Hello! I am a 21-year-old woman, I have been dating a man who has a wife and is 6 years old. We see each other every week, we had sex with her. He is nice to his family, he looks after his child, he takes him to the garden, they go for walks, but apparently his relationship with his wife is lame somewhere, I haven't asked him about her, I don't think she's right. So my question is what to do, to continue this relationship, I'm a little afraid not to fall in love, because then only I will be disappointed ..
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How can such a thing! And if you are in the place of his wife and cheats on you, simply because something is lame in the relationship! When something is lame in the relationship sits down and talks, if the problem can not be solved, people separate, and they are not humiliated by divisions. Time will pass, you will have a family and you will understand what nonsense you are doing. If he is divorced or he is going to divorce, things are different. And men who get divorced because of people like you are one.
Go with the role of a sex toy ... Life is one as you call it in those years, experience it like rags!
Of so many free men, did you go to a married man? Weren't men left free? I understand if you didn't know it was family to start any kind of relationship, but since you know that the man has a wife and a child, how do you even start building a love or sexual relationship? Everyone with his mind, of course, but he put himself in his wife's shoes a little. If after a while your husband goes out with a 21-year-old chick and you take the child home, will it be okay for you? Even if he is the most handsome, smart, funny man, he has a limit that must not be crossed. No matter how much he turns your head, think a little and end the relationship. And no, not only will you be disappointed, his wife will be even more disappointed if she finds out, believe me.
Stop it as soon as possible or you will suffer a lot. He is having fun with a young mistress and looking after his family and what future do you expect with him? Find a suitable and single man do not deal with k. wrestler (sorry, but it looks like this from the sides, I've seen other similar views and they are not beautiful at all)
The very fact that you ask us if you should continue to see each other ... Ask yourself the following questions: - Would you like something more serious? This means leaving his wife and child for you, will you be OK with that and won't you feel bad? -In your opinion, after he cheats on his wife, will he be faithful to you? "Would you like to be a second violin?" You don't know what their relationship is, I don't know why you got married to a married man, weren't there other single men and what do you expect from this relationship? Bluebell
Don't deal with this person. Even if he divorces and you reunite, you will never relax to have full confidence in him, knowing how he cheated on his wife. It will always bother you that the same thing will happen to you.
I personally believe that there is no future for such a relationship. He uses you to entertain his apparently less interesting wife or family life. He has already fulfilled his duty - he is married, has a child, takes care of them at least ostensibly. But on holidays you will always be with them, and you will be alone. Now is the time for you to look for a free person and a person who wants a future with you. Married only happens if you seek only material gain and discretion, but not a future and real protection.
Do not.
You're wasting your time with this man. It's full of single men your age with whom you can build something valuable. In 10 years, most of them will be busy, so it's really not worth wasting time.
Another bitch, who has stuck to a married man, to diversify his boring family life. That she was afraid he wouldn't fall in love ... So until now you let him play sports like that? Everything comes back sooner or later - I hope one day your husband fucks someone like you and you roar at home.
You are still naive. Was something lame? And is that how problems are solved? Either they decide there at home, or they separate! And is he really lame? Or does he just like it? I do not blame you. He is the one who is bound and if he wants something side, he will find it. If it's not you, it will be different. But decide for yourself if you want to be the one to cheat on. F31
Think about what you want from this relationship. Because he only wants sex from her. They're tired, it's normal. You'll shake for a while longer and that's it. Just because you have sex doesn't mean she loves you and she doesn't. You are a young and free girl and you will catch the line like nothing. Then you will roar at the current ballads, and he will lean gently next to his wife. One thing to know - when this happens, do not transfer and do not look for fault. These things just happen, that's it.
What perspective do you think your relationship has? What do you think will be the situation in four years?
Do you distinguish between "and" and "her"?
Go with him while you like, but be discreet and do not divorce him.
And where exactly do you go out with this man, author :) It hardly takes you for walks. Why do you complicate your life? To make him happy? Young girl, stop this story. That things can go very wrong.
How many more such topics will you release? If you type it, a hundred will appear in the search engine. Author, I very much hope that the story will not be repeated with you, you will see how nasty, ugly it is and not to say that these are actions of cowards.
It's funny how many women are ashamed to go out with a man who lives with their mother, and they are not ashamed to go out with a man who lives with his wife ... What's the matter?
* Is his relationship with his wife lame? !! - No, sometimes there are no problems in the family, but routine and inconsistency push them to infidelity. No man will admit that in fact everything is fine with his wife, and he uses a mistress for variety, because we women are not used to sincerity. We want to be the only ones, to be a priority №1 in someone's heart, etc. That's why men lie to us so that they can have sex and a little company. * You realize that only you will be disappointed. "Then why are you still seeing him?" There is no point in such "connections", because you will lose your youth this way. There are a lot of single men, you can have an even better time with them. Today you are 20, tomorrow you are 30, and what will you achieve in life? !! - Mary