I am 29 years old divorced. I have a serious friend of 4 months and we have an intimate relationship. He is crazy about me, he loves me very much and I don't, but we have problems in bed. So he loves sex very much, he is very insatiable, and during prolonged sex I get pain in the lower abdomen. He has very long sex and does not empty! Is this normal and when he leaves he makes checks and empties in minutes. I can't stand prolonged sex, if it continues like this there is a danger of finding another for sex. He likes sex with me going crazy as he possesses me, but why can't he empty himself If anyone has the same problem let me know!
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In my opinion, he is one of those men who think that the more time they knock, the more the woman likes her. He probably rubs himself (from the long sex) and that's why he can't finish normally but makes his own chick! M 26
I had a similar case. It was very difficult for me to finish with my new girlfriend. It turned me on, definitely and everything was ok. But I couldn't finish. In short: the problem was that I was still affected by my previous relationship. I hadn't completely overcome it, but now everything is ok.
Either he does it on purpose or he just doesn't want to stop.
You say you don't love him, let him find another one;)
Honey is looking for a causal relationship in his past and his previous relationships. He may have been alone without a wife or girlfriend for a long time and self-satisfied for years. He's fine with you now, but he's having a hard time having normal sex. You have to help him very carefully by talking about this topic, not by rejecting and ignoring it, it's something like a psycho-organic syndrome, but a sexologist can hardly help him. He looks for the root cause and it is in the brain, in the stress, in the past. If you really care about him, you will help him overcome this condition together. I wish you a successful solution to the problem, but in no case do not part because of it.
Thanks to everyone who answered my question. Yes, he really hasn't had a serious relationship in the past, he has been alone for a long time or he has paid to have sex or he has masturbated. I know he loves me a lot, but will this problem be fixed in time? He suffers a lot and I don't like him having sex afterwards to masturbate to make it easier for him. I think the problem is mental but I don't know how to help him and how to approach him. The first time when we had sex it was difficult to penetrate and I felt hellish pain and then I decided just to break up, is it possible that this also affected him?
Treat him like a normal person, show understanding and things will probably get better!
You can bother him - you give him trouble in bed, for example ... But in general I can't understand what worries you if you don't love him ...
Wait a minute, how it is so difficult to penetrate you, you are not aroused, but more kisses atmosphere, and other things when you are dry inside, men find it difficult to cum, if it is wetter, it is arousing. Stimulate him when he is in you suck his breasts, tests caress him, just stimulate him caress him.
I'm so sorry, but I can't understand why you're with him and why you're so worried when you don't love him. As for the fact that he doesn't ejaculate while you have sex - he probably thinks that you like to be fucked like crazy for 3 hours (with an excuse for the rude expression). Once you don't like it, either talk to him or drop him.
Like, you don't love him, why are you bothering him to find the one who will love him? Or you like to be liked and that's why you stand by him.
you will love him when you least expect it;) when we lose someone, we appreciate him ... I don't wish it on you, keep your relationship this man and move on. be yourself and talk freely with him. whatever your mood is, it is passed on to your husband. Regarding the children, if you want a child, it will be empty, if it will not keep you. Good luck!
If you want to make him cum more easily when you already feel that you can no longer have sex tighten your vaginal muscles then he gets aroused wait a few seconds to continue to seklati give him a blowjob with lips and cancer with a fast rhythm and it will happen but not only with mouth and there is no need to swallow it all ...
Possible prostate problem. Take him for an examination.
hello friends and I have a question for you when we have sex with my boyfriend he empties very little can anyone tell me what is the cause of whether the problem is in me