Hello! I've been reading stories here for a long time and I decided to share mine. I'm 15 and in 8th grade I moved to a bigger city and at first I thought it wasn't my place, but then I became friends with a lot of people and things changed. There were a lot of fun and cool people in the new class, we liked them. This year I got close to one of the boys in the class and at first everything was great, he wrote to me, we talked at school, helped each other with homework, etc. After a while I thought I was feeling something for him, but I quickly realized that I just I like him as a friend and I don't want to be with him anymore. However, a few days ago he started avoiding me, he didn't write to me, he didn't greet me ... He had told a girl in our class and a boy in the other that he felt that I liked him (and that wasn't exactly the case). ) and laughed at me. I asked the girl in my class to tell him that I don't like him that way and that we can still be friends as before and he doesn't need to avoid me. Naturally, she embellished the story a little and had told him that some boy from my hometown was coming to beat him ... and he became super dumb. In class, he asked me in front of everyone "Is it true that someone will come to beat me" and started laughing. I felt bad and said "no", what else can I say? Towards the end of the class, I asked him to tell me what time it was, because our phones were ringing and he had a watch, but he told me to see for myself. Then the boy sitting next to me also asked him what time it was and he answered him and shouted "Because of you I will say but otherwise not to this one". then he told me that I already hated him and I was totally ruined. I was silent. But when I left, he started making fun of my hometown, saying that it was a village, it was not on the map ... . I wanted to cry. And my questions are: 1. Why did he start behaving like that, even if I really liked him so much, is this a mockery? 2. Can I somehow fix our relationship because I want to be nice again ... or at least be on good terms, we will still be in the same class for another 3 years and I don't want to argue with anyone. 3. If we still don't get along, how can I make him stop talking nonsense about me to other people in the class, and not just because they obviously believe him?
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Either the whole nation has degraded, or just the same person is releasing these fake topics. Each such topic begins with who started studying where and in which group he joined and how you found your partner there, etc. the same thing over and over again. Oh, stop now.
Someone said something to him, but whatever it was, a real boy wouldn't do that. Either talk to him and tell him the truth, or watch his work.
Author, man is not for you. You may not understand it yet because you are too good and you want it to be the same with you, but sometimes you have to be firm. Answer the same, at least I would do so and I know it's not very correct. He doesn't even become an acquaintance ... he can't suddenly like you and then insult you like that. Please don't deal with it, it's just not worth making fun of. I know you don't deserve it, and you're a good girl who just met the wrong people. Avoid people like him. Try to be strong and pretend you don't care. Good luck and tell us what happened next!
Be prepared that this is life. There will always be intriguing people and scoundrels in the teacher and at work and in the family. And this little villain who believed gossip and is now mocking you doesn't deserve attention. Ignore him. This is stronger than hatred or ridicule. It's as if he's gone. Let him wonder what they told you about him. Or just gossip about him. Let him see how good it is to justify yourself and let no one believe you. Also keep in mind that at this age, boys have the nasty trait of making fun of and harassing the object of their desires. It sounds funny but it's a fact
Number 2, you are very right that the same man (woman) writes fictional stories out of boredom and a desire to be the center of attention. She also suffers from grandiosity. Not only that, she is not 15, but when you add another 47 years. Interestingly, the site publishes all her inventions. Notice how all such stories are similar and have very slight changes. Almost everyone starts with, "Hello, I'm a girl of 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21" and so on. The years change, but the content is more or less the same. At first everything goes well, but then the boy or the man becomes very bad, and she is so good with everyone. This woman hates men and she will always find a reason to accuse them of all sins. But look how n. 4 and n. 5 (women) trust her completely. I have long understood that women believe everything written, especially when it comes to bad male behavior. Moderators, please post my comment.