About two months ago I broke up with my boyfriend, we were together for two years, we lived together, we got along well. But I broke up with him because of another man who is nine years older than me and my parents do not approve of our relationship. The other one because of whom I ended my relationship makes me very angry, we fought often and now alone. I am very confused and I do not know what to do and with one I am fine with the other but when I am with one I miss the other and vice versa. Indeed, on the one hand, I understand that my two-year relationship was not just that, and that this man is holding on to me. But when I hear the voice of the older one, I feel sick and start crying. Please advise me what to do and they both tell me they love me.
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I have heard that when one cannot choose between the two, it is best to give up both. Obviously none of them is enough alone, if you understand what I mean.
From my point of view, it would be better to stay with your friend, not for anything else, but because two years is a long time and you got to know this person, my habits, his reactions, and other things you know about him, he may leave tomorrow. and you will be left alone. Good luck :)
From two chairs on the ground, huh?
I was like that too .... it's very unpleasant ... in the end what is written to you will happen. I hope you are for good and you are happy.
off a lot of naughty.and I was in this situation.and while choosing and wondering, my serious longtime friend was tired of waiting for him, and deleted me from his life.and I stayed with the big one, and nothing happened because I realized how much I loved my ex-boyfriend, and what exactly I lost, but too late. I couldn't get it back, and for a long time I couldn't forget it, even today when I remember him, for my first true love I wonder what It would have been if I hadn't done so. But I can't figure it out. Poems on one path, we can't know what's on the other, it could be better or worse. and I am not, because there is no guarantee that if I had stayed with him, at some point he would not have chosen another. so that no one knows what is the right decision to tell you. only you.because you will live with the consequences
and I was like that, it was even soon, .and now I'm alone, but I want my long-term relationship, but he no longer wants me after all this ... so think hard..so it's better to stay alone for some time to judge best
What did you decide in the end, what happened?
I went to the other and now at times I'm very sorry I'm sorry because it doesn't change and in the end things are the same