My husband and I met on the Internet. We have been behind for 3 years now and we have a one-year-old child. I have always been tormented by the thought of his past and his exes. When it came to, he always avoided the topic. He only told me about one of his relationships and the topic ends, but I don't believe him. His opinion is that the past is past and to stay there. However, as a typical woman, I am not satisfied with this answer. Some time ago I asked for his Facebook password. He told me. For about a week I read what I could and realized that he had relationships with married older women with children. I was very upset. He probably doesn't want to say that. Otherwise, since we've been together, I'm sure she's just with me and no flirting. I try to calm down from the disappointment for him. We are important NOW. And he told me that, but my empty curiosity "ate my ears." I'm probably more conservative and I don't approve of this kind of relationship, even if it was only for sex. But for one I was left with the impression that there were feelings. I don't know if I should tell him that I spied on him and understand, or if I can swallow and move on. Now I look at him with different eyes. In principle, I know that many men like more mature women, but the fact that they were married and with children came to me more. About the author
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Spend more time with your child instead of doing nonsense. The man told you it was in the past, and you saw for yourself that these things are only from his past, so stop your sick curiosity if you don't want to lose your husband. And of course you don't even think about telling him what you did. If he finds out, he will never trust you again and things between you will most likely change in a bad direction.
Did he find them from sites? If it is one of those eternal kibbutzim on different sites, it will never stop. It becomes addictive for them, like gambling. And don't be so sure, because if you dig deeper, you'll probably find that going out with friends last year, a flat tire on a car, or a sudden business trip were just another quick deal. Another question is whether you want to continue the "investigation".
You have done very low. Shame. And I don't see what the problem is. It smells like fiction to me.
Hi, which author is this in the end, you don't seem to have finished your thought? The man has tastes and likes more mature women, I also do not approve of the fact that they were married and had children. He assumed that you wouldn't like these things, so they kept quiet about them, but "empty female curiosity" - you have to extract every bit of information about him and know everything, and then you wonder why I needed to know. There is a saying: "curiosity killed the cat" and so do you.
Каквото е било, било! Гледай само себе си! Не гледай в чуждата паница-както казват всички хора! Има един лаф-"Намери си кака, да те отрака"-да те научи на всички секс техники! Има и друго-след като се появят децата, жените не могат да водят полов живот със съпрузите си и искат някой по-млад приятел да ги задоволява сексуално! Съпрузите им вече са с изключително ниско либидо-годините си казват думата-особено след 50-те! А и да имах гадже, никога няма да му дам никакви пароли, ключове, карти или каквито и да било средства за достъп за каквито и да било мои помещения, шкафове, мазета и други! Просто не всеки има работа там-и още повече-да влиза или отваря там, без аз лично да съм му разрешил, показал или доверил на самия него-забраненото си е забранено и точка по въпроса! И за миналото си не споменавам пред никого-само доверени хора знаят за него!
And how old are you, are you younger than him?
Author: Yes, I am 1 year younger than him. The story is not made up. First I wrote it here, but they didn't publish it, then I found another site and I wrote it there and then I copied it again for here. I didn't know how that day, but he told me - "What do you want to know, I'll tell you well! I had a relationship for 4 years with a married woman! Is that what you wanted to know ?!" I was not prepared for such an answer. I don't know what to think about a man who has managed to hide for 4 years, what else is he capable of. Now I don't know if it's jealousy or disappointment, but I'm even more confused. And then he asks me about my relationships, one story he didn't like, but it's far from forbidden like his story. Then we had sex like never before. However, I am already looking at it with different eyes. He repeats to me that he loves me, etc., but now I see only poop and him. Off, I feel like a teenager.
The author - and on the occasion that I entered his face - he himself told me - "Come in and see that I'm not lying to you" Yes, I really haven't seen anything special since he was with me, but I dug in the archives and so on. ... And because I asked him and he always avoided the topic or denied it came in handy, although I assumed that there was something spicy behind such a reaction. Otherwise, the poop was 7 years older. He's 33 now, he said it was about 10 years ago, but according to what I saw, it's more like - maybe they ended before 6. Well, people, am I just such a masochist and digging there, where it hurts, but I keep going. What does the past mean to you? Is it decisive for future relationships?