Hello, I want to tell you my story: I work and live in Turkey. I am in love with a man I thought I would never meet. He is a very handsome and intelligent man, a man who knows how to behave with a woman. I can just say about him a dream man for every girl ... we love each other a lot but the problem is that I am not a virgin. He insists on virginity and religion ... he tells me that I don't need to change my religion because of him and love, to celebrate Muslim holidays but only wants me to be a virgin. And he proposed to me, but how can I tell him that I'm not a virgin, if I tell him everything will be over, if he leaves me, that means the end of me ... uff, please give me advice ...
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In my opinion, if this person loves you and really wants you to be together, he will experience it. Plus, if he doesn't make you change your religion, it means to me that he respects yours, according to which you can enjoy life even before marriage. You have to tell him, I guess he will have a hard time, but if you are convincing enough and you really love each other and want to be together, everything will be fine. Success!
In my opinion, this betrays in a way that it requires you to comply with some rigid order related to his religion, and in my opinion this is just the beginning. If you can't accept that a woman can be with other men before marriage, better think about whether you need a "Turk" next to you if you understand what I mean!
Come to Bulgaria, where there are surgeons who restore the hymen !!
If he expects you to be a virgin, I guess you're quite young. Judge if it's time for you. The opinion of 2 is quite mature, think hard.
do not lie with the creation of a family, it will create a lot of problems for you in the future! The best and most difficult thing is the truth!
According to the Christian religion, you should also be both virgins before marriage, as well as according to the Muslim religion ... something that men do not even suspect and if he really cares about you, he will be with you without you being a virgin, and if you caress him, he you respect you will tell him the truth. only brave people are real
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Darling, don't be fooled! It is not true that he will not ask you to change your religion, habits, etc. Now he tells you so, but when you get married you will see what happens! It may not make you officially change your religion, but since he is now a great gentleman, a kind, dream man, you will not notice when you will put on the veil and rush to wash his feet in the evening, and on Muslim holidays you will make baklava next to his mom. In my opinion, this man is either overwhelmed to want a virgin, or he has now invented his life - how will there be a slave girl at home, and he will find his pleasures outside. And what kind of love are you talking about? You haven't had sex ... Aren't you 12 years old? Sex is so normal when you reach a certain age, of course; it's like breathing - you can't do without it. Don't be hypocritical in front of yourself and in front of him - don't bother to have surgery to restore your virginity. This is nonsense! The doctor will sew you up and you will already be a virgin - come on! Who will you lie like this - yourself or him? Don't do nonsense! Well, imagine that, as you love him very much now, you do this simple thing with the operation, lie to him, then the first wedding night - ah, idyll - and it turns out that he is an absolute fool in bed. What are you going to do, then? If he really cares about you, he will accept you as you are and fight all his petrified relatives and he will be with you again. Don't let him blame you for being a real woman. He wanted a virgin - but in what century does he live? Isn't he a pedophile? Who will you lie like this - yourself or him? Don't do nonsense! Well, imagine that, as you love him very much now, you do this simple thing with the operation, lie to him, then the first wedding night - ah, idyll - and it turns out that he is an absolute fool in bed. What are you going to do, then? If he really cares about you, he will accept you as you are and fight with all his petrified relatives and he will be with you again. Don't let him blame you for being a real woman. He wanted a virgin - but in what century does he live? Isn't he a pedophile? Who will you lie like this - yourself or him? Don't do nonsense! Well, imagine that, as you love him very much now, you do this simple thing with the operation, you lie to him, then the first wedding night - ah, idyll - and it turns out that he is an absolute jerk in bed. What are you going to do, then? If he really cares about you, he will accept you as you are and fight all his petrified relatives and he will be with you again. Don't let him blame you for being a real woman. He wanted a virgin - but in what century does he live? Isn't he a pedophile? he will accept you as you are and he will fight with all his petrified relatives and he will be with you again. Don't let him blame you for being a real woman. He wanted a virgin - but in what century does he live? Isn't he a pedophile? he will accept you as you are and he will fight with all his petrified relatives and he will be with you again. Don't let him blame you for being a real woman. He wanted a virgin - but in what century does he live? Isn't he a pedophile?
If you are a Christian, run away from a representative of Islam! There are no more conservative people. he may even want you to change your religion! Run, girl! And take according to your faith! Run! life is ahead of you! Don't ruin yourself! There will be no flower garden, no Easter, no Christmas ... no .....
From experience I tell you, where pork is not eaten, just do not step!
Hello, "hell holds on to virginity and religion ..." I'll tell you something that can disappoint you or make you happy, you don't know. Your friend doesn't care so much about religion, because otherwise he wouldn't have a girlfriend ... However, if we accept that he is a real religious person who lives Islam, then he can marry you, even if you are a Christian. Virginity is not a precondition for Islamic marriage, because both divorced and widowed people have the right to marry. The Prophet Muhammad, who should be an example of your friend, who is considered very religious, had only one wife who was a virgin at marriage. In Islam, any intimate relations between a man and a woman are forbidden, both for a man and a woman - without exception! But this does not mean that if a woman - e.g. non-muslim, later converted to Islam or a Muslim woman who did not know how to behave or, God forbid, a raped girl - so that someone who is not a virgin can not marry. I don't know the boy, he may be good and a believer, but if this is something very important to him, ask yourself why there are any doubts at all ... Islam and tradition are two different things and there is no more humane religion in this world than Islam. Beware of traditionalism and get acquainted with Islam. And how does he want to know if you're a virgin? I'm not bleeding ... Islam and tradition are two different things, and there is no more humane religion in this world than Islam. Beware of traditionalism and get acquainted with Islam. And how does he want to know if you're a virgin? I'm not bleeding ... Islam and tradition are two different things, and there is no more humane religion in this world than Islam. Beware of traditionalism and get acquainted with Islam. And how does he want to know if you're a virgin? I'm not bleeding ...
I do not think that Islam is the most humane religion in this world, it is enough to look at the penalties of Sharia and we can draw our own conclusions. All the best!
Hello dear! I just want to give you an example with my girlfriend ... It all started when she went to Turkey on vacation! There she fell in love with a man ... he proposed marriage to her after about a year, before that he was kind and treated her like a goddess, after the wedding things were very different, now she is there I don't even know how, because he doesn't let her talk to her friends! A month ago she came for a few days, and I couldn't recognize her! She is too deluded and no longer thinks of herself! Do you think that you deserve to be treated like a puppet! Why don't you tell him you're not a virgin if he loves you he'll understand! Do not underestimate yourself, because everyone has the right to live his life as he wants and to do with it whatever he decides! Be very strong, I wish you true happiness!
Oleee ole and I am a Christian and I am married to a Muslim, so what am I up to with him, even this is up to a person illiterate, they only think that about Muslim men. You dear men in Turkey, men behave better with their wives than Bulgarian men. And one more thing, 70 million people live there, maybe more, and everyone is different. In front of me in a luxury cafe killed a woman, theft I do not know what how men will be calm when their wives are on the street in such a case. You all say something you don't know why and you don't ask why ajaba is like that. One piece of advice from me, if you really love him and trust him, tell him the truth why it happened, etc. Don't listen to those [censored] here who pretend to be smart and write various comments. I have lived in Turkey for 10 years and I know what it is. what is it. And if you live there and you know, don't listen to anyone, act in your own way SUCCESS
I am a Muslim, I am currently dating a Christian woman and a girl who professes Islam. At the moment there is nothing bad except that as a "pomak" I go with 2 girls, BUT I repeat it for all "BUT", I love one, I am with the other because of the insistence of the parents. I'm already 18 and I'm single, which means I repeat "I" deciding what to do with my life. And I want the Christian because I know I love her and she loves me, but even though the girl of my religion loves me, there is a question, "What should I do?" I let my heart respond. I don't care about anyone. This in my life. Like yours, etc. Everyone decides their own future ............ I want tomorrow, another day, etc. , as I have children from one of you, let them be mine, not the neighbor's! THANK YOU!
I also go with a Turk, things are already very deep, we are about to get married. But he was born in Bulgaria and has a different way of thinking. I know of his acquaintances - they live in Turkey, you know, if you marry a Turk, your life is over, darling. They have nothing for the woman. They closely perform their rituals and traditions, even in recent years things have tightened there. I know and I understand you very well and I am in a similar situation, but he will make you change your religion. His family will excommunicate him otherwise. In addition, for them, if someone attracts a non-believer to become a Muslim, it is believed that after his death he will go to Paradise. Consider yourself a Turk if you marry him. I think that it can change a little less (but very difficult !!!) if you pull him away from his family - they listen to their families. Success!
Are the Bulgarians over?
Are you done with the Bulgarians that you started looking for Turks. Now they are behaving well, but then they will veil you to the shame of their mothers and fathers. It may be funny, but it's more or less the job. And not a word about divorce. If you are in Turkey they will award everything to the man because you are foreigners and you will come back ashamed here. Think good!
WE STILL LIVE IN THE 21ST CENTURY. RELIGION MAY BE IMPORTANT TO HIM, BUT TELL HIM AND IF HE LOVES YOU ENOUGH, HE WILL UNDERSTAND YOU ENOUGH, YET YOU DIDN'T KNOW THAT YOU WOULD MEET HIM AND THAT HE WOULD HAPPEN. PLUS THAT, HE CAN ONLY TALK TO HIMSELF, BUT THEN HE MAKES YOU CHANGE YOUR RELIGION, BUT YOU STILL KNOW WHAT A PERSON IS LIKE AND YOU HAVE TO DO IT YOURSELF !!! GOOD LUCK
Hello! I have also been in a relationship with a Turk for 6 years. He is an emigrant. I am currently facing a dilemma - I have to decide what to do - he wants to develop in Turkey, because he thinks we will be better there - there will be work for him. However, I am very scared - I don't know the language, now I have a prestigious job, and I won't be able to do anything here. I know that everything is achieved with desire. I'm really confused - it's the hardest thing for my parents, my family - mine don't know yet, they understood his soon and they are not fascinated. So far they have not told him anything because he is in the barracks. It is hellishly difficult when you have to make such a fateful decision. I love him, he is my boy, the man who wraps me and hugs me in his sleep at night, the man who cried for me. I know that the problems will start after the marriage - although everything is up to the setting - to inner balance. Religion has not mattered so far - he enjoys when we fuck with eggs, I love baklava. I don't feel his religion and he doesn't feel mine. It will never happen and we both know it. About sex - the greatest - think about my pleasure. As for virginity, I don't bleed either. I think you have to be honest with him - tell him everything - believe me, I currently live in lies for 6 years and I can't sleep at night - I hide my relationship with him from parents - from acquaintances and this is my biggest error. You have to be honest with him or it doesn't make sense. Regarding a relationship - marriage with a Turk, a Bulgarian, etc. - I may be biased and I have the same thoughts in my head, but there is no guarantee for these things. For a successful marriage, I don't think anyone has written a recipe yet. Good luck, darling, and be honest with him! when we fuck with eggs, I love baklava. I don't feel his religion and he doesn't feel mine. It will never happen and we both know it. About sex - the greatest - think about my pleasure. As for virginity, I don't bleed either. I think you should be honest with him - tell him everything - believe me, I currently live in lies for 6 years and I can not sleep at night - I hide my relationship with him from parents - from acquaintances and this is my biggest error. You have to be honest with him or it doesn't make sense. Regarding a relationship - marriage with a Turk, a Bulgarian, etc. - I may be biased and I have the same thoughts in my head, but there is no guarantee for these things. For a successful marriage, I don't think anyone has written a recipe yet. Good luck, darling, and be honest with him! when we fuck with eggs, I love baklava. I don't feel his religion and he doesn't feel mine. It will never happen and we both know it. About sex - the greatest - think about my pleasure. As for virginity, I don't bleed either. I think you have to be honest with him - tell him everything - believe me, I currently live in lies for 6 years and I can't sleep at night - I hide my relationship with him from parents - from acquaintances and this is my biggest error. You have to be honest with him or it doesn't make sense. Regarding a relationship - marriage with a Turk, a Bulgarian, etc. - I may be biased and I have the same thoughts in my head, but there is no guarantee for these things. For a successful marriage, I don't think anyone has written a recipe yet. Good luck, darling, and be honest with him! It will never happen and we both know it. About sex - the greatest - think about my pleasure. As for virginity, I don't bleed either. I think you should be honest with him - tell him everything - believe me, I currently live in lies for 6 years and I can not sleep at night - I hide my relationship with him from parents - from acquaintances and this is my biggest error. You have to be honest with him or it doesn't make sense. Regarding a relationship - marriage with a Turk, a Bulgarian, etc. - I may be biased and I have the same thoughts in my head, but there is no guarantee for these things. For a successful marriage, I don't think anyone has written a recipe yet. Good luck, darling, and be honest with him! It will never happen and we both know it. About sex - the greatest - think about my pleasure. As for virginity, I don't bleed either. I think you have to be honest with him - tell him everything - believe me, I currently live in lies for 6 years and I can't sleep at night - I hide my relationship with him from parents - from acquaintances and this is my biggest error. You have to be honest with him or it doesn't make sense. Regarding a relationship - marriage with a Turk, a Bulgarian, etc. - I may be biased and I have the same thoughts in my head, but there is no guarantee for these things. For a successful marriage, I don't think anyone has written a recipe yet. Good luck, darling, and be honest with him! I think you should be honest with him - tell him everything - believe me, I currently live in lies for 6 years and I can not sleep at night - I hide my relationship with him from parents - from acquaintances and this is my biggest error. You have to be honest with him or it doesn't make sense. Regarding a relationship - marriage with a Turk, a Bulgarian, etc. - I may be biased and I have the same thoughts in my head, but there is no guarantee for these things. For a successful marriage, I don't think anyone has written a recipe yet. Good luck, darling, and be honest with him! I think you have to be honest with him - tell him everything - believe me, I currently live in lies for 6 years and I can't sleep at night - I hide my relationship with him from parents - from acquaintances and this is my biggest error. You have to be honest with him or it doesn't make sense. Regarding a relationship - marriage with a Turk, a Bulgarian, etc. - I may be biased and I have the same thoughts in my head, but there is no guarantee for these things. For a successful marriage, I don't think anyone has written a recipe yet. Good luck, darling, and be honest with him! but there is no guarantee for these things. For a successful marriage, I don't think anyone has written a recipe yet. Good luck, darling, and be honest with him! but there is no guarantee for these things. For a successful marriage, I don't think anyone has written a recipe yet. Good luck, darling, and be honest with him!
Hello "21"! I was very moved by your confession! I really hope you see what I will write! I admire your love for this person and your strength to keep it for 6 years now. I experience almost the same. I am in love with a Turk. He is my Great Love, the meaning of my life. We have been together recently but the time spent with Him is enough for me to answer the most important questions for me. I am already aware of myself: I love Him and I would spend my life with Him, but will I have the courage and strength to face everything and everyone to defend their love and especially against my mother and father. Of all things, I'm most afraid of hurting him. I would not forgive him. He is not a toy that I can throw away when I want, he is a living being and he feels and if I hurt him (maybe the words are strong) but I better die. He has asked me many times when I will introduce him to ours and I do not have the courage to tell him that he will hardly ever be accepted and I am torn internally. So I wanted to ask you how your man accepts everything? 6 years is not small and in order not to have the courage to tell your parents about this period, maybe you have a good reason. Maybe they are like mine. I will be happy if you can write to me here. If not, let me at least wish you even more strength and patience. Be VERY HAPPY !!!
In my opinion, going to Turkey, veiling, accepting another religion is a step backwards. The world is developing at a breakneck pace, especially in the West, where women have absolutely equal rights. I don't know how old you are, but is it worth a love = a life?
I've been dating a Turk for 3 years and we've been having sex since we knew each other, and he even offered me marriage, but he never told me I had to be a virgin. He also professes Islam, but that doesn't stop him from getting married as I'm not a virgin. I don't know, think hard, obviously not all Turks are the same!
Hi 22. I am 21 - what codes: -) ... only now I saw your comment. He knows that my parents may not accept him, and I know that his parents may not accept me. Today he even told me that his mother told me about a teacher from her school who was very beautiful. And mostly from theirs - a Turkish emigrant. Yes, emigrants in Turkey only want to marry each other. He castrated her, but it is clear what are the attitudes towards our relationship. I have not yet gathered the courage to say - I can no longer stand it and I do not know when I will gather courage. I am most annoyed because I am a big woman and I am afraid as a student. Don't ask me how I hid during those years - at one point they understood, but I said it was over. My mother asks me from time to time - I think the problem is that I have never shared with ours, and they have not predisposed me ... offf..I don't know .... don't worry about your boy - be honest with him - this is the way - he will understand you. You will hurt him if you hide the truth from him. Good luck...
Why did so many people die to defend our self-confidence from the Turks, and in the end you will work for them and offer yourself to them. What kind of BULGARIAN are you? Shame on all known and unknown warriors who died for our freedom.
Abe, what kind of Bulgarians are you ???
I read several confessions on such a topic: love between Bulgarians and Turks; and from everything read the problem seems to come from the Turks. Their religion is more rigid, they do not accept women as equals. I have known Turks (they are a man and a woman) and he does what he wants, it is temerut and the fact that they live in God does not mean that their thinking will be less rigid and limited. I'm tired of listening to Turkish in Gd. I am not limited - we are still in the 21st century, I accept other religions and races, but more or less we are in God, the official language is Bulgarian. I also had a Turkish friend, but there was nothing but kisses: whatever? Still, he knows he has to marry a girl of his religion. So my thought is Bulgarian, like men of our faith, why do you need to complicate your life? And don't think that sweet talk and kind behavior won't change now that you're married. Isn't that what happens with other marriages?
Hello. No matter how much you love each other, you should know that the problem with the family will always be on your side. When you are young you do not realize it, but the more time passes the more obvious it becomes. I am Turkish and although I live in a big city and I was born here, we are always seen here as second-hand people and what is left is to go with a Bulgarian. As for? girl, you should know that if the boy is a native Turk, then virginity is very important to him, no matter what others tell you, but if he is an emigrant from here, you may not have a problem. It's best to tell him so at least there will be no unpleasant surprises for you the next morning
I can't understand why everyone gives extreme opinions. Why we should be extreme and categorical in our thinking. Life brings surprises and we all know that. What if we say "no" or "never"? Do we insure ourselves this way? Or rather, we calm down and keep our fingers crossed that it will not happen to us. Let's think realistically and put our hand on our heart - we are rigid brains - but not only in our country. Differences frighten people, but that's how today's humanity "popped up". Unfortunately, these differences are not smoothed out by tears, weapons, shed blood, but by time .... Unfortunately, the year 2100 does not suit you or me, because there is no mention of us. The bottom line is that we don't have time to break down and put categories together. We just have to live .........
Wanting a virgin to marry a Turk - so what. And you girl, don't let yourself be commanded from now on, because that's how your life will go - under a slipper. Do not think that in a foreign family and especially in Turkey you will have the right to vote and opinion. And even if he accepts you as you are, he will tell you all his life that you were not honest. So think very well - in Bulgaria there are also men - a dream.
Undoubtedly, no matter how well the relations between Bulgarians and Turks develop (or so it may seem), in the bottom of my soul I will know that they are narrow-minded and retrograde people who will always look at us Bulgarians as GYAURI - infidels! It is no coincidence that there is no female gender in Turkish! We all know how love comes and goes ... Let no woman be deceived to go to live in Turkey - in the beginning it is a fairy tale, and then you understand that its author is Stephen King and the way back is difficult and requires a lot of money, connections and nerves ... I don't hate the Turks, but let me live there - in Turkey and let us live here - in Bulgaria!
Hello! I read all the reviews. Well, I don't know what to think ... You all (almost) give such extreme opinions. I currently have a Muslim friend. He is not a Turk, but an Arab. We are thinking of getting married. The question of whether I am a virgin has never been before us. We make love from the beginning. Because we think it is very important that you enjoy sex. Not the most important, but important enough. My mother knows I'm with him. They talk on the phone. I was a guest of his family and I was infinitely pleased. It is so rare to see people in their 60s who love each other so much. It is true that they do not live with him, but in Europe, but so what. We have talked to him many times about the enmity between these two religions. He doesn't want me to change my religion. There are things that are important to him, but I don't think for anyone who holds and respects himself they would be a ptoblem. For example, in the place where he still lives, it is better not to wear a very short skirt. And that's because if you're short, they think of a prostitute. There are many of them. And as we often joke, we find a middle solution (an option that can be the age for both). :)))))) I think that whether the religion is different would not be a problem. Proto is individual. The man is really wonderful. There are always conflicts and different understandings, whether you preach one or different religions. You just have to judge the person before making such a decision. I'd rather change some small things in myself (I say small, but it's general) than lose a great person. There are also divorces, so it's not the end of the world if you don't like it, right ?! I just think the man is a man, no matter what faith there is ... I apologize if my opinion has been very long or I have affected the understandings of someone from the topic. Thanks!
I think you need to find another husband! I have nothing against Islam and the people who believe in it, but 80% of them are fanatical. And the fact that he doesn't want to follow his customs will change quickly, consider whether you can connect your life with such a person at all.
Hi 34, is it possible to contact you in any way? I will be extremely grateful - I can say that I am in almost the same situation, but there are some problems that torment me a lot. I hope for an answer, be happy !!! As for the girl who asked about virginity - I am of the opinion that you should definitely be honest with him and tell him the truth. What kind of love is it when it all starts with a lie?
Well, I read all the opinions and I can say that whatever we are, Bulgarian Christians, Bulgarian Muslims, Turks ... etc. it doesn't matter if you love each other there are no boundaries HELL WE ARE NOT IN THE 12TH CENTURY .. WE LIVE IN THE 21ST CENTURY IN THE MODERN WORLD ..
I want to say that whether you will be a woman under a slipper depends solely on your character. Such great nonsense is that Turks do not respect their wives. I just have no words. I see that some people don't even know what they're talking about. There are rules, but they are entirely about the respect and well-being of the young family. Darling, he will accept the fact that you are not a virgin, as well as many other things, but the most important thing is not to let him think that he is in command. Every man you bow your head to will harass you - IF HE IS A BULGARIAN EVEN MORE. Be direct, honest and smart
Thanks to №38, I am a Turkish woman married to a Bulgarian and we have no problems, thank God, so far we have not had ethnic conflicts. We also have a 5-year-old child. His name is Bulgarian, I named him after his father. As for the parents in the beginning They were not fascinated, but later everything fell into place and now we have no problems. He respects my holidays, as I respect his too. The only thing not so good is the difference in our age-12 years. I love him madly and I want to be together forever. There is no other man like him who is just great and helps me a lot. I don't know why mixed marriages are considered a problem? !! It all depends on partners ... That there are Turks stuck there, but not all are like that! It all comes down to upbringing ... It's best to tell him that you're not a virgin and the rest does not think it will show its time.
If he loves you, he will understand you and experience it. For example, I go with a Muslim who is 3 years older than me. I love him, and he loves me. He really believes in his religion, etc. we talk about it, we discuss ... I want to be with him, but my parents are quite conservative towards Muslims. We want to be together, but we have to hide. I don't know what to do, can you help me ?!
My story is similar ... I am Bulgarian, he is Arab, but I will not share it ......... I just want to ask number 38, what does it mean to command you? I am a Christian and for me understanding in a family is the most important thing. the man is to protect a woman and make her feel safe and I am of the opinion that a woman should listen to her husband's word. and make him feel like a man to make her feel like a woman! As for virginity, just to say that Christianity also does not accept sex before marriage, that they respect their religion more than us, is another matter. at 26 I've only been with a man before him, but if you ask me I'm sorry about that and I remembered my mother's words that a woman should be a virgin for her husband only when I met him! good luck to all in love!
To number 15 - You are a real man! if you really made that decision and fulfilled it, you love this girl and you never leave her!
I had a relationship for 2 years with an Albanian at the age of 28, I am 22, he was my first husband, I was ready for anything for him, even to leave my family, after a year I realized that he was married and that he lied to me, I can't describe what a shock I experienced because I already loved him very much, I lost 8 kg, I stopped trusting him to keep me he started lying to me that he would divorce, that he would live only with me, so another year passed, he did everything possible to keep me faithful, but the day I found out his wife was pregnant with twins I left him, I didn't believe he loved me at all, then he came to me with the Qur'an and swore that he loved me and that he always think of me, this was the last time we met, I still love him, but I know I can't be his second wife. It hurts me that I introduced him to my parents, to my grandfather, to my friends, I trusted him, and he hid from me all the time, he was the only one and I believed that we would be together forever, and I learned everything from his wife, who showed her the gold he gave her and laughed in my eyes, after this incident 3 nights in a row I could not blink and still have a bitter memory . I said this in the hope of protecting quite naive and young girls from people with such a mentality, they have a different mindset, they believe they can love more than one woman and until they reconcile you will not stop, but I did not lower my head and collected strength to leave him, even though he loved me in his own way.
I felt your pain dear (44) be strong and know that everyone lives his destiny assigned to him by God. I can be with my boyfriend (who is also an Arab) or he may not get married, he may not be married as he tells me, or he may be ............ he may be it will be just me and him, and I may experience your pain! even if you share your story, you can't protect anyone, because everyone has to go their own way. I wish you a lot of happiness for the future and know that God sees everything and will give retribution!
"Are the Bulgarians over?" What nonsense ?! What kind of stupid "patriotism" ?! What do you think Bulgarians are more of a commodity? Aren't they gods? Why do you glorify them? People as people ... What if a boy is not a second-class person ... In my opinion, if you really love each other so much he will understand and there will be no problem, especially since you are a Christian, Bulgarian and with us virginity is not so important ... At least for most of us. He needs to understand, not accept you as a printed (bitten) waffle. And you have a life, a history ... You have done many good and good things, but also things you are not proud of. If you explained to him that if you knew him, you wouldn't give up your virginity before the wedding, he should know. Another question is how important religion is to him ... I hope it doesn't sound rude, but if he was brought up in a certain way, like those Turks who are from Anatolia and the Kurds, it is quite possible that he wants you to adopt the same way of life and the same upbringing ... If there is such a possibility (you better know if there is one), think if you are ready to you cover yourself with a veil and speak only after permission ... But the boy may also have been brought up in a secular and intelligent way. If he is an open and secular, broad-minded person, then there is no problem and nationality does not matter. As for the imitation of virginity. If you hold on so much, you can play a role, as if it hurts and it's your first time, blood doesn't matter. If you are holding blood, take an imitation from somewhere, if it is chicken blood, for example, and pour half a teaspoon on the sheet without noticing. But there is no need in my opinion. Pepi, 21 it is very possible that he wants you to adopt the same way of life and the same upbringing ... If there is such a possibility (you better know if there is one), consider whether you are ready to cover yourself with a veil and talk only after permission. .. But the boy may have been brought up secularly and intelligently. If he is an open and secular, broad-minded person, then there is no problem and nationality does not matter. As for the imitation of virginity. If you hold on so much, you can play a role, as if it hurts and it's your first time, blood doesn't matter. If you are holding blood, take an imitation from somewhere, if it is chicken blood, for example, and pour half a teaspoon on the sheet without noticing. But there is no need in my opinion. Pepi, 21 it is very possible that he wants you to adopt the same way of life and the same upbringing ... If there is such a possibility (you better know if there is one), consider whether you are ready to cover yourself with a veil and talk only after permission. .. But the boy may have been brought up secularly and intelligently. If he is an open and secular, broad-minded person, then there is no problem and nationality does not matter. As for the imitation of virginity. If you hold on so much, you can play a role, as if it hurts and it's your first time, blood doesn't matter. If you are holding blood, take an imitation from somewhere, if it is chicken blood, for example, and pour half a teaspoon on the sheet without noticing. But there is no need in my opinion. Pepi, 21 think if you are ready to cover yourself with a veil and talk only after permission ... But the boy may also have been brought up in a secular and intelligent way. If he is an open and secular, broad-minded person, then there is no problem and nationality does not matter. As for the imitation of virginity. If you hold on so much, you can play a role, as if it hurts and it's your first time, blood doesn't matter. If you are holding blood, take an imitation from somewhere, if it is chicken blood, for example, and pour half a teaspoon on the sheet without noticing. But there is no need in my opinion. Pepi, 21 think if you are ready to cover yourself with a veil and talk only after permission ... But the boy may also have been brought up in a secular and intelligent way. If he is an open and secular, broad-minded person, then there is no problem and nationality does not matter. As for the imitation of virginity. If you hold on so much, you can play a role, as if it hurts and it's your first time, blood doesn't matter. If you are holding blood, take an imitation from somewhere, if it is chicken blood, for example, and pour half a teaspoon on the sheet without noticing. But there is no need in my opinion. Pepi, 21 If you hold on so much, you can play a role, as if it hurts and it's your first time, blood doesn't matter. If you are holding blood, take an imitation from somewhere, if it is chicken blood, for example, and pour half a teaspoon on the sheet without noticing. But there is no need in my opinion. Pepi, 21 If you hold on so much, you can play a role, as if it hurts and it's your first time, blood doesn't matter. If you are holding blood, take an imitation from somewhere, if it is chicken blood, for example, and pour half a teaspoon on the sheet without noticing. But there is no need in my opinion. Pepi, 21
I recommend an operation - suturing the hymen. No one will know that you were not a virgin. Check the prices and the procedure on the Internet. I wish you success!!!
For 44: my story is the same when I read as if I was listening to myself (the difference is only in the years) ........ I lived with my Albanian friend for 2 years, and so skillfully managed to deceive me and my whole family , I will not explain how I studied Albanian and I was forbidden to leave home, talk on the phone, etc., I LOVED HIM AS CRAZY, but he turned out to be married with 4 children, it's been a while since we broke up but I'm still cruel offended and hurt, I still can't find peace and I scream in my sleep :(. ALBANIANS are the biggest garbage among men in Bulgaria! Beware girls
I know that this is an anonymous site, but I would like to contact you 48, because I think there is something to say, my mail is [email protected] if you want to write to me.
YOU CAN HAVE SURGERY AND BE A VIRGIN AGAIN!
I am 40 years old. I have been married to a Turk from Marmaris for 22 years. we have two children and we are a very happy family. I adore his parents, and he respects mine. He never harassed me and never imposed his opinion and religion on me. The only thing his parents wanted me to be a virgin. We live in Turkey and Bulgaria. We travel constantly. Our children they are already big and studying in bulgaria. when they decide to get married we will not interfere with their relationship, but we will want the girl to be a virgin. that's how it should be. and a man, if he really loves, will never ask this of his beloved before they become a family. And to have an operation, you will live your whole life in a lie.
See now what I will tell you, darling! And I hope you pay attention to my words, because I don't want you to regret one day! I have been with a Turk for 4 years, my first was! In the beginning he was the sweetest, funniest and most wonderful person I had ever met! BUT this is the end of the good things! And he is terribly attached to virginity and at the moment he is a sick jealous and I can hardly stand it! He's used to me being alone with him and that's it! I don't wear a cleavage, I don't go out without consulting him and he's very nervous, just at the thought that I might be with someone else gets nervous (draws his own conclusions) I know what I want from life now and it's NOT him for sure because I am not ready all my life to live the life he thought was right! Now I wonder how to get rid of it, because it stuck to my ass! Burn your mind well, for if you put on the ring all your life you will not be able to escape, and you will be a servant and a slave in your own house, and he will turn young lovers and you will not even realize it! I wish you success with all my heart and be very careful, never make the mistake of giving up friends and family for a man, this is a vile trick to deprive you of friends and social life!
You all know that it is not the religion of the parents and not the ethnic origin, but the character, upbringing and behavior, as well as the mutual relationship between two people that determine whether they are compatible in their existence or not. To live with one person you have to trust each other, and to trust each other you have to be honest. He is honest with you - a virgin wants. You lie to him - you slide him that you are. If you continue like this until now (the topic is almost 4 years old, but not only the author was then, but now other girls are in a similar situation), you better stop. You are not for each other. All the doubts raised above by other readers may be true if you are not sincere with each other. The first step to protecting your dignity and not expecting abuse from him is not to fall to your knees asking for forgiveness, that you can't reward him with virginity, but tell him that you are a man of dignity who had a choice - he had other partners, but he preferred him because of this and that ... Probably there are virtues that made him preferred for you. And in turn, do not forget to make your own demands on his behavior. She can't say that she loves you, that she showers you with material pacifiers, that she takes you back and forth, and at the same time that she wants you to make him masturbate, and that he himself drives her to fuck her. He can't even want to wave the red sheet in front of his parents if he cares about you more than they do. He must be mature enough to draw a sharp line between filial love and life perspective. On the scales, you should always be in front of everyone, including his parents. According to our Bulgarian traditions, the woman also becomes a daughter-in-law - she lives with her mother-in-law (I'm not talking about specific examples - there are different situations), but when the parents fall (inevitably), they are almost always taken care of not by the son but by the daughter. The Bulgarian also relies more on his daughters for his antiquities. And this is reciprocal - the Son, the man in the family is obliged to take care first of all for his children and the mother of his children, and not in the first place for his parents, but to turn his wife into his and his parents' servant. But, as some commentators have said above, the morning sun is no guarantee that there will be no clouds or even storms in the afternoon. There is no guarantee that everything can be predicted, and whoever tries to predict everything deeply and unmistakably, is often left alone. In our opinion, there is an expression for "blind Sunday" -at one moment one has to close one's eyes and prepare for compromises, because without them one cannot. The question is to what extent and to what extent he can bear them. And you girls need to be strong and clear enough about what you would not allow in your relationship and clearly state it to your partners. You should not be afraid that you will lose them if you do not lose yourself. If they don't accept you as you are, if they don't accept your destiny in accordance with your life stereotype, then you are lying that these are your "wonderful partners", no matter how exciting sex they have. You need men, not mommy's sons. And in turn, one day, do not ask your sons to thank you for your care, humiliating your wives. I tell you this as a man, and if that matters (and I don't think it should), I'm a Christian and my children are married.