Hi Girl I'm 16 and I'm in a new class. I like a boy in my class. In the beginning he was still in the company of the boys, but for some time I have noticed that he is constantly with a girl in my class. He always tries to sit either next to her or somewhere near her. After every hour he waits for her to pack up and follows her and talks to her. I have the feeling that she is like,, a puppy, who is constantly after someone (in this case it is this girl). I'm almost sure he likes her, and she has a boyfriend and he knows it (her boyfriend lives abroad). He is always the one who goes to her. I've almost never seen her go talk to him first. When I sit down with them and try to join the conversation, it just doesn't work. He obviously wants to talk to her. I'm quite upset that I'm trying to get to know him and he's not trying to get to know me. When we talk, I always start conversations that don't last very long. I just don't know what to tell him. I think that if he gets to know me, he might like me. My questions are: 1. Do you think I have a chance with the boy? 2. How to start a conversation so that he wants to get to know me or at least understand a little more about me and find me interesting. This is one of the problems, because I can never catch it alone. After each break he goes after the girl and they go to the next class, and when I try to talk to them they seem to just ignore me. 3. And she has a boyfriend. They have been together for a long time and a year and a half. He knows he has a boyfriend, but he's still trying to win her over. Do you think this is really happening or am I imagining it? thanks in advance that if he got to know me he might like me. My questions are: 1. Do you think I have a chance with the boy? 2. How to start a conversation so that he wants to get to know me or at least understand a little more about me and find me interesting. This is one of the problems, because I can never catch it alone. After each break he goes after the girl and they go to the next class, and when I try to talk to them they seem to just ignore me. 3. And she has a boyfriend. They have been together for a long time and a year and a half. He knows he has a boyfriend, but he's still trying to win her over. Do you think this is really happening or am I imagining it? thanks in advance that if he got to know me he might like me. My questions are: 1. Do you think I have a chance with the boy? 2. How to start a conversation so that he wants to get to know me or at least understand a little more about me and find me interesting. This is one of the problems, because I can never catch it alone. After each break he goes after the girl and they go to the next class, and when I try to talk to them they seem to just ignore me. 3. And she has a boyfriend. They have been together for a long time and a year and a half. He knows he has a boyfriend, but he's still trying to win her over. Do you think this is really happening or am I imagining it? thanks in advance This is one of the problems, because I can never catch it alone. After each break he goes after the girl and they go to the next class, and when I try to talk to them they seem to just ignore me. 3. And she has a boyfriend. They have been together for a long time and a year and a half. He knows he has a boyfriend, but he's still trying to win her over. Do you think this is really happening or am I imagining it? thanks in advance This is one of the problems, because I can never catch it alone. After each break he goes after the girl and they go to the next class, and when I try to talk to them they seem to just ignore me. 3. And she has a boyfriend. They have been together for a long time and a year and a half. He knows he has a boyfriend, but he's still trying to win her over. Do you think this is really happening or am I imagining it? thanks in advance
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Become friends on Facebook, talk about common things. Ask him about him, to tell you stories from his life, feelings, incl. And to the girl in question. Listen to him carefully without criticizing him. This will bring you closer.
The boy likes her and you like him and she likes someone else. It's just that each of you dreams of what you can't have. The sooner you move forward and stop thinking about it, the easier it will be for you. If there is no mutual interest, things don't work out.
It won't tie you up, dump it, and you don't need a slipper like that
If he doesn't pay attention to you, don't deal with him, firstly, you will be humiliated and become a laughing stock, and secondly, you will achieve the exact opposite, he will start running away from you! I tell you this as a person who has gone this way. The more you chase and push a person who does not share your feelings, the more he will avoid you! Men should run after women, not the other way around! Aren't there other boys in the class and at school who leaned against him? As for the other girl, how can you be sure she hasn't broken up with her boyfriend, if theirs can even be called a relationship. Leave them if they don't want to communicate with you, watch your lessons and look for your prince among the other boys.
Dear girl, it's not worth bothering with your head about nonsense like I'm going to like it. First of all, I am sure that if the girl in question does not respond soon, in a month or two he will have forgotten her. The fact that he has a boyfriend does not mean anything to him, especially since the boy is not even in Bulgaria. Think about it - he runs after her, you - after him. You are both humiliated. It seems to me that he is very depressed, so don't expect anything to happen now as long as he likes her. However, we do not control our emotions and do not choose who we like. It just happens. So at the moment I don't think it can be done who knows what. Keep up and focus on something else - it will be best for you.
Beauty cannot be forced. Whether the girl is engaged or not, apparently this healthy boy has sunk into her, and she does not mind having 2 relationships at the same time. Do not interfere in their relationship, at least wait for the passions to subside and then act.
You have no chance unless you want to be accepted as a backup.
I will answer your questions honestly. Darling, you have no chance with him, so you are invisible to him. Do not humiliate yourself and do not become sticky. And what if you have a friend abroad? This means absolutely nothing! Do not be sad and do not try to follow him, this is not your man, he is in love with her! She may not respond to his feelings ... but you have no chance with him. Don't pray to him, and don't talk to him, try your luck elsewhere ... White angel
From the author Thank you all. In general, I have no chance with the boy for now (or at all). But I don't like any of the other boys in the class, and I just don't know how to communicate with those in the whole school. I mean we don't meet in class and they don't know who I am. And outside of school it's even more complicated. I have tried various extracurricular activities (sports), but I have not found anyone. In general, I'm not very sociable and I don't know how to find new people. Please give me advice Thanks in advance;)
Darling, understand forcibly beauty does NOT happen!
To 10: Author, the boy will come for you without you expecting him and looking for him. The good things in life are not planned. Don't worry, you're just starting to make contacts and meet young, fresh people. Everything is in front of you. Success!