Hello. I'm a girl of 16 and the boy I like is 25. We've known each other for a year, we've been dating for about 9/10 months. He behaves like a complete womanizer when we go out. He looks at and takes off the girls, not caring if I look at him or not. When we are with them, he behaves as if I am the only one and compliments me, looks at me, sucks me if he has the opportunity. Write to me, call me. He and I are good friends, though. We have a lot in common and memories, we went out in common company, we have fun. He is very smart and ambitious. I didn't tell him about my feelings because I thought I was too ugly and small in his eyes. He certainly knew how I felt, I never tried to hide it. Although I see that he is a downloader, I really think that I am very much in love with him. I think about him every day, my heart beats when I'm around him. I keep telling myself that he can change. I have the feeling that I will not be able to be with someone else if he is not with him. I've never loved anyone so much before. I dream of him, I look at him in a photo and I wonder when we will finally be together.
Most recently, when I was with them, the conversation started and we said to each other who wants what. He told me that he found me very attractive and wanted us to be friends with privileges (just to have sex, without a serious relationship). I told him I preferred a serious relationship, but he just shook his head. I told him I would think about it, but inside I know the answer is NO. I feel like I'm some whore who will just satisfy his sexual desires, no matter how much I want to deny him. He will have the right to do whatever he wants and dump me when he gets bored, which does not suit me at all as an option. He does not want to lose his freedom, but I am not ready to compromise with my body. I still somehow hope that something can happen between us. He considers me beautiful and we are good friends, which means that my character also enjoys it. I wonder if we can find a common option so that we both feel good and something more happens in time. I don't think I can stop liking him. I really have high hopes that he will, sooner or later, be inclined to have a more serious relationship with me. Do you have similar stories/experiences.
What did you do? How did you feel? What would you advise me to do in my case? I will be happy to read your comments. which means that my character also enjoys it. I wonder if we can find a common option so that we both feel good and something more happens in time. I don't think I can stop liking him. I really have high hopes that he will, sooner or later, be inclined to have a more serious relationship with me.
Do you have similar stories/experiences? What did you do? How did you feel? What would you advise me to do in my case? I will be happy to read your comments. which means that my character also enjoys it. I wonder if we can find a common option so that we both feel good and something more happens in time. I don't think I can stop liking him. I really have high hopes that he will, sooner or later, be inclined to have a more serious relationship with me. Do you have similar stories/experiences.
What did you do? How did you feel? What would you advise me to do in my case? I will be happy to read your comments. What did you do? How did you feel? What would you advise me to do in my case? I will be happy to read your comments. What did you do? How did you feel? What would you advise me to do in my case? I will be happy to read your comments.
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He will pass you by and will either use you for a sex toy or for once and bye. And your feelings will still be strong. Don't, girl, I'm sure you're not ugly, don't underestimate yourself. Let him look elsewhere for the squat. Not worth it.
Hello Sweetie! I read your story and I felt sorry for you. You seem to be a good girl and serious, but I'm much older than you and I'll tell you what I think. This man doesn't hold on to you in any way. Neither as a girlfriend nor as a boyfriend. If your friendship is real, it won't even cross his mind to have sex. Looking at other women and behaving like a womanizer absolutely show complete indifference to you. Do not expect a man to experience feelings in time, this will not happen. I know you're very naughty and you don't want that to be the reality, but unfortunately that's life. If you agree to have sex with him, you will only fall in his eyes, you will be pathetic, ready for almost anything just to be with him. Men don't like girls running after them, believe me. Head up and have dignity! Trust me, you will meet another and have many more feelings, he's not the only one, you're only 16. He doesn't deserve you! I, if I were you completely ignored and blocked everywhere, social networks, phone. He doesn't want you for a boyfriend, but are you going to fuck? He is a complete idiot.
From what I have written, it is clear to me that the last thing he wants from you is a serious relationship. He just wants his passion with a girl your age to pass, he even tells you. Looking at other girls on the streets while he's with you shows how little he cares about you. The question is whether you will allow yourself to be used to make him happy. Even if you go together, it will be to trick you into going to bed with him and he will dump you shortly after. Even if your relationship lasts longer, I think it will cheat on you. Find a decent boy who enchants you not only with empty talk, but also with actions. Otherwise, people like this "player" have slipped like Plasmodians everywhere. Success!
In my opinion, do not deal with it at all, because you can sink even deeper into it and then it will be harder for you to be away from it. If he only wants sex, the cause is lost - he will never change. From personal experience I tell you - it is not worth waiting for someone in the hope that it can change. It benefits him so much and he doesn't care about your feelings at all. You better give up while it's time so you don't regret it later. F, 23
Your difference is big, it does not perceive you as material for a serious relationship. You are short and clear for him, but quite a lot.
My advice is to keep your pants on. He was extremely clear and honest, which is commendable. If you want to suffer even more, sleep with him.
These teen "loves" of yours are not love! Yours is just a thrill and nothing more. Garo
Well, it's clear as day. He only wants sex, if you want only that, act, but if you want a serious relationship or something - this is not the man. And if he is courting others in your presence !? Answer yourself !? You are still young, but in the future such things should impress you and make a conclusion without having to ask different people.
I don't see a chance for the situation to develop the way you hope. Your only option remains the one he offered you, and I don't think it's appropriate to agree to it. Look for your luck elsewhere.
This man will not change darling. Believe me, do not be stupid. You can see for yourself that he is a womanizer, they never change. Only in your head can he become a good boy who is in a serious relationship. This does not exist in his head. I had the same case as yours, only my boyfriend was my best friend and we were in the same company for many years, he made me happy, we laughed, but he was a womanizer and he still is. After I had lost my virginity, he offered me sex as you were offered and since I was not a virgin I agreed, we had sex 3 times and it was very nice, and at the same time he had a boyfriend and told her that he loved her very much, that he was faithful to her, they uploaded her pictures of her kissing, and she thought he was faithful to her, but she wasn't. I didn't know there was a relationship and I didn't find out until the third time we slept together, and since then I've told him that we end the relationship because I don't want to sleep with a person who has a relationship and he told me that he sleeps with 5-6 other girls with whom he got along in the same way, and separately when he went to a disco he went home with a stranger. I mean, he slept with 10 girls a week plus his girlfriend. They're still together, obviously his privileged girlfriends are good at keeping secrets, but I see that he won't change. I also wanted to I have been in a relationship with him before and I'm glad I didn't fall in love and fall into the trap because I would find out about the infidelities and I would be hurt. Do not give your virginity to him, because you will regret it bitterly. I gave my virginity to my first serious boyfriend, who loved me. If you find a friend and he takes your virginity and then you break up, then it's not bad to have sex with this boy now, but to be your first, I do not advise you. In general, get out of your head that you will have a relationship. If he agrees to have a relationship, then behind your back he will sleep with others like my friend I tell you about. This will hurt you. Either accept that you will be ordinary friends as before and nothing more, or agree to just have sex if you want, but for a relationship from now on I tell you to give up because you will cry a lot.
Your story is fake. Think of something more real. And don't you care that you went to write stories for minors ...?
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Hi, I'm 26 years old. I want to tell you - RUN. It is not normal for a 25-year-old to communicate with a 16-year-old. The age difference is not big, but the difference in lifestyle should be huge. You are worried about chemistry control, and he should be worried about how he will pay rent / credit, bills, food, etc. He must already have an education and a profession, go to work and be a responsible citizen. He should live as an adult, not move with teenagers. This thing is wrong. Seriously !!! Run away from such lunatics and have fun. You may have heard it before, but the school years are one of the most carefree. Rejoice in them and leave him behind.
Darling, a man who is young and inexperienced and captivated by emotions, always grabs himself like a drowning man with a straw for some hope and thinks that if he fights to the end, something will come out. The truth is that some causes are hopeless at first glance and yours is just that. You are even lucky that he is not an artist, because he could play such a theater for you that you think of yourself as the only one, until he scratches you a few times and then takes off his mask.
Garo, he didn't know. Do not judge other people's loves by your own. At the age of 14 I fell in love for the first time with a boy of 21, who had a girlfriend, alas ... Well, even if he was alone, he would hardly pay attention to me, but what to do, love never asks ... I really loved him for 3 years and I remember that time with a smile. Although I suffered a lot, I had some wonderful and unforgettable feelings. F, 22
He is 25. It is very clear that he will want sex, but you are really small for him. In a few years, it will be time for him to get married, and you are about to start university (I guess). And I think he has no serious feelings for you, since he offered you to be friends with privileges: /
As a man, older than him, I tell you straight - get away from this one. You are small, inexperienced and naive. This guy just wants to scratch his ego and sleep with you, manipulate and use you. If he only wanted sex, it is clear that he has no feelings, he will not have. Don't agree, don't become someone's doormat. When he's dealing with a 16-year-old, I imagine how "male" he is.
You are still a 16-year-old child, and he has offered you the easiest option for him, however. Where did the 25-year-old find it? It is best to end this relationship, because you will be hurt. And when you argue, guess what will happen, she will tell you at the first opportunity that you are a light girl. And quite comfortably again, he will forget that he made you like that. The man has poisoned himself to show that he is a womanizer and a player. There is neither benefit nor nothing from such. No matter what anyone says, the years will always matter, if they didn't matter, there would be no pedophiles. In two words: Get rid of him. Downloaded angel
The problem is not that he is a womanizer, but that you think that is subject to change. If you don't get it out of your head, you'll follow in the footsteps of countless women who allow themselves to be torn apart just because he "would change." These are vain hopes - if someone needs to change to be happy, is it worth it at all? Take matters into your own hands and find someone you really like in all respects.
In fact, I have a very similar story. I was 17 years old and I brutally fell for a boy. We wrote to each other, went out, had fun and really fit in like people. I was in love, just like you. I looked at his pictures, woke up and fell asleep thinking about him, shivering when he was around. Complete program with butterflies in the stomach and fantasies. He wasn't exactly a womanizer, he didn't have much experience, but he had this habit of looking at others, and very obviously, sometimes commenting on them, other times "feeling the ground." One day we talked about our relationship and he offered me to be friends with privileges. I refused him. When a man wants love, he cannot reconcile himself to sex alone. It's like being thirsty and being offered bread. Great, but it won't quench your thirst, it will make it worse. And at that moment my eyes were opened to an awful lot of things, which I had previously justified or considered normal. A few years later, I am proud of my decision, the fact that at the age of 17 I overcame my hormones and used my mind. It hurt me, but if I had embarked on such a "relationship", my heart would have been 100% broken. I feel like I saved a lot of tears. And guess what. After him I fell in love, I fell in love much more seriously, much more strongly, much more truly. And I loved it, so I know that the one with him was a typical high school girl's hobby. You don't think so now, I know. You tell yourself that your feelings are different, that they are your absolute maxim and I don't understand. You will understand me, however. If you think you can't love more, I'll tell you not to underestimate yourself so much. I also have a piece of advice for you, I tell it to you as a little older and with a little more life experience. Never think that a womanizer can be changed. Not so. You do not have the power to change anyone, and a person who only wants sex from you will not change himself, in his desire to be good enough for you and not hurt you. If he was going to change, it would have been months ago, and you would be a real couple. He wouldn't look at another, I say that because when I was 17 I thought that all boys look at each other like that and admire others in front of you. Not true. If he loved you the way you love him, this topic would not exist. You deserve more than just sex. Your body deserves more, you as a person cost enough to have a partner next to you, not a sex buddy. And I wish you all the love in the world, but with someone worthy to share. and a man who only wants sex from you will not change on his own, in his desire to be good enough for you and not hurt you. If he was going to change, it would have been months ago, and you would be a real couple. He wouldn't look at another, I say that because when I was 17 I thought that all boys look at each other like that and admire others in front of you. Not true. If he loved you the way you love him, this topic would not exist. You deserve more than just sex. Your body deserves more, you as a person cost enough to have a partner next to you, not a sex buddy. And I wish you all the love in the world, but with someone worthy to share. and a man who only wants sex from you will not change on his own, in his desire to be good enough for you and not hurt you. If he was going to change, it would have been months ago, and you would be a real couple. He wouldn't look at another, I say that because when I was 17 I thought that all boys look at each other like that and admire others in front of you. Not true. If he loved you the way you love him, this topic would not exist. You deserve more than just sex. Your body deserves more, you as a person cost enough to have a partner next to you, not a sex buddy. And I wish you all the love in the world, but with someone worthy to share. this would have happened months ago and you would have been a real couple. He wouldn't look at another, I say that because when I was 17 I thought that all boys look at each other like that and admire others in front of you. Not true. If he loved you the way you love him, this topic would not exist. You deserve more than just sex. Your body deserves more, you as a person cost enough to have a partner next to you, not a sex buddy. And I wish you all the love in the world, but with someone worthy to share. this would have happened months ago and you would have been a real couple. He wouldn't look at another, I say that because when I was 17 I thought that all boys look at each other like that and admire others in front of you. Not true. If he loved you the way you love him, this topic would not exist. You deserve more than just sex. Your body deserves more, you as a person cost enough to have a partner next to you, not a sex buddy. And I wish you all the love in the world, but with someone worthy to share. You deserve more than just sex. Your body deserves more, you as a person cost enough to have a partner next to you, not a sex buddy. And I wish you all the love in the world, but with someone worthy to share. You deserve more than just sex. Your body deserves more, you as a person cost enough to have a partner next to you, not a sex buddy. And I wish you all the love in the world, but with someone worthy to share.
There are idiots and women all over the world, you know! Remember one thing from me! What do men want from a woman initially-CAKE (supposedly sex) -from there fucking and fucking, nothing more! I'm sorry to have to hear it in such a rude way, but that's it, that's it today, life in the 21st century-perversions and nothing higher, nothing beautiful. Intimacy has become downright DISGUSTING! Mostly because of the dispersed men, thinking only with their hips, WITHOUT HATE COMMENTS, PLEASE PUT YOUR EVIL OTHERWISE !! Hmm, you bastards, you idiots! - # ZAKARYthe future. Don't tie a chick to him, I tell you from the best and most sincere feelings, don't. PLEASE! It is better to have honor and dignity and to know your highest values than to betray your body, honor and soul! Do not! Please! Get him a FUCKING FUCK and that's it, COME ON! Hitch doesn't think of him! Damn, mean .... it's certainly like that, let him graze the grass and watch his life! Courage and beware of the crown!
Come on - it's full of negative comments again. It is true that you are small. But - what they write to you to leave and run are absolute nonsense. Of course, don't let him, but it's entirely possible that things are more serious with him than it seems. If they are - it will be clear. And you experience your love - it doesn't happen that you are in love every day - so if we start running away from everyone - we will chase Mihalya for the rest of our lives. Even if you happen to be in bed one day - a big deal. It won't be your last time.
№23 comments are for a reason. If we allow everyone to use us emotionally and physically just because we have positive feelings for him, where will he end up. The things you say can only be real in your imagination, because the girl will not experience anything, but will deepen her problem the more time she stays with the gentleman in question. Not to mention how much more he will sink if he sleeps with him. Not everyone overcomes things with the same ease - your advice may be valid for you, but the rest are tailored to the author.
Number 24 - what is this tragedy that will play out if the girl listens to me instead of listening to you? What is this "problem" that will deepen? Number 23.
We can't stop you from acting anyway, but I'll tell you one thing - one day you're very sorry.
№23 / 25, if you can't read the author's post, I can't help you. She has made her worries very clear, and your advice will in no way help her to overcome them.
27, I read the author's comment again. My advice remains the same. To live, not to hide and run. And it's not just for this case. :) Number 23.