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He Is So Superficial That It All Comes Down To Sex, That If Someone Calls Me, Then We Are Lovers.

By lucyloveu August 06, 2020 13 answers Last updated August 06, 2020

My friend is very jealous, lately I don't know what to do, I had to delete Facebook, delete my Skype from the computer, I changed my phone card and all this so that there is no unnecessary drama. He is so superficial that it all comes down to sex, that if someone calls me, then we are lovers. And in the interest of truth, I'm studying to be an engineer and I don't want the percentage of women to be relatively small than that of men, and there's no way a colleague can't call me for an exam, for example, but that's not because I'm his mistress. I must have no other friends. We have been together for 2 years and sometimes I can't wait to explain everything. I hide the fact that I went out for coffee with my ex-boyfriend because it's an exaggeration. I know there's nothing, but I can't feel like I'm in possession forever. We love each other for sure, but I suffocate sometimes.

Answers 13

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sexual_essence answered · August 06, 2020

   His is not love, but dependence and fear of being left alone. There is a huge difference between love and what your friend feels. Love is equal to freedom, and everyone needs contact with other people. It is not normal to demand from the other person that he does not have this freedom and that his world revolves only around you. In time you will wonder how to escape from it, so now sit down and talk and clarify the situation. Tell him that at least work and study will require you to connect with other people, and they will also be useful to you. If he does not accept it, this is a sufficient argument not to maintain this relationship, because in time your situation will not be enviable at all. Doriana

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trulywantedman answered · August 06, 2020

   What do you do with primates? !!

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invadergirl answered · August 06, 2020

   Why do you tolerate it? Love gets tired of such things, suffocates. If she's not tired yet, be sure that will happen. And if it happens, you will wonder where your mind was and why you didn't interrupt everything as soon as you saw what kind of product this friend of yours is. Yours is slavery.

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bigdickkjohn answered · August 06, 2020

   That's how you chose it - superficial.

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secretlovers9 answered · August 06, 2020

   ooo my dear i am in the same situation! I even stopped school but I love it and I don't want to leave it !! If you love him, try to change his mind if he doesn't run away while it's time

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dianakbush answered · August 06, 2020

   Almost like my story .. In time you will become like him and then he will understand what he did but it will be too late

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luisaholmes answered · August 07, 2020

   Great movie. We good boys are alone, and those like you have a girlfriend and you put up with everything from above. I ask - What do you see in it? Do you really love him? Has he read a book? How do you tolerate it? Haven't you met a good boy so much that you're with this one?

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mixxedican answered · August 07, 2020

   My dear friend is not jealous at all, and I wonder what to do to make it happen ..: D

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sweet_naughty_ answered · August 07, 2020

   Up to number 7 is for that you are alone, is it clear to you to read your comment again !!!!

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aukasisa_ answered · August 08, 2020

   I like such topics the most. Not only did they choose him as such, not only did they realize what they were dealing with and put up with him, but they also went to ask for advice! Well, the advice is one - abandon it or ensure for a long time such an attitude, which certainly leads to many scandals, quarrels, isolation from the outside world and ruin of nerves and health at your expense.

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hot8pack01 answered · August 08, 2020

   H9, as long as you giggle. Women choose. And I'm not asleep. :))))

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lucianahot600 answered · August 08, 2020

   Try to understand it! Here you will hear all kinds of comments from people, alone, accustomed to being with someone next to them, the easiest - Drop it! DO NOT make this think, and get into his situation, show him that he is the only one.

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yourfellowangel answered · August 09, 2020

   "I hide the fact that I went out with my ex-boyfriend for coffee, because he's exaggerating." I ask - who are you looking for a grandfather with your ex? coffee? come on - but your friend is not right at all ... and how he only suffocates you