Hello, I have a problem with sex, namely as I mentioned in the title, my boyfriend only wants anal sex. If he has sex 7 times a week, 6 of them we do anal. We did it for the first time about 3-4 months ago, before that we pretended to be vaginal and everything was perfect. I don't know what kind of mind I agreed to do anal ... The first few times I was in a lot of pain, but then I got used to it and now it gives me some pleasure, but I've never ended up with anal, I always have to play with my clit with hand, otherwise it does not work. And the stupid thing is that he only wants us to do anal! As I said, very rarely vaginal and in general I bring my own orgasms, not counting the oral love she makes me. And I noticed something else when we do anal, it ends more times than with vaginal and I feel that he really enjoyed it much more.
He becomes much more passionate, kisses me, speaks kind words to me. This makes me somewhat happy, but another issue is that anal sex, as I said, almost does not give me pleasure, I prefer 100 times vaginal to anal. Just to insert that he was circumcised (for medical reasons) and I don't know if that has anything to do with it? I ask those who understand to answer this question of mine. Another thing - I tried to tell him I didn't want anal, he got angry and we didn't have any sex. I'm afraid that there will be some problems with such frequent anal sex, can this happen, given that we have sex every day and it is anal more often.
For the afternoon we did anal this morning and again I reached orgasm alone with my hand. if it matters, we're both 18. but another issue is that anal sex, as I said, almost does not give me pleasure, I prefer 100 times vaginal to anal. Just to insert that he was circumcised (for medical reasons) and I don't know if that has anything to do with it? I ask those who understand to answer this question of mine. Another thing - I tried to tell him I didn't want anal, he got angry and we didn't have any sex. I'm afraid that there will be some problems with such frequent anal sex, can this happen, given that we have sex every day and it is anal more often. For the afternoon we did anal this morning and again I reached orgasm alone with my hand. if it matters, we're both 18. but another issue is that anal sex, as I said, almost does not give me pleasure, I prefer 100 times vaginal to anal. Just to insert that he was circumcised (for medical reasons) and I don't know if that has anything to do with it?
I ask those who understand to answer this question of mine. Another thing - I tried to tell him I didn't want anal, he got angry and we didn't have any sex. I'm afraid that there will be some problems with such frequent anal sex, can this happen, given that we have sex every day and it is anal more often. For the afternoon we did anal this morning and again I reached orgasm alone with my hand. if it matters, we're both 18. that he was circumcised (for medical reasons) and I don't know if that has anything to do with it? I ask those who understand to answer this question of mine.
Another thing - I tried to tell him I didn't want anal, he got angry and we didn't have any sex. I'm afraid that there will be some problems with such frequent anal sex, can this happen, given that we have sex every day and it is anal more often. For the afternoon we did anal this morning and again I reached orgasm alone with my hand. if it matters, we're both 18. that he was circumcised (for medical reasons) and I don't know if that has anything to do with it? I ask those who understand to answer this question of mine.
Another thing - I tried to tell him I didn't want anal, he got angry and we didn't have any sex. I'm afraid that there will be some problems with such frequent anal sex, can this happen, given that we have sex every day and it is anal more often. For the afternoon we did anal this morning and again I reached orgasm alone with my hand. if it matters, we're both 18. For the afternoon we did anal this morning and again I reached orgasm alone with my hand. if it matters, we're both 18. For the afternoon we did anal this morning and again I reached orgasm alone with my hand. if it matters, we're both 18.
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It is clear that it gives him more pleasure. Sit down and talk like adults. Explain to him well what you said here. You will still reach a compromise.
Well, you are a free woman, not a slave, you live in the 21st century and you will do whatever you like, as long as it does not harm anyone. It is not right for your friend to be angry with you for not wanting something. This is manipulation and also means that he does not respect you as a person, but treats you as a sexual object, unfortunately. Don't take it too personally though. Just learn from the whole thing, and if that person doesn't care about you, don't be with him. Still, don't forget that he is also 18, and he doesn't have enough experience ... that is, he has developed a fetish, probably stimulated by porn, and so on ... but that doesn't justify the act. Therefore, it is time to put yourself first and find out if this person really cares about you or not. However, I do not want to express extreme opinions, because it all comes down to what you have shared, but I give you guidelines for reflection. .. does he care about you, does he respect your opinion, your wishes, etc.? Or is he just a sexual fetishist? And as for the consumption of this more relaxed type of sex, there is nothing wrong with doing it in some special cases, but every day .... it seems a little much to me. Let those who are more aware of the consequences share, I do not know about it and will not comment.
"Other - I tried to tell him I didn't want anal, he got angry and we didn't have any sex." Egati the disgusting friend you have. Not because of sex, but because he doesn't care at all what you want and what you like or don't like. The man benefits from good sex, this for me is not love in any case.
If you don't like anal sex, just tell him ... what's the problem? My second friend and I were the same as you, but after I told him I didn't want to do anal anymore, he dumped me! But I'm not sorry, so it got even better, because then I found my friend with whom we are to this day. If he does not understand and love you, but only looks after his pleasure, then it is not worth risking your health for him. Because believe me, anal is neither pleasant nor healthy. Those hotas that will tell you about "diversity" or how nice he was, etc. are probably some selfish men or some ignorant women who may be subject to it every night. You are a girl and you must have some dignity!
Anal sex for men is more on a psychological basis. At least for me, the understanding is that a woman has given herself completely and unreservedly to me. But I set an example with myself. For others, I don't know how it is. Another issue is that the back is a little narrower and there you remember other things, but this type of sex is not for everyone :).
Sweatshirts work. I think your friend is selfish. It is clear that he is very good, but you should also be very good. Why sacrifice your pleasure? Circumcision causes a loss of sensitivity over time, but your friend is still too young. Usually the changes begin to be felt many years after the operation. As the head of the penis is constantly exposed and subjected to constant rubbing in the clothes, it begins to lose sensitivity because it gets used to the stimuli. And it gets rough
And my friend is like that, and I don't give it to him because I have hair in my ass. Please tell me what to do.
Motherfucker, horror! As he wants anal to fuck him! What is this? !? Where will it make you do anal? When you don't want NOT so much! Your ass is yours for God's sake! If you don't like it, tell him, show it! You are not his slave! He was angry! Sick mind! Get mad at me and you were! I don't understand how he can, when he realized that you don't like asking for more at all? !!! And let it happen to him at all! If he cared about you and really loved you, he would make sure you were well, not boil it without napping about how you were. They can't squeeze as they walk bigger and they drop. I understand why! As much as he likes the anal to walk a man to lower it. Damn shit too! One woman had said, "I'd better get my own orgasms, than to give blowjobs by force and toss me like a sex doll! ", and she is very right! Ah, you, Author, ask him if this one of yours cares for you at all and loves you!
Young girl, if the story is true, I personally give myself the following explanation. In the first place, when circumcision is performed, the skin on the head of the member becomes rougher than the constant rubbing in the underwear, and hence less sensitive, which can be good, as it leads to a slower emptying in men. Secondly, the vagina during arousal and the accompanying penetration moisturizing gives a generally difficult to describe pleasant sensation. Next, anal penetration for men is primarily related to the feeling of superiority from the fact that you have the woman as you wish, but in addition, the passage of the member through the anal muscles due to its tightness is accompanied by a very clear and very pleasant feeling. how to have vaginal sex. In other words, you have a situation of a member with low sensitivity who has found a way to satisfy his needs with less work. As for the consequences, it is difficult to give an unambiguous answer, if your partner ends up in you most likely you have a disorder that is not a significant problem, it is also possible to get some loosening of the anal muscles, but only for spontaneous defecation can not to speak especially if you do exercises similar to those of Kegel and the lubricant used.
Автор: преди това се правихме вагинален и всичко си беше идеално ДТ: Идеално, ама за кого? Предполагам за него в момента е идеално. Идеалното е, когато и двамата сте доволни. Накарй го да те почва вагинално, докато свършиш поне един-два пъти и после да се мести в другата дупка. Автор: Страх ме е, че ще се появят няккави проблеми от толкова чест анален секс, това може ли да се случи, при положение, че правим секс всеки ден и по-често е анален. ДТ: Няма да се получат никакви усложнения, освен ако приятелят ти не е кон. Разбира се трябва да спазвате елементарни хигиенни норми. Автор: оралната любов, която ми прави ... усещам, че наистина му е много по-приятно. Става много по-страстен, целува ме, говори ми мили думи. Това донякъде ме радва ДТ: Сексът не е отделна и независима част от връзката, освен ако връзката не е само за секс. Прецени, какво даваш и какво получаваш от тази връзка, като цяло. Ако балансът ти се стори отрицателен, "аналната жертва" е глупава. Дядо Торбалан
Get rid of it! Apparently you are only asked to have sex and it does not comply with your desires at all. Self-loving lapels as much as you want
Nothing will happen to you. My ex and he so-blowjob, anal and nothing else. I explained to him that he was just making the bills he was making without the bartender ... and I started wanting my own. If I'm done, then he will do whatever he wants. I was faster so he didn't bother much, otherwise he's good. Very good, he knows what to do to please me, only where he literally has to take his tongue out of his mouth with a hook.
Doesn't it bother you that the person next to you is extremely selfish? Sex should be mutually pleasurable, not satisfying to the man. A decent and in love partner is interested in the other's desires, and does not act like a pinched girl when you tell him what you want and what you don't. In this line of thought - find a boy who will be interested not only in his penis, but also in you. And something else, frequent enemas (if you do before sex) are quite harmful because they disrupt the flora.
For your reassurance, I'll tell you he'll probably get bored. When we started doing it, it was more or less the same. After a little grumbling and a lot of patience on my part, he just wasn't that interested. The idea of "forbidden territory" and all the psychological aspects of things has simply been removed. We currently do it no more than 2-3 times a month and no one grumbles.
I see that you are a good man, and he takes advantage of that very skillfully. I have read many times that women have sex with anal sex, and the man has nothing to do with it. Anal sex is very harmful, and it is very painful. After seeing that it hurts, why does he continue with his impudent desire? Leave it, this sweet girl, there are others ... it will cause you a problem, then how will you get rid of it? He doesn't care about you at all, if he wants ONLY anal. I would never give anal, there is made to go out not to enter but stupid men do not understand. True to yourself!
Clap in the backyard and don't be afraid, nothing will happen to you.
Oh poor thing .... get away, run away from him if you're not compatible so much sexually. Not only do you not like it, but girl, it's not useful. Things just have to come out of there, not get in. And if a person really wants to practice it, it is not good more than 2 times a month, and you do it almost every day. You really lost your mind, part with him. Its taste will not change.
Leave it to this drummer, there are others! it will give you a problem then what are you going to do ... get rid of this hidden gay.
Horror, I just don't envy you. For me, anal sex is disgusting, it's good that my dude doesn't want such things from me because he doesn't consider it normal either. As for your problem from such frequent anal sex, your hole will widen a lot and after a while you will not be able to squeeze and push yourself;) I know that this is because I had an acquaintance who had shared a similar problem with me. mn fucking from behind and finally barely restrained herself from going out in her pants;) F21
Try to explain to him that you don't mind anal sex and you will continue to do it, but you can't have an orgasm and that's why you stick to the vaginal one. If he still doesn't understand you and doesn't fix things, dump him or tell him that you will find someone to do it with if he doesn't want to. M39
Hey, these are today's men, you give them some extra for variety and then that's all they want. Author, I am free and young. I experienced it this moment. Just to tell you that the consequences of anal sex are huge. You can even get colon cancer from frequent anal sex. There is nothing wrong with a special case, but your man will forgive me every time. Tell him you want vaginal sex, if he loves you he won't look at you badly and frown at you. And you can nicely wrap the vibrator in his ass a little and you can diversify. Sorry, but if he doesn't think about your health and psyche, then you're dealing with a total egoist. And what about a serious partner.
This anal sex has drunk the brains of these men! In principle, the back is narrower, it is normal for the pleasure to be greater for the man, but only every day it is too much and problems will start for you after a while and it will not be pleasant for you to meet us with an apology. If his instrument is thinner and you are wider, it is possible for that, and if things are not like that, then he is purely selfish and just wants to get the pleasure of max.
Hi, when I read your story, I didn't think you and your partner were that young. Dear girl, now is the time when you and your boyfriend form only your sexual taste preferences, as you want to call it. What this man is doing to you is not good, because as you know in sex, one thing must be desired by both of you. What he wants from you is more typical of long-term couples with a lot of sexual experience, who for one reason or another want to diversify their sex life from time to time. What is happening 100 percent I tell you is not normal. If you respect yourself, don't do this thing. No one has the right to ask for it from you if you don't want to. If the conversations between you do not help, then this person considers you a toy, something to experiment with, that is, a hole. Sorry for the rude expression. This man does not love you, unfortunately, a man who loves and respects a woman would never insult his partner in this humiliating way. As for whether it is harmful, I am not 100 percent sure, although I am a medical person. If it does not predispose you and you do not use lubricant, you will get abrasions and tears, which will most likely pass, do not use sharp objects so as not to tear the mucosa, then you can doubt the surgery ward. However, I do not know if you will not get psychological problems in this regard and possibly have problems with other partners. Good luck and think about how far the border is to please. although I am a medical person. If it does not predispose you and you do not use lubricant, you will get abrasions and tears, which will most likely pass, do not use sharp objects so as not to tear the mucosa, then you can doubt in the surgical ward. However, I do not know if you will not get psychological problems in this regard and possibly have problems with other partners. Good luck and think about how far the border is to please. although I am a medical person. If it does not predispose you and you do not use lubricant you will get abrasions and tears, which will most likely pass, do not use sharp objects so as not to tear the mucosa, then you can doubt the surgery department. However, I do not know if you will not get psychological problems in this regard and possibly have problems with other partners. Good luck and think about how far the border is to please.
Number 9, well, wipe yourself .... Or go to a beautician, they also remove them there.
Daaaa beeee, number 11, she has no other job, so especially for that drishlyo she will do Kegel exercises and nonsense just so that she doesn't start getting nauseous ... And what is he sacrificing for her? She sacrifices her ass and pleasure. And he what? Well ... nothing! Get rid of it, Author! You will find someone who deserves you! This is not the last ...
Be patient, you will start to like it.
28 by that logic, let me start beating you. When you complain to me about the pain, I will tell you: "Be patient, you will start to like it ... :)"! Dumb people, it was!