My story is quite long but I will try to shorten it. I got married at 18, now I am alone at 33, we have two beautiful girls. My husband and I are from a small town where there is no prospect, so 12 years came. we moved to Sofia. He was working and I was looking after my children, he was always late under the pretext that there were problems at work and I, young and stupid, believed until one day I realized that he was cheating on me, I told him to decide what he wanted and he chose his family. Everything passed, I experienced it, we all make mistakes! The years passed, the children went to kindergarten and I started working. One day I met my student love, we went to coffee to see him, I had fun with him and on departure he asked me for a phone number without thinking why I gave it. The next day he called me just to hear me and so every day. I fell in love, I wanted to see him all the time, but we both had families, we had to comply. I became the best housewife, mother and wife for 6 years. In the fires of love. One day we did the biggest stupid thing. We decided to divorce and get together to live together. I told my husband, it came to him like thunder from a clear sky. His family was also shocked scandals broke out in them in us my husband decided to get together and the four of us to talk! And our love won, I went home to pack my bags, too, and we went to live with a friend of the children, we said that when we found accommodation we would take them with us, he also has a girlfriend. But his wife eventually went to her parents, she did not work and could not support herself, and we gathered with the children there. We were all happy together! But one day my husband came and took the children and said that no one else could look after them like him and before he didn't come home all night but suddenly he became the best and most concerned father and you remember I couldn't stand them without them after a lot of struggle to get them. vrna did not get my beloved could not look at me sad every day we were no longer so happy and I decided to return to us to his children. What I did broke two families. I went home and lived in the children's room with the children in the living room. After a while, my beloved's wife took them home and we both rebuilt our families on behalf of the children. We both made this decision and agreed to look for each other more. We parted forever, we called each other with hidden numbers just to hear the voices, I kept in touch with his daughter, he and mine, and so we knew who was doing what. And so a year passed, I lost 14 kg, nothing bothered me except the children, I couldn't stop loving him, after a few days he called me and told me that he couldn't stand it anymore, he just wanted to see me and I couldn't stand anything else and I went to the meeting. It's as if we never parted and lies and hiding started again, so for two months we were happy together again. One night he had to come to see me at work, I worked a night shift, I waited, but he didn't come. That surprised me. He was a very responsible person, but I decided that something was delayed at work. He was a bodyguard. He didn't come at all. I went to bed at 9. 00 my phone rang was his friend I hung up because my husband was with us I waited for him to come out and I dialed my favorite phone was turned off he never turned it off because of his work surprised and I experienced the greatest pain in my life, he was no longer there, the man I loved was madly crashed and died on the spot. For three months now, nothing has pleased me, I can barely find the strength for the children, I really miss him, how can I continue I apologize for the spelling mistakes but I'm in a hurry until there is no one in us. For three months now, nothing has made me happy, I can barely find the strength for the children, I really miss him, how can I continue? I apologize for the spelling mistakes but I'm in a hurry until there is no one in us. For three months now, nothing has made me happy, I can barely find the strength for the children, I really miss him, how can I continue? I apologize for the spelling mistakes but I'm in a hurry until there is no one in us.
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God ...., I'm so sorry!
What happened is terrible. But you two did everything - in the name of your love, but also of the children. I wish you strength and health.
It must be very hard for you, but live because of the memory of him and because of him watching you up there. Heads up, you have kids, they need you! Nothing more can be done. Live for your children. This is not a little.
I'm sorry about the accident and the consequences, but you've done a lot of nonsense that makes it so hard for you now. Now think about what will happen to the children. And his child.
I am very sorry for your love. I don't know what to tell you, it was written that way. You have made many mistakes through which you have misled your spouses. Upstairs you have two beautiful children for whom you have to gather strength and continue on your way. Try to strengthen your relationship with your husband. Everything in life happens for a specific reason and believe me this reason is a good choice. And as for your loved one - but everyone is written how to appear in this world and, unfortunately, how to leave it. What is written on your head, you will not be able to escape.
It's terribly hard, I just can't imagine the pain you're feeling. I dare not advise you anything, because such sorrow and unhappiness cannot be forgotten. I'll just tell you, try to recover little by little, don't give up, look after the children, in time you will feel better, but unfortunately it will be in time. I wish you success, I kiss you and head up.
Hello Sweetie! My sincere condolences. I understand your feelings and emotions very, very well, because my only and unique love, so STRONG, TRUE AND UNFORGETTABLE also left this world .. I know the pain is indescribable .... I think that in fact advice can not be given, for this pain cure and time as some have written -NO, unfortunately, this is the truth. It is not true that time heals, on the contrary ... Like the MOUNTAIN, like the OCEAN are the SUFFERINGS in me ... One more thing, dear, you don't have to listen to these reproaches, how to call them - "you did a lot of nonsense". -God-SOMETIMES THE HEART SOMETIMES LISTENS TO ARGUMENTS WHO REASON DOES NOT UNDERSTAND, and such love remembers (whoever says anything) is only once in a lifetime and you should be grateful at least for the fact that you have known and experienced it, there is people who haven't met her all their lives .... Yes, I really can't come to terms with the fact that he's gone, I'm angry with the whole world, I'm sure you understand what I mean by that. They buried my heart with his. There is no DAY, no MINUTE in which I do not think about him, there is no NIGHT not to dream about him, wherever I go, whatever I do is always "before my eyes" and in my mind, as if next to me, our relationship was very big and maybe that's why I feel it, God, HE AND MY CHILD ARE MY WHOLE WORLD .... Now I live for my child and I pray for health, everything else in this short life is transient, well, like himself. ... If you want to read part of my story, I also wrote here on this site, it says "IN MEMORY OF MY ETERNAL LOVE" .... I wish you and your children good health !!! I'm sure you understand what I mean by that. They buried my heart with his. There is no DAY, no MINUTE in which I do not think about him, there is no NIGHT not to dream about him, wherever I go, whatever I do is always "before my eyes" and in my mind, as if next to me, our relationship was very big and maybe that's why I feel it, God, HE AND MY CHILD ARE MY WHOLE WORLD .... Now I live for my child and I pray for health, everything else in this short life is transient, well, like himself. ... If you want to read part of my story, I also wrote here on this site, it says "IN MEMORY OF MY ETERNAL LOVE" .... I wish you and your children good health !!! I'm sure you understand what I mean by that. They buried my heart with his. There is no DAY, no MINUTE in which I do not think about him, there is no NIGHT not to dream about him, wherever I go, whatever I do is always "before my eyes" and in my mind, as if next to me, our relationship was very big and maybe that's why I feel it, God, HE AND MY CHILD ARE MY WHOLE WORLD .... Now I live for my child and I pray for health, everything else in this short life is transient, well, like himself. ... If you want to read part of my story, I also wrote here on this site, it says "IN MEMORY OF MY ETERNAL LOVE" .... I wish you and your children good health !!!
I'm so sorry ... I'm speechless. Sometimes we meet our true love late, but it is bad when we lose it forever. I wish you health, be strong in spirit and hope that someday you will be happy again.
What happened to you is terrible. I can't give you advice because I'm 12, but we kids, when we find out something like this, it's very hard and nasty that it happened. You better not tell anyone about this and try to forget, no matter how hard it is. Time heals.
I think that was right. You have made many people unhappy for your own pleasure. That's what fate did to you :)
Talk to him and reveal your feelings.