After several months of counting, we finally met ... Only now did I realize that he is 5 years younger than me - I am 30 and he is 25 years old. His age is not visible at all! We were both surprised, because he thought I was smaller, I thought he was bigger ... And what came out ... On top of that, I'm divorced from a wonderful boy ... And we like each other so much, we have equal interests, we agree on everything. We go out and at first glance I don't care, but it's not like that at all ... I'm worried, please for your opinion ...
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The years don't matter at all !!!
There is no age for love!
Just for info, my wife is 4 years older than me.
Age doesn't matter :)
It is not a question of being smaller in years - the important thing is that he is older ....
Correct: A YOUNGER WITH A BIGGER IS BETTER THAN AN OLDER WITH A SMALLER.
5, please share something more ... How do you feel?
My ex-boyfriend is 8 years younger than me. We were together for 2 years. In the beginning I also pretended not to care, but it wasn't like that. After a while I stopped noticing people's eyes, we still don't live for them. Believe me the feeling is great. My advice is - don't care what people say or how they look at you, live for yourself and not for them.
My grandmother is 6 years older than me, but she looks after me very well. I slept with other women in her house, but she pretends to sleep in the other room, sees nothing and understands. In general, it is a great pleasure for a man to have an old woman - he looks at you like a painted egg, and you do what you want ...
Nothing will happen because of your child. With a big or small fuck you may enjoy it. But whether he will be a good father of another's child. Then time will tell. What do you care about wrapping a free young man. The problem is his. I know women who say, "They accept my child as their own." Good luck.
11, you are a big bastard, I tell you with a smile! Maliii, it's good that you're not my husband, let me tell you if I'm a grandmother! Author, pretend you don't see this monkey's comment and forget about age when you love each other.
Love has no limits. if you truly love each other, continue to enjoy your happiness. And the age difference is not big, so drive it more calmly. live your love to the fullest. And don't care, you live once.
Honey, I walked 4 years with 4 years younger than me. It didn't show to us at all. My grandmother is also 4 years older than my grandfather. Don't live with these prejudices - it doesn't make sense. And I suffered so at first, now I see that it was in vain ... And superfluous. 5 years is no difference. As for the child - it depends on how he accepts it ... If he doesn't mind - then everything is ok. Enjoy your love. Good luck. Remember - you have no problem, it's just in your head.
That's right, my grandmother is 3 or 4 years older than my grandfather, I don't know exactly how many people were alive and well, number 15, this was a priority at one time. the boy to marry him to poop to poison him and to run the house and family. Then the most important thing for people is to have a stable family, but now the times are different and the sooner they understand it the better, so for the family I think that nowadays it is not the most important thing. It doesn't even seem to matter at all, it's more important to understand that the fact that he's younger than you doesn't bother you, people would watch, but let them watch, they'll watch him, you'll fuck him, so they to watch and talk to each other, and for the child it is now fashionable for the boy to take a woman with a ready-made child so that he does not try to do it. You don't care at all.
Hi, do you want to laugh, I have the same problem as you. only 4e o6te on lo6o he is 9 years younger, I am 29 years old and he is 20 years old, he is not visible, but we both knew from the beginning, he convinced me that it is not a problem for him, that his parents and his grandparents were 5 years apart and in both cases the woman was older. And now guess what, I fell in love terribly much, and he decided it was time to change the situation completely, not to be together anymore. I don't know what to do either. He is not rich, he still lives with theirs, he is not a macho type, but he has things that I have not met in another man. He is the most sensitive man I have ever known and I do not know what to do. The film does not end here, I have a friend with whom we have problems, and he has not been in Bulgaria for 2 months. My advice to you is to be happy do not think about the years when you love each other. All this bothered me in the beginning, less than a month passed and he put an end to it - he couldn't give me what I needed, he seemed to stop everything while there was time, he didn't want to hurt me, he didn't want his freedom to commit so young, etc. I want to advise with all my heart to break down all prejudices in yourself. I let them prevail over me, I said a lot of insulting things to my boy, as if I was using him sexually, but it wasn't. If you can give me advice please. I let them prevail over me, I said a lot of insulting things to my boy, as if I was using him sexually, but it wasn't. If you can give me advice please. I let them prevail over me, I said a lot of insulting things to my boy, as if I was using him sexually, but it wasn't. If you can give me advice please.
Age doesn't matter.
My husband is 2 years younger than me, but everyone thinks he's older than me, so we have no problem. I had a boyfriend 2 years older, but he looked very young and I really felt like a pedophile with him. Not the problem over the years
Reading what you wrote, I wish this was my biggest problem in life. But alas, this is not the case. Think of the author - there are people in the world who most want to easily communicate with others - like my mercy. And you sat down to watch that you were bigger than your friend. There are people with a difference of 15 years and they still live well. So just enjoy your relationship and don't think about such small problems.
I am 14 and a half and I love and am in love with a woman who is many years older than me! She wants me as much as I want her, but this connection is impossible! So 5 years is nothing! Do not watch or listen to others! Listen to what your heart tells you! I wish you a lot of happiness and love! THANK YOU!
There is no age for love! :)
If he's 25 and looks older, then he's pretty ugly. I am 32 and once when I was at a disco a policeman asked for my ID card. When he told me what I was thinking about ...
Don't worry, I'm 8 years younger than my wife, and since we've known each other and been married for 20 years, they've always been divorcing us or looking at us as if they understood the age difference.
Author, to be with such - most likely only such would pay attention to you.
Author, do not delve into the topic of the years, because they are not so important, especially in your case. It is important how you feel together, how he treats you, whether he accepts your child. When I was 25 I lived with a boy who was 21 and his mother kept saying that I was big and didn't give it ... Yes, but now, after so many years, we are about to reunite with him, by coincidence. circumstances have separated, and age is not a problem at all. Good luck with your relationship! Bobby
That's enough. Love has no age! Love is important, the other is not important
Hello, I've been dating a boy for almost 3 years now, but for almost 2 months I've been dating another boy. We've known him since my ex-boyfriend. me with 1 year old but behaves as if he is older We are interested in each other we are angry and enjoy life but I don't know what to do with my boyfriend give me your opinion thanks
My acquaintances are the same. When they met, he was 27, she was divorced at 36. They don't even see the difference. Now they live separately and understand each other perfectly. Her children are big now.
Would you give advice, I go with 16 years. bigger, I want your opinion only?
I don't see any problem? I personally like older women the most. Especially with such a difference as 5-6 years older than me (I'm 21). They are more mature, firmly established and look for qualities in the man that younger women do not even notice. Not to mention that in my personal experience, they don't see men as a means to an end (whether they want to benefit financially or have him do everything for them).
Let me also ask for an opinion what do people think about the age difference I at 18 she at 33 ?? It doesn't bother me, and neither does she, but our parents are completely against it. what to do?
The difference between me and my wife is 9 years. We have been married for 21 years and we are still together and happy. My advice is not to pay attention to the idiots who are always ready to criticize and rebuke others. Once you are happy together it is the most important thing! Others keep their opinion of them and do not allow them to create problems between you. No one else cares about the difference in your age. Success!
Whoever you meet, there will always be a defect or problem between you ... The world is for two, it was sung in one song.
I completely agree with number 22! Age doesn't matter I like a boy 3 years older than me
And let me share the "grief" - the last 5-6 years I still like men younger by 2-3-4 years. You will say that it is not a big difference, but I notice immaturity in many of them, and I always strive for a serious relationship and therefore I do not start anything with them. Anyway, that was my luck, obviously. F 33
As I read the comments, I think, “Thank God, people are still really romantic.” And they are right that, in principle, the age difference doesn't matter as long as the love is real and mutual. Here, however, comes the big BUT. I do not want to stigmatize all men in any way. I strongly emphasize that my opinion does not put all members of the stronger sex under a common denominator. Most men can talk as much as they want, that they did not pay attention to a woman's age, BUT the facts show otherwise, namely that the man wants a young goat. Did the critical one hit him especially? You are now 30, young, in your prime, and he is, so to speak, soon out of puberty. At this age, boys always look at each other "poop". However, there comes a time when the "poop" it stops growing and blooming and begins to age slowly but gloriously. I am a girl and, to my great regret, I realize that I belong to this gender, which is like a boza - it spoils over time. Men, on the other hand, as many of us know, are like wine - it gets better over the years. And what happens when the time comes when the man is literally in top form and the woman is no longer the girl of a few years ago. The sad statistics show that the man is just starting to look at younger women. Which is not at all pleasant for the gentle half. BUT that's just a theory. I never condemn a relationship, be it because of the difference in age, nationality, religion, etc. Because true love is above all these differences. I think a relationship needs to be tested. If you like yourself, be together and don't care about people's opinions. And time will tell if the boy belongs to the percentage of men who just talk to each other that it doesn't matter to them how old you are or to others who love you just because of who you are.
I am in the same dilemma now. Everything between us is perfect. It started as more magic and we both liked each other at first sight, as I found out later. I would say that this is not a difference in age that is worth thinking about, but if it was the opposite. He is 25 and I am 30. Naturally, I am worried that I will soon like another, and I want him for life.
Investigate his ex-girlfriends. I know men, not one or two, who strongly prefer women older than them, and if you look at the history of their relationships, you will find that most of their girlfriends were older than them. As there are those who are looking for much younger women or those who prefer women their age. Now many will say that age did not matter, but most people have a pronounced age range in which to choose partners.
About 39 out of 38-We accidentally met his ex. We look scary very visually and she is very weak, both in hair and facial features, and she is 1 year younger than me. So this with the type applies in his case. I decided to believe more in our relationship thanks to your advice. I don't think he's looking for her again, subconsciously. I just like that guy. But I don't want to ask about his other exes because I'm too jealous. In my opinion, if you have the symptoms of falling in love, you should let them conquer you and not think about obstacles - it's magic. I wouldn't say it before I met him.
What's going on, author? People, in how many years do you think a difference in favor of a woman would not be reflected in the general case?