Hello, I am 23 years old and I have a 3-year relationship with a woman of 27. In general, everything is perfect and we understand each other well, but the only problem is that my girlfriend does not miss the opportunity to tell me or hint that I am short. Because we both train and talk about things related to sports, she chat-pat says "if it was 1. 90 would be great". Or when I say something about an acquaintance who is taller and says that I would like to be so tall. And dozens of other such statements. Also for short men it is always bad, and for tall men the opposite is true. I've seen her several times when we pass someone tall looking at him, if he's prettier. Of the three and exes, both are under 1. 75, only the first and her friend is over 1. 90. The thing is that I'm not one of the lowest, I'm exactly 1. 81, she with these tales gave me a complex straight, Well, I'm not tall either, but ... What is most strange and annoying to me is that she is not tall at all, but speaks, exactly 1. 58 is. In fact, over the years, friends have suggested to me that she and quite low and we're not leaving. Especially if it is with low shoes, the difference is big. I have the feeling that she herself has a complex and is killing it that way. I forgot to add that for tall women it also speaks quite badly, just like for short men, for a normal woman tall 1. 70 says she is a mare, a stick, etc. At times I get very nervous about this, we are big people , and we deal with children's affairs, to consider who is how tall. And along with these stories, I began to complex and think constantly, why am I not at least 1. 85 ... In fact, over the years, friends have suggested to me that she is quite short and we are not leaving. Especially if it is with low shoes, the difference is big. I have the feeling that she herself has a complex and is killing it that way. I forgot to add that for tall women it also speaks quite badly, just like for short men, for a normal woman tall 1. 70 says she is a mare, a stick, etc. At times I get very nervous about this, we are big people , and we deal with children's affairs, to consider who is how tall. And along with these stories, I began to complex and think constantly, why am I not at least 1. 85 ... In fact, over the years, friends have suggested to me that she is quite short and we are not leaving. Especially if it is with low shoes, the difference is big. I have the feeling that she herself has a complex and is killing it that way. I forgot to add that for tall women it also speaks quite badly, just like for short men, for a normal woman tall 1. 70 says she is a mare, a stick, etc. At times I get very nervous about this, we are big people , and we deal with children's affairs, to consider who is how tall. And along with these stories, I began to complex and think constantly, why am I not at least 1. 85 ... just like for short men, for a normal woman tall 1. 70 says she is a mare, a stick, etc. At times I get very nervous about this, we are big people, and we deal with children's affairs, to think who is how tall . And along with these stories, I began to complex and think constantly, why am I not at least 1. 85 ... just like for short men, for a normal woman tall 1. 70 says she is a mare, a stick, etc. At times I get very nervous about this, we are big people, and we deal with children's affairs, to think who is how tall . And along with these stories, I began to complex and think constantly, why am I not at least 1. 85 ...
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Yes, he makes his complexes. My friend is as big as me - 170 and I don't mind. You are not short, you are tall. Talk to her that this annoys you.
Then why don't you tell her to look for a taller friend?
The average height for Bulgaria is 178.2 cm. Survey in 2014. You are above it, so you are tall. You can try to talk to her, because 164.8 cm is the average height for a Bulgarian woman and she is short.
Just tell her from the position of a mature adult, quite calmly, that it makes a childish impression on you how she speaks about things that no one can change and how she feels that she is killing some complex in a rather ugly way. Say she's not getting older and makes herself look bad by talking like that. Nothing more, just insert it and go on. I think it will make her think if she doesn't do it on purpose or doesn't realize it. If he does it on purpose, in my personal opinion, he is not a person that many people would like to be with, including me. Quick, easy, simple! USA
God ... dump that evil creature. You are 181 cm tall, which is high, I do not understand how he can say that you are short. I am 155 cm and I always wonder when a tall man likes me, because I still think that I will not go to him, because I do not wear high shoes. Love has nothing to do with growth, education, work, such things are important for your image in society, but they should not be important for the person who loves you.
Dude, when I'm taller, I'm going to tell you that it's hard for a person to think he's perfect. For me, between 180-190 is great. Don't let anyone influence you in this way. Still, you're a man, talk to her. Try to help her deal with this complex of yours.
Your girlfriend is a brazen Lilliputian with pretensions. You are definitely tall for her, tell her that someone will go to her around 1.70 where she is pushing to you.
Very ugly attitude on her part. Your height is perfect. In direct text, I would say that I do not like it.
Here very often I started to come across opinions that 1.80 / 85 was low or medium height? !!! That how tall is it then, three meters? !! As far as I have noticed, people 1.90 / 200 tall are relatively rare and always bend where they pass, in other words, doors, transport, homes, etc. are arranged as for people under 1.90. and that 1.70 / 75 was the average height for a woman? !! I still don't know ... So what's his average, they are very tall. And this one, when it's 1.58 and still hints that 1.81 is short ... to kill complexes. Or, except for you, it seems like a hint.
You are not tall, but you are not short. If she was 170 cm, to roar that you are short, but she is a minion ... But normally, short women like tall men, I tell you from personal experience, because I am almost two meters. Apparently they kill complexes, which is welcome for me :)
Ha ha, she's short, not you. Apparently this is how he kills his complexes.
You start hinting at things like - "oh, if she had a little nicer breasts, it would be so nice" ....
Bullshit. At 27, she has the mind of a kid. Why do you attach yourself to nonsense and become more complex? You are not short, you are tall. In your place, I would ask her, if someone with a height of 1.80 is short, what is the one with a height of 1.58 - a midget or a dwarf? I am 1.70 tall - a relatively tall woman, without any complexes and I am very happy to look down on such pygmies and beetles as the one in question. :)))) I'm not a hater, but I return the "compliments" to tall women. And you take it and tell him to check on the net how tall the world-famous models are, on which no one has even thought to tell them mares, sticks, etc. To look, to compare with himself and to be complex, when he is so smart. A couple between a man with a height of 1.90-2 meters and her would be downright funny. But since she is so eager, she abandons looking for one. If he truly loves you and holds on to you, he will not insinuate such nonsense to you, and without any reason. In addition, people are valued not by how much their head rises above the ground, but by what is in it. Judging by your post, there is not much in it.
You have the perfect height for a man - no stool, no pillar. Just perfect. She's a half-dwarf, and it's time to replace that evil gnome with something more normal. Not only is it poop, but also pretentious. On top of that? M 36
I'm 1.58. My ex-boyfriends were over 1.90, the current one is 1.82 and I would by no means define him as short, he is even perfect. Your girlfriend has psychological problems.
Are you a man or a fagot? The pickle is a penny and 20, straight can inflate your kaval. Either she starts behaving like a normal person, or you fuck her without warning. Nobody needs a "partner" who kills the cheap complexes of others.
Tell her that the facts are - she is low and you are tall / over 1, 80 /. That you can't change your height and she has to choose - either to accept you as you are, or bye. The other option is for you to start to suggest that it is low / as it is /. But it will be the beginning of the end of your relationship.
Dude, aren't you tired of posting this topic? You are writing for the 20th time
Apparently your girlfriend has a complex and is trying to project her fears and complexes on you. This can be completely unconscious, so you can hint to her that you don't like it or ask her directly why she does it. The other option is for her to be fully aware of the situation and to try to humiliate you in some way so that she doesn't feel insignificant or you don't think of her as such. In any case, the woman has a problem with herself, not with you. A confident and self-loving person, does not look, does not comment and does not compare with anyone. He lives his life and enjoys time with his loved ones. It is a pity that because of his own insecurity, he somehow insults or humiliates you and creates unnecessary tension in your otherwise good relationship, as he himself mentioned. In my opinion, as adults, you should sit down and discuss the situation. You will be surprised how useful it can be, instead of feeling depressed and thinking bad things for years. Sometimes the little stone turns the cart over. Talk to each other. Success! :)
And I have noticed that the shorter the woman, the taller the man wants to have next to him. It's just killing complexes. I see that two types of couples predominate - women around 170 with men 175-180 and pocket women 150 cm with men two heads above them.