Hello! Here is my story .. He is 15 and I am 14. He has a girlfriend and they have been dating for a year. This boy, the first time I saw him, I realized that in time I would have something to do with him. Then they were at the beginning of their relationship. I liked a lot of guys and a lot of guys liked me. It was always the same with the others. But with this .. How I turned my head that I keep thinking about him .. We talked for a whole year, but not very often .. Nevertheless, we had a great relationship. He is very, very kind. Hugs, smiles ... Whenever I liked a boy, I knew that he remained at the top of the list. I tried, there was no result. I didn't forget it. And here we have been writing to each other every day for a week ... I went out with him and another girl and then he sent me to us when she left. I'm already hellishly confused. Should I wait for them to separate and then act ... We already share personal things with him and everything is different .. Before I was looking for him, and now he is looking for me. Do you think I should give up? I feel like I have to fight ... I knew when to give up with the other boys, but here ... it's different here.
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Abe people, that's it! Make genetic combinations at will. Just look at someone who impregnated someone and from this youthful "mistake" the future Mozart or Einstein was born ... When you lose, you don't know what you gain and vice versa!
Don't listen to number one, he doesn't give you good advice, if you can give him advice. Listen, if he likes you, he will leave his girlfriend and go with you, but I don't want to break your illusions and he can only perceive you as a friend. He does not jump to conclusions about this.
I'll tell you something from personal experience, and if you want, listen to me. I fell in love with a boy, and he had a boyfriend, the case is the same as yours. We went out with him and other friends, I hadn't seen his boyfriend live and one day he admitted to me that he loved her, but he also had feelings for me. We started kissing and I thought he was mine now. He loved her, but I was a great pleasure to him, he kept smiling at me and finally broke up with her and went with me. We were supposed to be fine, but they wrote to each other, he began to hesitate if he really wanted me, why he broke up with her, it became a big mess. I was always worried they wouldn't see each other. Eventually he reunited with her, after a while they broke up again and I fell in love with him again and we reunited and until recently we were together and he claims that he only wants me, but now that we broke up he is with her again and I decided to have them. leaves finds. Just don't separate them, don't cause it, try not to kiss, because it will be like mine. If they break up for another reason, wait 2-3 months for his feelings for her to subside. At the moment you will be the third wheel, the superfluous in this case, you will incur the wrath of that girl and a bunch of problems. You will miss a lot of pain and nerves if you listen to me.
Put yourself in his girlfriend's shoes, would you like someone trying to steal it from you? Then do what you want.
I think you should tell him that if things continue like this, the commitment becomes serious for you. If he feels the same way, talk to him and tell him to break up with his current girlfriend, and then get in touch. Put yourself in her place. Monkeys should not grab a new branch before releasing the old one. Tell him. Success! USA
I would not separate them in any case, I will even be happy if he is happy. I just have feelings for him. Unfortunately for me, the other problem is that none of my friends think that he is for me, even though they support me .. This is also very unpleasant .. If there is nothing good to say about him, they are not silent. Anyway, I will write if something happens. The author
I support number 2
wait for them to break and then do whatever you want