Hello, everyone! One of the colleagues keeps looking at me and this is already becoming a problem for me. I can't understand why this insistent look is. I'm already very worried when I have to do some work around him. I feel like I'm even thinking about how to get around my responsibilities to avoid his gaze. I feel like I'm taking an exam. We don't even know each other, so I ask him what's going on and why he's looking at me so inquisitively. He is married, so I rule out the possibility of a romantic attraction to me, and I'm not one of the most beautiful. Please advise me how to act so that I can calm down in some way and not be so stiff from his gaze. Thanks in advance!
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Let me give the boy to you ...
Just talk to him.
Watch him in his shoes, you will make him feel dumb =]
Talk to him, being tied up doesn't make him the opposite, for example :) There are a bunch of other reasons if you hurt him, if he doesn't like you, but he will be hated, I don't believe he's crazy, but it's not excluded and still the most logical thing is just that he likes you. This is the most reasonable reason for people in love, impressed or crazy to do so. I don't believe that when he works he is crazy, but talk to him and at least you know him you will easily guess what he wants, with this look, 99% is friendship the other 1% is crazy but I can't believe it :)
And you. What are you fighting about? Let him go, and without that, another chance is unlikely to open up to you soon.
"He's married, so I rule out the possibility of a romantic attraction to me," Ha ha haa;) He was married ?! Believe me, it's not romantic what you think;))
Tell him directly that the constant surveillance on his part bothers you and that should stop. F31
He's probably fucking brutal. And reading that you stiffen at his eyes, it becomes clear to me that you also fuck the heroine.
It may seem direct and rude, but after so many years of patience on my part to all this nonsense (from staring hard to queuing up, if you will) that annoy me, I would go straight and ask him what the problem is. Massive people do what they want because others are shy, anxious, don't bother them and try to get around them, as in your case. If something is unpleasant and bothers you - you go and tell yourself. In most cases, the other side blows because it does not expect such a direct approach, and shrinks the sails. It's not worth being embarrassed by some insolent onlooker, at least it's hellishly rude. Don't be a mouse in other words.
Tell him in front of the others in the room that you are extremely uncomfortable looking at you all the time and he will start to surround you so that no one decides that he is looking at you again. If you're not pretty, they'll blow it hard. Otherwise, if you like to fuck, act - you can be sure that's what he's thinking. Put on a tight-fitting wedge and revolve around it more to go crazy.
Let him do so so he does not rub soap is not then it will pass
I don't know why some people decided that if the girl stiffens his eyes, then she has something to do with him. I do not think so. I would also feel awkward if this happens tendentiously, and it will not be associated with "romantic feelings" for sure. To the author: If there is a way to minimize being close to him, do it. If your professional duties rule this out as an option, just tell him you're not happy to stare at you like that. How much he will take it into account is another question, however (there are many impudent people).
Hello! As far as I understand, you do not know each other. To look at you means he likes you, but it depends. Just because he's "married" doesn't mean there are all kinds of people. And why not be beautiful? Just because you don't feel that way doesn't mean you're not. :) In your place I would go straight to ask him why he looks at me like that. The other option (if you find it very unpleasant) is to simply ignore it. On the one hand, maybe knowing that he's watching you keeps him going. Evansitasa
You may not like yourself, but it's different with him. For example, I am a 39-year-old man with a 5-year-old child and something like a woman around me. They opened a restaurant around us. It's been 4-5 years. There were all sorts of waitresses. I stare at them. I'm not gay. But one of them has been a holder for years. About 40-42 years old quite weak. With a small bust and weak legs. My acquaintances don't like her, but I start staring at her unintentionally. I can barely open my mouth for the order. Not to mention how rich my imagination is and what things I want to do with it. The person has found something unique in you that makes him lose his mind about you. That's why he stares at you. If you can offer him something nice; act. If you don't use your head to make him stop staring.