My terrible fate continues! I like a man for so long. He is shy, but he said he had feelings for me. How long did I wait for him to talk to me, well, do it. I made a mistake during this period, my ex appeared and you remember, it was only one meeting, one night, but enough to cut the wings of the other. And again I waited for him, I waited, I managed to push his wick, so to speak, we started talking often and a lot, I felt that he was about to explain to me and suddenly! Without explanation, without anything, he withdrew abruptly and totally. He doesn't look for me, he doesn't talk about me with any of his avers, he doesn't even mention me. I am very upset because I had high hopes for a serious relationship with him. We hadn't heard or seen each other for 2 months. I decided to look for him, I wrote to him on Skype, but it turned out he wasn't there, then answer me in 2-3 words. I wrote him something like that again, we forgot when we haven't seen each other, and he shouts I'm busy with 2-3 new stories. I asked him when he would be freer, he said I don't know. And before he seemed to like me so much :(. What do you think Is there another woman in this business or am I wrong somewhere? I have another doubt, he knows my ex, they are friends, not great, but still friends, Is it possible for something to come from there or ... and I don't know, but I want something to happen between us
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You can't blame and call your destiny terrible, since we make choices for some things ourselves. You seem to have liked this boy very much, you waited for him to talk to you, etc., and when he has decided on this, what do you say to him? !! And you could have simply not picked up on your ex (in fact, it is not clear how exactly he "appeared"), therefore not to come to this meeting and the consequences of it. Yes, but no ... apparently you yourself were not clear what and whom exactly you want. And the last few sentences you wrote need no comment. Yes, you were wrong, although no one has the right to judge you, but put yourself in the place of this boy. Plus, adding that he knows your ex, he knows what happened between you ... he decided it was better to back off and I justify him in this case. And you learn a lesson next time that if you really want something, you will do everything to have it. Unfortunately, the weakness you have shown does not speak well for you.
The man obviously understood at the moment that he was second. I don't blame him, to be honest. He seems serious in his feelings, but he may just give it back to you right now, or he may feel hurt. If you really have feelings for him, try to talk to him, ask him for a meeting for this purpose. Apologize for the mistake. If he cares about you, he'll understand. But be honest. No toys. You already need a serious attitude here, because it has already happened badly once.
I had a similar situation ... my advice is to forget about the man in question. Maybe he has some worries of his own, or you pushed him away with something. In my case, I could not understand the reason for this abrupt change of course, but I began to overcome it already. Live your life and forget, move on, do not be humiliated to look for someone who does not bother to look for you. Success! :) Doriana
I think it was about you and your ex said: "Wait a minute, do you know that me and this girl ..." and said everything. I had a similar situation. One piece of advice from me - no deal with friends of your ex.It's a waste of time.
He just pulled away from you. He saw something in you that he didn't like so much. Not that you're bad, but not everyone can like us, can you? And how will you pin your hopes on a serious relationship with someone you don't know and haven't been together? !! You have decided that when he is more shy, he will immediately slap you ... Now your ego is crushed - how can a mold cut you off. Well, you underestimated him. Another time, be more careful with your judgment of people.
I am now happy with my ex again :) still thank you for the advice. I tried to forget it and in time I succeeded. :) - THE AUTHOR :)
Well, you hardly forgot it in two days, but still try to make it so. Not worth it. And I hope that in reality you are happy with your ex and that you don't let him down and just forget the other one, that would be pretty nasty on your part. Success!