Hello, I need to share what is bothering me ... I have a boyfriend and we have been 'in love' for almost a year. The problem is that he has some special attitude towards my sister and that infuriates me a lot, I'm not saying that my sister is to blame, but he ... constantly tells me that he loves me, etc. the familiar promises. He also always waits for me to look for him - he would never think to be the first to call me or write to me. I'm tormented by the thought that I'm tired of him, but he doesn't want to tell me so as not to hurt me ... :( I'm very naughty and I love him very much to leave him, I can't do 1 day without to hear or see ... Am I tired of him and I'm suffocating him or am I suggesting to myself because whenever I raise this topic he tells me that I'm not well, that I have something, etc ...: (( (tell me Ah, yes, I'm 18, he's 21. Also, let's note that we have a sex life ...
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Well, it's not that crazy - if he likes you, he'll like your sister. And my boyfriend likes my sister, she's a nice girl. Even she's a lot older than me, but he still likes her. Why not. Funny thing, because I know nothing can ever happen between them. Apparently she dreams of a threesome with our twins, isn't it forbidden? I dream of Brother Pitt too, but I know it won't happen. I am not jealous of him, I prefer to treat my sister kindly and carefully than the other way around. Think about it - there is no real danger, and just because you like your sister doesn't mean she doesn't love you.
I don't know about the problem with your sister. And for the other - try not to call him for a day or two until he remembers to call, when you're tired you call him and if he picks you up tell him "Should I have called you first again" in an angry tone and his close. Then, if he calls you, shut him up, if he calls, pick him up again and tell him to come to you. When he came, hug him and tell him that you were angry with him. He will be confused, but he will remember to call you another time (of course, when you tell him that you are angry with him, he will ask why, and you explain the truth to him and kiss him). That way you won't even raise scandals for nothing. REMEMBER: TURN THE BOYS ON YOUR LITTLE FINGER, NOT YOU ON ... YOURSELF !!!
How was it that he called you first when you didn't give him a chance, don't call him for two days and you'll see that he will call. And for your sister there is an old saying "he who has a bulldog is. Is two butts"