Hi, I'm a girl. I have a relationship with a boy I like very much, but he doesn't feel anything for me, in a word, only sex. But he's still with me even that way, I know you're going to tell me not to stay with him, that he's just using me, but I'm aware of that. I have resigned myself and am waiting for a miracle. / But my problem is that he is very rude in sex. It starts gently at first, but then it's pretty rough. I like it more rudely, but it's too much. And during a sex breath, I can't help but tell him to stop. I want to be with him, but I don't want him to hurt, what should I do?
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He is rude because he does not sleep for you, or for your feelings, or whether you manage to catch your breath! He will never love you. You better look for happiness elsewhere, so you just waste your time and you can miss true love. At best, he will find true love and throw you away like a useless dirty rag. You will gain nothing from this relationship, but you will lose a lot, even your self-esteem. I even think that the reason for this masochism of yours lies in the tram in your childhood. You may have been physically, mentally or sexually abused by a loved one or relative. If so, it will be difficult for you to leave it, because you subconsciously like this masochism. If my guess is correct, I recommend a psychologist, because that way you won't get anywhere. And when you come to, it will be too late and it will hurt much more than now. Tighten up and take each other in your arms, everyone is a child only of their own deeds, girl.
He's napping for you! How do you want him to be gentle? "I have resigned myself and am waiting for a miracle" What miracle are you waiting for? One day to wake up and fall in love? There is no point in giving you advice. Whatever you tell the fools, they know theirs!
Number 1, what nonsense are you spraying? !! What masochism, what psychologists, what 5 levs? The fact that the chick likes her more rudely does not mean that she is sexually or mentally abused, or that she has some kind of mental trauma. And I prefer rougher sex, and many other women like it in general, believe me! And I have not been abused by anyone in any way in my whole life! By your logic, most of the people have mental disorders as soon as they like harder games in bed ...
I don't believe it's so real - that you don't have the opportunity to show or say to stop during the act. And if so, talk to each other when you're not having sex for sex between you.
from 1 to 3 Read my story and comment again and then comment. You make up some things I haven't mentioned anywhere.
Can't take a breath while doing it? Can you give me his number? Now seriously, don't wait for a miracle, but quickly dump it. I have been in such a relationship, there is only suffering and regret in the end. And the end will come sooner or later, and when you least expect it. Just think what will happen if you get pregnant? Will it be next to you?
No matter how rude, as number 4 says, talk to each other before sex. If he doesn't accept your wishes, deny him sex. It's so simple. By the way, I was in a relationship with a chick in which everything was just sex at first, and then feelings were created (as incredible as it sounds). This does not mean that it will happen to you.