Hello. I am a girl of 14 and have been in a new school for 1 year. I know from the new city and I am best friends with a girl. The others are just friends. I'm a little closed, but I'm starting to change that a lot. But my problem is not that, but that I like my best friend's brother. I'm in the same class with my girlfriend and her brother. I like him a lot, but I don't know what to do to impress him. Please help me not only to impress him, but also to make the class not think of me as some fool who came from the sea. Please help me. PS: if some who knows who I am let me keep quiet please sincerely (please post this I really need the advice of others)
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Mila and I are following a boy who is a cousin of my best friend, she knows, but he falls in love with another classmate of mine, it's pretty nasty and you just have to either find some way to forget him or impress him not like make me crazy about him!
Not that anything, but how will you be in the same class with your girlfriend and brother and ...
Number 2 can be in 1st grade if they are twins and to the author why don't you tell your girlfriend that you like your brother and she can help you in some way. Success!
Never, but never tell a girl that you like / love her brother. If you are already boyfriends, then you can tell her otherwise - no, never. I have a brother and his girlfriends always chased me to win me over to their side, then when my brother kicked them, they came to me again to cry on my shoulder and expected me to scold him for something ?! Don't be in bed with them! One even told me in detail what my brother did to her in bed, what a lover he was - I'm not his boss in his sex life.
As a person who has been studying psychology for a long time, I can give you some advice: * Ignore the fact that he is your girlfriend's brother. That doesn't change anything. №4 is absolutely right - the situation may even get worse, your girlfriend may love you with true friendly love and overwhelm you with attention and concern, but ... would she accept you in the role of "my brother's boyfriend"? Even if you are terribly close, don't tell her, much less ask her to help you. She will feel awkward if she has to stand between the hammer and the anvil. Hence two possible cases - 1. Her brother may not like you, EVEN if he shows sincere sympathy for you. (for reference - some time ago I was sure that a boy fell for me, but it turned out that "he treated everyone like that and was in love with a man"?!, so it turned out the other way around). Then your girlfriend will wonder how to calm you down, it will be an awkward situation and she will feel guilty and there will be no culprits. You cannot command love. 2. Her brother may fall for you. Then your girlfriend will feel like a second violin, because your time (in the best and compromise version) will now be divided into two - for "love" and for the girlfriend. She may become nervous and internally jealous, even if she is from her own brother. 3. Suppose you walk and break. Will you stay friends with her brother? And the fact that you are in the same class? Will it be heard around the school and are you interested in what others are saying? And his sister - will you continue your previous friendship with her? Answer these questions, it's important. If you don't care about the opinions of others, you're ridiculed and insulted, you know how to maintain self-control and control yourself well, no matter what happens, you will not be in a losing position. If you really like it and feel that things are really, really serious - act. Change your hairstyle, change your look - lose weight, gain weight (if you need to feel more beautiful. If you love yourself, people will love you.) Learn how to make up without overdoing it (I'm not saying this by accident) ). Learn which places you visit and "accidentally" end up there. Several times. You can say that one of his hobbies is interesting to you (study them without realizing that you are asking about his life, Bell.! - don't ask his sister! He will understand! You can only insert some question unnoticed in a conversation , nothing more). Most importantly - smile more, be cheerful and say with your presence: " I am friendly. I like you ", not -" I'm lonely. I need you. You are a godsend for me, without you I will die, etc. "You know what you will do from now on, it's from me :) Good luck whatever you decide :) Angel
I'm also in love with my best friend's brother since I was little and it turns out super nasty because someone told her and she knows and we often argue about it, she doesn't find anything good in it unlike me and it turns out a lot awkward ... my advice is not to tell her, because it can hinder your friendship
Your best friend is not like that if you can't tell her that you like brother and I ahhaha and I was in this situation with him we were together we said and there was no different attitude on her part one day I slept in them and we were with him the terrace she was lying inside we were sitting and talking he kissed me and the next time I slept in them he was lying next to me he hugged and kissed me she knew but he accepted