He was not a chatterbox. Told me so. Yes, but when he is abroad, how can we communicate in another way? We met recently, went out alone and with friends. The spark ignited, and we had sex. However, he lived abroad and left. He said he would see me again. He planned to come to Bulgaria again in about two weeks and stay for a week. I know that in the beginning some men do not like to rush and to have someone thrown at their neck. Noo ... I'm very sad, and he won't let me talk on Viber. He said that he prefers real contact, that he doesn't like chats and conversations. Quite a convenient excuse. When I write to him, he answers me, ie we write a lot, every day for now. But he never starts the conversation first. I'm always homesick and I can't help but write to him first. I have friends who deliberately treat women this way, even though they are in love with them. They think they should not look desperate. However, he goes a little too far ... Do you think this is a strategy or is he just not interested in me? I decided, after writing to him constantly for a week, to stop suddenly from today and try not to look for him first for a week. Of course, if he writes to me, I will answer him. I won't behave badly or withdrawn, I just won't look for him first.
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Stop writing to me. Men are not verbose, yes, but don't be ashamed to look for him all the time. And yes, a long distance connection is not a long distance connection!
I support what you have decided and see how it will react. Even make them 10 days, a person who is interested in you and is not indifferent will look for you very soon. If he doesn't, everything is clear.
You are his number for Bulgaria, abroad there must be another. There is no point in wasting your time. If you are 'in love', the problem is on a completely different level.
Some people really love face to face. And being abroad means you have no connection. So what do you want from him?
From the author: I want a serious relationship with him. He has a profession that does not bind him in a particular country. He can live here too. He pays rent for an apartment here, he obviously comes regularly. For now, it is once a month. He said that he would call me when he came to Sofia and that he would be here for a week.
The author, how do you want a serious relationship with a person with whom you do not have contact most of the time? Not to mention that his interest in you is purely sexual, without any emotional aspect. He has shown it quite clearly and I do not know what else you need to interpret it correctly. Women tend to attach an inherently romantic meaning to sex. Unfortunately, in reality for most men this is not the case. Drink cold water and do your homework.
I also don't like chats, I'm a woman, for the record, but when I was really intrigued by someone, I write how else. in the sense not first, and not strategically, but with pleasure. what you have decided is good - pull back a little and don't be so active. just relax in that relationship and let them be. go at his pace, whatever happens. N.