IT'S MY TURN TO WRITE MY HISTORY! MY FRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN FOR 4 YEARS. Lately, HE ALWAYS LEAVES ME ALONE, SAYS THAT HE HAS A JOB, WE SEE EVERYTHING RARE AND SO KNOWN TO EVERYONE, I DECIDED TO CHECK HIS PHONE. I READ ALL THE ANNOUNCEMENTS AND I WASN'T SURPRISED AT ALL, WITH A WOMAN I DETERMINED MEETINGS IN A COFFEE WITH ANOTHER'S PIZZA, WITH A THIRD AT THE CINEMA AND SO ...... AT LEAST. I DECIDED TO CHARGE HIM, I DIDN'T CALL HIM FOR 2 WEEKS. HE CALLED FOR TWO THREE DAYS AND STOPPED! I CALLED IN THE THIRD WEEK TO SEE WHAT IS HAPPENING AND THAT IS WHY WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN! I am used to it and I am very sad that we have to separate! I THINK THIS IS THE RIGHT DECISION. BUT SOMETHING MUCHES ME AND I DON'T KNOW I'M VERY SURE, LONELINESS SCARES ME! ALTHOUGH I HAVE SO MANY FRIENDS. GIVE ADVICE DEAR PEOPLE, YOU ARE SURELY A LOT IN MY SITUATION !!!
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Yep, you're right! There are many in your situation. You have to be strong and dump him, once he has done that he is not worth it, do not apologize to him! I'm sorry to tell you, but safe from soft-spoken women like you, who don't have the courage and courage to make the right decision and say their hard word, but instead allow men to trample them and make fools of them. Don't you have dignity ?! The difference between you and him is that he knows what he wants - to go after whores and turn you on his finger with kind words. Instead of attaching yourself to his nonsense, show him that he is far from the only one in the world and that if he thinks he can play with you, he has mistaken the man. You may be afraid of loneliness at the beginning and it hurts, but you will be surprised how much better you will feel without a guarantee;)
Hi, I'm sorry about the situation you're in. I understand it (I'm a boy of 26). I was in his situation, ie. I had a serious girlfriend and at the same time I wanted many others. In my case, there was no choice but to separate. There was simply nothing in the world to stop me from doing it, my girlfriend was not enough for me. She is beautiful and is a great person, but .. nature what to do I wanted others. A lot of things happened to me and in the end I changed radically. Now I want nothing but a girl. Thinking about girls for one fuck is already something very far away for me (I'm very happy about that). I told you these things to show you that there is a way for him to change, even though he's just a whore right now (sorry if I hurt you with that) like I was. If you can write how old you are I think it matters. I can help you by showing you my point of view, but of course your decision must be 100% yours. You can write to me at [email protected]. I have gone through this painful path and at the moment it is as if I am writing to the friend I dumped then. I will be very happy if I can help you. Success!
Hello, I don't know how much what I will write will help you, I hope you will listen to my advice ... So from what I read I think that you should gather courage and leave it, you should still respect yourself in front of everything else. If this man is looking for the companies of other women, not one, but more, and they have been looking for you for only a few days, then for him things are not very serious. Maybe with you, maybe without you ... I hope you don't feel sick now, but that's the truth, I know it because it happened to me. You better go through the separation, I know it's hard, but it passes, and open your eyes to someone else who will respect you more. Be strong and don't leave yourself to this person. I don't know you didn't write your age, but what loneliness you are talking about ..... I just want to tell you that no man deserves your tears Good luck
What keeps you with him? You neither have children nor live together. Drop it! You will rest a little from the men and another will come, don't be afraid. You're probably beautiful when he comes back to you, so don't worry about being left alone. Live your life and be happy, because if you stay with him and have a child, then you will already have serious problems. He will leave, and you will shake your head, why didn't you leave him when he should have. I'm squeezing your thumbs and don't despair. Success!
CHARGE IT!
You don't have to be with him. Get out and don't come back. I will always leave you.
My comment is number 2. People, she understands very well that she has to leave. She is just afraid of loneliness, which I understand very well. I know what it feels like. From her point of view, the only way out is to leave him, but still, before such a big decision, his point of view must be considered. Obviously he doesn't act like a man who deserves it, but still ...
THANK YOU ALL FOR THE COMMENTS !!! IT IS REALLY VERY DIFFICULT FOR ME, I GUESS THERE ARE PEOPLE AND LIKE ME, I WISH EVERYONE A LOT OF HEALTH AND GOOD LUCK IN EVERYTHING BEGINNING AND CASE, I HAVE ANYTHING! I DECIDED TO GO TO THE SEA ALONE WITH FRIENDS AND FURTHER I WILL WRITE YOU WHAT HAPPENED!
I'm the girl who wrote comment number 1. Well done to you !! Going to the sea with friends is the perfect way to give yourself a nice vacation to experience more easily what is happening and maybe ... to meet someone suitable for you, I know ... I wish you a pleasant stay and write how it went.
Have a good time. I wish you to meet someone like you. People who are real deserve real people. N2
I'm N2. How did things turn out, did you get together?
I'm afraid to start writing here, but I can't find salvation anywhere ... my story is almost the same. At 32 I am and I know that he is my true love. How to find strength hurts so much. If someone wants to waste his time, write to me- [email protected]
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years .. Last summer I left him because he had started spending time only with girls because I was away from him .. He went out with them, went to clubs, etc ... I left him after For 4 months he caught another .. more precisely she was bloody, but anyway .. she called me, wrote to me during these four months, but I did not pick him up or answer ... After he left with another I I wrote him that I was happy for him .. and so for a few days he begged me to be together and finally we are together again and now .. what to do help me .. I love him very much, but I can not forgive his infidelity ... please advice what to do