When I met my classmate / we are both 37 now, we are both former models and models / maybe 12-13 years after we finished school, we were both married! Something "exploded" in us and ... And so 6 years of stormy love, we both divorced, we lived together, everything was perfect and suddenly maybe after about 1 year he told me that he didn't love me anymore and left! I had provided everything, but everything you can think of! Attention, love, support for everything, understanding, car, business, vacations with friends, she didn't touch anything at home so as not to spoil her manicure, I didn't deprive her of anything, she even went out with men sometimes, but I also believed and I didn't jealous even for a second ... He went to a stupid peasant! There is no such worm, honestly! But it doesn't matter and after 6 months he came to my office again and told me that she couldn't forget me, she couldn't live without me, etc. I forgave and we lived together again, but it's not the same anymore! Dead work! I was trying to change something, we went on vacation together but on the second day I was already nervous and I wanted to go home! I don't want to be with her anymore, I don't feel good, but I also don't want to hurt her! Tell me what to do, how painlessly for her to part It is very difficult for me to decide!
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Don't hesitate. She obviously doesn't know what she wants and only plays you, but once you are convinced that you no longer want to be together, you have to tell her and look for something better than this ....
I'm taking you :) Bad situation, but I think everything is gone - you will not overcome your doubts and heal your wound. She didn't think of you then.
I think she realized that life is much easier for you, since she doesn't need to touch anything. She gives you sex and gets everything ready, when she went to this peasant she saw a certain lack, a meaning that should have been limited to something, as long as you do not have such nonsense. And she has to choose between the man she loves and the man who provides her with an easier life. Obviously, almost any woman would choose you ... let's not forget that you are both former top models and she is from the "Ladies of high class":]
I would tell you to try to forget what she did if you were still crazy about her. She's probably really back to you because your relationship makes life easier. That to go to another, to live with him for a while and only then to "feel" that you love the previous one ... But I don't want to judge her - I don't know her. Maybe she's just immature, and even though you were in her arms, she didn't realize how much she loved you, and there's a good chance, albeit a small one. BUT, once you say it's not the same anymore, it may have killed a lot of your feelings (and the thrill probably doesn't), just don't deal with it. She cut you off, you don't have to feel bad to do it yourself. I'm not saying to be vindictive, but if you don't feel good about her anymore ... In short, dump her if you're not in love anymore. And if you're still making one last attempt at this relationship, time will tell if you're for each other. Success!
Think about what she gave as a reason to go to someone else? Did you hurt her in any way? You say she didn't miss anything, are you sure? If she still can't give you a decent answer as to why she dumped you, she doesn't deserve to be with her anymore! Because most likely the other one hurt her and now she is licking her wounds so that she is not completely dry. But if you had a more serious problem that plagued her and she decided to leave, and then she realized that the problem was less important than the feelings for you, maybe you should not judge her so harshly.
If you are trying to change your mind about this woman, don't bother anymore.
Think of the saying, "If a pig eats shit, there's no giving up." I had an experience, almost identical to yours, and I believed that things could change. Time has proved that I have acted like an absolute fool ... They say that no bee escapes from honey ... - yes, my bee also returned to honey, but at the same time at the first opportunity it ate shit, but secretly in the old and other kinefi. The second time we finally parted because of the difference in smell - no matter how hard I tried I could not perceive this mixed stench with a garnish of sweet talk ... The worst happened when I stopped her honey and told her to look for another hive - little darling .. to see only a rabid bee screaming, stinging and showing its horns before it flies away .... Then it turned out that for the first time I thought right once about myself and not just about her, as a result,
She also saw the trouble with the peasant ... and that's why she came back to you, I'm sorry to tell you, but it's possible that you were used, dump her right now without blinking an eye, people learn that everyone in this world is lying and everyone is looking at their interest, be a little tougher with others and you will see how they will stop dealing with you. Kick her on the street and don't look back. She will then admit to herself why she returned.
say it and yes the truth can be like a knife but if it dumped you once don't take it a second time if you take it a second time it means you're a fool
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