. You don't want to become a mother, and with interrupted intercourse the chance of that happening within a year is about 20 percent, if I remember correctly. And whatever he tells you, keep to yourself on this issue, if your boyfriend has a little mind in his head he will think
Change partner! The consequences are for you, not selfish for him! A condom protects against diseases and unwanted pregnancies. If he makes you a child, who will look after him? Leave it dry if he doesn't understand ... change. :) Em Jay
Who knows what he had sex with, you can get some disease. Don't give it to him without a condom, this is your body and your decision too! If I break up with you because of this, then you know how much this person costs. Contraceptives can be super harmful to a woman.
I say goodbye to such a person with great pleasure. And you, if you're still wondering how to do it, you'll be pregnant soon.
But I love such squirrels very much. It is very clear that it is better for him without a condom, but this with interrupted intercourse is complete simplicity. My mother and father did not use condoms and here is the result (I'm not kidding at all). A woman here had shared that her gynecologist called this method "how to become a father in 1 year". Not that I want to scare you, I'm just extremely outraged by the sexual culture of some people. I tell all men that without a condom there will be no sex with me. The first one took it off in the middle without telling me, and one after him, when I explicitly refused, started me like that, it took a few minutes until I managed to push him away from me. Remember if I repeated with these two. Explain to your friend that without a condom there is no sex and that's it. If he wants. The condom is a responsibility to oneself and to the other. If he doesn't get it, he has not used condoms with his previous girlfriends and is not examined regularly, as nothing can have a gonorrhea for example (runs almost without symptoms), fungus or God forbid something worse. Not all diseases are immediately apparent or visible to the naked eye. I don't know how you got together with such a person at all. If he still doesn't want to use condoms, get him tested, even better, both of you, and use globules, for example. They are harmless and not expensive. But please don't get involved in such nonsense as interrupted intercourse. This is a method of delaying pregnancy, not preventing it. Contraceptives are considered to be methods with over 90% effectiveness, and this is not one of them. fungus or god forbid something worse. Not all diseases are immediately apparent or visible to the naked eye. I don't know how you got together with such a person at all. If he still doesn't want to use condoms, get him tested, even better, both of you, and use globules, for example. They are harmless and not expensive. But please don't be tied to such nonsense as interrupted intercourse. This is a method of delaying pregnancy, not preventing it. Contraception is considered to be methods with over 90% effectiveness, and this is not one of them. fungus or god forbid something worse. Not all diseases are immediately apparent or visible to the naked eye. I don't know how you got together with such a person at all. If he still doesn't want to use condoms, get him tested, even better, both of you, and use globules, for example. They are harmless and not expensive. But please don't get involved in such nonsense as interrupted intercourse. This is a method of delaying pregnancy, not preventing it. Contraceptives are considered to be methods with over 90% effectiveness, and this is not one of them. They are harmless and not expensive. But please don't get involved in such nonsense as interrupted intercourse. This is a method of postponing the pregnancy, not preventing it. Contraceptives are considered to be methods with over 90% effectiveness, and this is not one of them. They are harmless and not expensive. But please don't be tied to such nonsense as interrupted intercourse. This is a method of postponing the pregnancy, not preventing it. Contraceptives are considered to be methods with over 90% effectiveness, and this is not one of them.
And I do not use rubber bands, so it is more fun, but I carefully choose which one to sleep with and so far I have not had any exhibitions or complaints!
Believe me, in NO case without a condom, if you do not know it well enough and you are not sure if there is any disease. we forget ourselves so much that the boy can end up in you. Not to mention that you're obviously so worried that you won't even be able to relax. I don't know ... in the end you decide ... Just to tell you that because of such a thing I got big headaches (I'm a girl)
What the stork can bring you is nothing compared to other "gifts", in particular HIV and hepatitis C;) With or without an interrupted act tho ...
That's how I got pregnant. Fortunately, I wasn't as young as you. I no longer have sex without a condom.
I was like that before and I didn't want to do without a condom. My ex-boyfriend and I were only with in the beginning, then we started without, because we didn't always have in us and so on. Then they rubbed a sore on my neck and we used a condom constantly for about a year. My current friend and I were going to do it with a condom, but it was a hell of a tight fit for him, and we put on different types and I can see for myself that he's not feeling well. I've already seen how I manage without a condom and it's not a problem, I go to the gynecologist regularly and everything is fine. I also have polycystic ovaries and chronic inflammation of the fallopian tubes, so the risk of pregnancy is currently zero because I also drink contraceptives for the ovaries. By the way, there are local contraceptives of Pharmatex. Check them out, I think they're good. There is also a hormonal ring,
He doesn't respect you, you don't respect ...? !! What do you want us to tell you? You are an adult now. Obviously, in order for you to come to your senses, you have to suffer. Experience is the best teacher, really - it is expensive, but it is understandable.
My ex-boyfriend, about 30, was also not taught to use protective equipment, but after my boycott he learned. My health comes first. Yes, at first it will be nasty and strange, but it is not impossible.
I had a chick, 30 years old, with whom we used a condom. But when we went to anal, she wanted me to take it off. He said he wanted to feel him naked in the back.
Girl, wake up !!! What do you want, for some reason to get infected, to become a mother without being ready, to have abortions, to catch a disease that has consequences for a lifetime ?? The very fact that you wonder and write here does not speak well at all. You're a woman ... just because there are boys who only care about taking off their pants and being nice doesn't mean you have to be so irresponsible about your own life ...
And what did people do when there were no condoms, didn't they have sex? It is easy for women, whether they will feel the rubber or their skin, it does not matter, it is important that the piece is firm to massage, and how men feel with a gas mask on their set, they do not care. Better with an inflatable doll or a prostitute, but never with a gas mask on the set. It's like licking sugar through a jar. The tongue feels that something is licking, but no pleasure! So make families while you're young and fuck at will, without tires and other things. You also have to deal with the demographic collapse. Chinese condoms with a hole have already been ordered, this is government policy!
And number 17, do you know how much the number of sexually transmitted diseases has decreased since people started using condoms en masse. Hey, some men are very capricious, poor thing, you didn't feel anything.
From the author. Thanks to everyone for the tips. I talked to my friend. He understood my worries and we are already using condoms. I am calm and it seems that sex has become a more pleasant experience. Regarding the comments "without a condom is better". We can assume that this is so. When I decide to become a mother, I will stop using them.
Yes, I have such a case. A woman, single. We did it with a condom, but as we passed behind, he took off the condom. The first time I tried to say something, but she said there would be no problem. She had taken care, I wouldn't get dirty.
of 10 Pelvic inflammatory disease, where she described 12 as inflammation of the tubes, is also a very good example of how you can self-sterilize for life.