Hello! I am a 19 year old girl and I have been in a serious relationship for a year and a half. The truth is that he is my first. I am very happy with the quality of sex, but not with the frequency. At the beginning of our relationship I did not have such problems, now the excuse and the most common remark is: you are abnormal, you can't every day. Considering that there has been a lot of nausea and vomiting, it is not a little strange for me to hear it from his mouth. I work in two places and study, and he is a full-time student who, in the worst case, has 3 hours of lectures a day. He is not too tired, neither physically nor mentally, as long as the fact that I am rotten from work does not bother me. So ... my question is: Am I crazy that I constantly insist that my boyfriend have sex with me or that he doesn't want to and it seems too much to do it every day? (PS I have a vibrator, it doesn't solve my problem ...
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Everyone has a different desire. At the moment you are on the crest of the wave, and he is calm. Try a little with the provocations to him and his pleasure. And it's weird for a man to refuse sex. But if he wants, skip two days a week. You can slightly diversify the place and the poses. Share your fantasies with him and let him share what fantasies he has, you can surprise him with one of them. Strange that it is your first, but you are sure that you have quality sex. Then why aren't you satisfied? And it occurs to me that maybe you were interesting to him only in the beginning, you were also a virgin.
Hello! I think you're normal, but ... I've rarely met women who want to every day ... so you may not be normal from another point of view :)
You make a big mistake by making him do it EVERY DAY! So you know how fast you're going to get bored of him, you know? Leave the man alone, obviously the animal in him is weak. Do it 1 time a week or 2 that's enough believe me. If my boy wants to leave every day, for me it's a disease state you're hyper sexual. But do not be sad, maybe others will advise you with better advice .... Paris
There's something wrong with this boy, to be honest. But look, if you want to have sex so much ... find yourself a sex friend. Get what you want and you're done. Or sit down and talk to him and tell him: Well, if you don't want to ... don't you have a friend who wouldn't refuse me?
I don't want you like I did in the beginning ... is it so hard to understand!
Neither you nor him are abnormal. You just don't fit.
You are abnormal.
Sex every day? He is not an animal. You remind me of my ex, who was constantly grumbling about sex. I emphasize the former.
At the age of 19, if you don't have sex with your boyfriend every day, or several times a day, I just don't think what the frequency of sex will be after 20 years of marriage with, for example, the same boyfriend. I would advise you to change boyfriends while it's time. You are not on the same wavelength in sex, and it is VERY important.
We are talking about students, there is nothing abnormal in everyday sex. Even a few stumps a day. Young people have or should have a higher libido. At 40 it may be normal twice a week, but at 20 it is normal 2 times a day. Don't be so aggressive, you startle him, he is stressed that he can't satisfy you and his libido goes even lower. There may be a hormonal problem. Play a little theater. Seduce him, then refuse him. Make him feel like a hunter. Offer him a role play, dirty talk. Every day, even plum pudding gets tired, say the British. Grandpa Torbalan
You're fine, you're great. Obviously the man is not for you
Hi, I think you are absolutely normal and there is nothing wrong with wanting sex every day at this age, I do not know your friend to determine what kind of person he is, but once you get to the vibrator obviously things are not really going well with you. You may be bored with him and / or not the only one to do it with, usually in such situations the simplest answer is correct. Didn't you write how old he is? !!
In fact, a lot of men have noticed that they have this problem ... and gain more weight. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and in the same way. In the beginning like rabbits, now one like that ... chat pat ... if there are twice a week it is a holiday for me ... sometimes I want it three times a day and I don't think it's abnormal. It is absolutely normal! talk to him.
Am I the only one who thinks he's cheating? You work, and he has 3 hours of lectures and is free, what does he do ... There is no man who does not want sex, he just does not want it with you (with the woman he is in a relationship with, who has become bored with him) ).
Number 16 - "There is no man who does not want sex" - a great understanding came out. Who told you that? Did your mother teach you, did your friends tell you, or did you get it from TV series and magazines? Let me guess - you think men are sexual predators and zombies and you have the advantage of being more controlled and manipulative and play them to get what you want from them before you open your legs and get all the sex you want, right? I'm sure that's your idea of the relationship. At some point, however, women like you realize with shock that male desire and sexuality are not a given, but you have to appreciate them a lot and give them priority, otherwise at one point you are left without them and something you took for granted when you lose it becomes the most -the important thing and you turn the world upside down and a howl begins, crying and sobbing how you don't feel like a real woman anymore, how you are not wanted, how you can't stand it anymore, etc. Well, why did your boyfriend look at sex and male desire as a given, as something to take advantage of to benefit? and make something else? The punishment for such thin counters then turns out to be a lack of desire and sex.
The man works on colleagues, obviously you are no longer №1, listen and look around!
Hi honey, I'm the same as you. I have a desire every day and I can confirm that the opposite statement that men wanted every day and had a greater desire for sex is not true. Because at the beginning I thought so and it was very strange to me that my husband refuses sex, so they must be like animals lol It's just a myth. It absolutely depends on the person, regardless of gender. As I have friends who have told me that more than once a week they do not want to have sex, here for them your boyfriend will be suitable. But unfortunately it is not for you. I tell you this because I have always had a strong urge and I have had relationships in which they could not catch up with me at a pace that makes me feel irritated, dissatisfied and even hurt. well-being. However, every woman wants to be wanted, not repulsed. But there are men, who have a lot of desire like you, so if for you sex is key in a relationship (as it is for me) take a look, because people do not change, even with age they get worse .. And that your friend says that can't every day, it just means he can't every day. In principle, you can, it's normal for me :)
Well, I don't think you fit in sexually. If you don't have sex now when you're 20, think about what it will be like when you're 35-40. Then will you do it once every three months? Or once a year? I understand you, and I am like you. My ex was with me for almost 10 years, we left at the age of 17. In the beginning it was sex 5 times a day, I'm not lying to you. His roommates thought he was taking Viagra hahaha. It wasn't every day because he lived 50 km away and we couldn't see each other that often. But when we gathered in one city, necessarily every other day, at least once. Either he is slower and more passive in sex by nature, or he fucks other colleagues. Talk to him about it (without blaming him for others because you don't know if). Just tell him you need sex more often and try to find a compromise.