I'm a 16-year-old girl and my boyfriend is 20. Everything goes very well between us, but the problem is that during sex he overdoes it ... He always does it super fast and very deliberately, because it aroused him to watch me hurt. and moan. Besides, he is big and fat, and I am narrow and quite thin and it hurts even more. Every time he slaps me and hits me with all his might, he does whatever he wants with me, and if I don't accidentally let him do something, he gets angry with me. Our relationship is formed more on sex, it makes me do it 4-5 times a day, as he is obsessed with me and my body. I already have a few bruises on my back. I just want him not to be so rude to me, because it hurts a lot, but no matter how much I explain to him, he tells me that I have to be patient and he will do it as hard and rudely as possible. What to do?
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But wait now .... why do you put up with it? First, you're 16 ... but you know, it's a matter of personal opinion after all. So, from what you've written, it seems that you don't like it at all. Why do you keep being with him when he refuses to understand you? You say that your relationship is formed mainly on sex ... well, then since that doesn't give you mutual pleasure, what do you do? I am also a girl of 16 and I do not have much experience in relationships in general, but in my opinion at this stage and at this age it is not adequate to spend this way. In a relationship there must be trust and love in order to develop each other and sex must come only after that. Like, if you don't get along in that regard ... it's not okay to keep going. Also, you say - drives you 4-5 times a day. And when do you stay alone with yourself? Are you learning anything at all? This guy just takes advantage of your naivety to have fun ... please have dignity. I advise you to first try to get to know the different types of manners a little more, so that you know who you get along with best. I can't tell you what to do, but in my opinion, the best thing is to take as much time as you need, to sit somewhere quiet, to think well and to clarify for yourself. how you feel and whether you really want it. If I were you, I would just dump him without thinking ... Noo people are different, with all kinds of opinions. Success :) Victoria4 I can't tell you what to do, but in my opinion, the best thing is to take as much time as you need, to sit somewhere quiet, to think well and to clarify for yourself. how you feel and whether you really want it. If I were you, I would just dump him without thinking ... Noo people are different, with all kinds of opinions. Success :) Victoria4 I can't tell you what to do, but in my opinion, the best thing is to take as much time as you need, to sit somewhere quiet, to think well and to clarify for yourself. how you feel and whether you really want it. If I were you, I would just dump him without thinking ... Noo people are different, with all kinds of opinions. Success :) Victoria4
Alpha male. I love rough sex but it's too much. He is with you only for sex and to prove it to you, leave him dry for 1 week. I am 100% sure that he will not last a passenger after another day. If he behaves like that and outside of your sexual relations, abandon him, you are not his girlfriend, but a sex slave with a main P !! M. S 19 Zh
I hope this story is made up. If not, your friend is a sadist. Or something slammed into him. If he imagines that he practices BDSM, he is wrong. And you are extremely stupid to even ask what to do. Stay with him until he takes you to the hospital. And he wonders how to hide the bruises and scars. Please post me!
I would just say "Drop it." For him, you are obviously not a partner, but a sex toy. There are some things that when I read them and I am ashamed that I am a man ...
This is not an alpha male, but the most common abuser. I also like rougher sex, but it is done with the consent of the woman. And when you say stop or less, it stops immediately. And in general what an alpha of 20, get down to earth girls. Don't let various pickpockets watching non-stop porn treat you like sex dolls and practice on you. He even told her it would get harsher ... without comment. Then he will post a topic asking how to hide the bruises from parents and friends. I'm number 6. History still doubts me, by the way.
Ours is not even exactly a relationship, in the beginning it was just sex, but over time he fell in love with me. And I'm basically whatever comes - even if our relationship is formed only on sex for me it's not a problem. I can't say that I love him so much, because I'm basically like that by nature, I'm not very sensitive and even if I want to, I can't fall in love, let alone love someone. But despite everything, he is one of the few people who understand me and does not stop supporting me, even when I am wrong, I tell him my problems and he helps me, I feel concern on his part. But he is quite perverted and wants the maximum in bed, including things I don't want, but I've denied him 1-2 things, and he intervenes a little when I don't want to, but after a minute he passes by and stops being angry, he sees that will not get up and give up. But he wants us to do it very quickly and strongly, and I can't stand the pain. The author