Hello, I am writing for advice about my friend, with whom we have been together recently. I think that with him we are already completing the process of getting to know each other and I noticed a feature that irritates me very much. He has no opinion of his own. Whatever I say, he agrees. It happens very often that we talk about X, he says what he thinks, I say what I think (something different) and he immediately agrees with me, admitting that I'm actually right. He constantly monitors my mood, does everything I do. I go to the gym, he went to the gym. I decided to give up because it was too suffocating for me to even play sports together, and he gave up. Somewhere ago, somewhere, I wanted to break up because of this fact, and I told him that I no longer felt the way I used to, he told me that he felt the same way. The next day he came to my door half-torn, begging me for a second chance and how he didn't think the things he had said the night before. I'm very exhausted from this whole relationship and this person, but I'm still sick. I'm thinking of breaking up with him next time we see each other, so I hope everything goes painlessly for both parties!
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I want to scold you as a cart driver, but then they won't publish my comment ... Why don't you tell him to stop? You women rarely talk about your problems, then break up with us and put all the blame on us. Instead of arguing with him about such a trifle, you can explain to him, maybe he just wants to spend more time with you, and you will dump him? ...
If the man does not respect your opinion - bad. If you're still right - bad again. Do you know exactly what you want or are you trying to feel better?
So both to be concerned and to do what you want, and to have his own opinion and to do what he wants and to dominate, but also to listen. Leave it to the boy, let him find a girl who will appreciate the fact that she neglects herself and only for you to be well. You will find the master, it's not scary. Everyone gets what they deserve in the end. Don't play the boy.
Get to know the boy first before you change him. You definitely don't love him when you're going to break up with him for such nonsense. He probably loves you and wants you to like him as he understands him. He has no experience and that's why he behaves like that. You can't be with someone recently and claim to have passed the dating stage.
There is nothing worse than having a boyfriend who wants to be around you non-stop, just not leaving you and going to the toilet alone ... This is a guaranteed way to end such a relationship, in my opinion this is a disgusting scenario, I do not wish it on anyone! And even more so in combination with the lack of any character ... I will not be surprised if he is a young boy who does not know where he is! Such people are repulsive! Please don't do it!
To number 5. You are obviously a woman who is still dissatisfied and changes men like handkerchiefs, if you have such an opinion, I understand the job. Desperate creatures are women ..
Well, I'm in big mistake number 6. I had a relationship and since then I've understood what you men are like and that it's hard to meet a really decent and good boy.
<5> - enter a monastery. There no one will follow you to the kenef;)
What do you want from life? What are you striving for? Are you emotionally stable? Are you monogamous? Are you in love? Are you perfect? I have many questions that will be difficult for you to answer. If you have a "tough" man who doesn't shy away from arguing with you, doesn't shy away from scolding and getting angry - will you put up with him? !! Of course not, we women are always right, we do not accept another answer as true. And if you have a "soft" man who trembles when you argue, does not argue with you, pleases you - will you tolerate him? !! The answer is no. But why? Because we have something, but we want the other - that's what it says: "there is no pleasure". Appreciate what you have, because once you lose it it will be too late. Tip: Find yourself, learn what you finally want, don't get into relationships before you fix your problem.
To number 6, and how did you determine the girl from the comment, she said it very precisely, a man who has no opinion and his own life, by the way, this also applies to women, is not a full-fledged person. He alone cannot build a relationship for this reason. I explain it to you because the work is clear to you.
Up to 6 Men are just as desperate, so things are even