We have known each other for a long time. It took me down for almost half a year and finally it worked. Recently, after a misunderstanding, he told me that I was easy. I was blown away and I still am. What would you think of such a person For the record, he is not a teenager, claiming to know what he wants and how to achieve it.
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That he doesn't think it, but he says it to hurt you.
I don't know what to think. Probably not good things. But one thing is for sure - I would beat his jester in a second.
Apparently he has been waiting for his previous girlfriends for over a year for sure and that's why he told you ...: D Morena
It is not a pain to die. If you are interested in why he said it and whether he thinks it is easy - ask directly. But think what you would do if you didn't like the answer. Would you break up with him or is it just a momentary state, an insult that you can swallow. I think your friend sensed your weakness and just hit, insulting you that way. Not that you're easy, he just found a way to hurt you in a moment of rage. Like I said, it's not a pain to die.
Amy wanted to hurt you because you had been pulling on him for a long time. Don't bother ..
In my opinion, such things are not said to a woman, even if it is not a pain to die №5. It is more than certain that I will not swallow it, but I am angry about the wasted time. (the author)
You are easy! Accept it! The person next to you sees best and not only - feels! The fact that you are affected proves it! A woman who thinks and is worried about this creates problems for herself, and it's easy. If a woman likes a man, would you play with him for half a year? ... and yet you're squatting - let me repeat - you're easy, thank you
Easy for what? did he justify what he meant. In my opinion, it is not easy if the reason for his statement is that after 6 months of persistent persecution on his part, you "surrendered". There is no pleasure, if you kept pulling you would tell you that you are a bloated goose and you are wasting his time, now you are easy ... men ....
He took you down for half a year and said you were easy. I think he said it only annoyed you, to test you, to see how you would react. Half a year is not at all, but it is not small at all. If he thought you were easy, and let's say he didn't like the easier ones, he would have moved away from you a long time ago. And he didn't do it;) The question is what are you worried about? Well, you were embarrassed because you already trust him, and that's not what you wanted to hear from him. Don't take it seriously, but at all. He was under pressure, that "misunderstanding between you, prompted him to say something he probably didn't really mean. And if he's a big man, then you'll understand each other like great people :) Call him, see each other, talk, That's what great people do. And don't underestimate yourself, as far as I can see, you know what you want, at least at this point. And he :) he's a little confused, leave what he says, in order to be stronger in front of you, he will say that he knows what he wants and how to achieve it, and he will behave that way. At least he fought for you for half a year, you are the thing he knew he wanted. ~ winterfire ~
Easy is not only used in terms of how long after meeting you will open your legs. No matter how angry, affected a man is, he can't afford to say something like that to a woman without thinking about it, just to annoy her. (even more so when he has been running after her ass for half a year) The question is, author, why can't you swallow it? In principle, people are affected by the truth, and you obviously say that it is not. Where is the truth? Maybe in this misunderstanding, which he simply referred to as a 'misunderstanding'. Bad
Wait now, what decided that easy refers to how long it took you down? I often say "Well, you're very easy" in the sense that you have to be a little happy - which has a positive connotation. There are many other possible options - that it is easy to be deceived, that you are not pretentious, etc. Say what you quarreled about and things will become clearer. And really, as Bad said, if the first thing that goes through your mind when you hear "easy" is that you're easy to download, then it's kind of like a complex you're afraid of. That's why you tortured the poor man for half a year, and instead of being grateful and flattered that he has been waiting for you so long, now he is guilty again ... You don't deserve a week to wait for you ...
Haha, why should I swallow it? He can tell me rubbish tomorrow and I must smile at him? The next day I may have one and I think he had a bad day? I cannot accept such momentary states. When a person says something, he should at least think about what he is saying. I remember a story that ended with the saying "A deep wound heals, a bad word is not forgotten.
14, we suddenly became very sensitive. Again, it is not clear from your description whether "easy" was said as an insult, as a joke, or something else. Even if it was like an insult, if you are ready to dump this person just for one such (rather insignificant) insult, then you don't care about him anyway, what are you going to do then. Sometimes a person in a relationship must be inclined to take a lot of insults, and this does not mean that he is dumb or talkative, but it is a matter of balance and compromise. And if you really love, insult is the last thing you care about. If you don't like, then who cares, why waste your time writing here? Kubrat
"9. You are easy! Accept it! The person next to you sees best and not only - feels!" Is that it was a statement of what this thing is and when the person next to me says "what are you" does it mean that I am like that? She calls my best friend a "freak" and she's not like that at all ... Either he said it jokingly and you didn't feel it, or it was the easiest way to hurt you because you've been playing him for so long . S
The fact that in a relationship a person had to endure a lot of insults to achieve balance is the biggest nonsense I've ever read :) And when you loved you didn't care about the insult. Abe, Kubrate, don't do that. You write funny things in almost every topic. Just when a person loves and is in love, it affects him the most and hurts him the most. Because if I am offended by someone who does not play a special role in my life, I will not pay attention to what he told me. But the question is different when it comes to the person you love. Author, don't listen to them at all, I see that you are thinking correctly enough. Only a simpleton can make such "jokes".
To Bad When people are angry, or their self-esteem and its weakness are affected. They are able to talk nonsense, to say things they don't think at all. Sometimes this happens when we defend ourselves or want to hurt the other. Well, an "affected" man is absolutely capable of saying something like that, if it's not true, and he thought it. And if he had said it just to affect her, in a fit of nervousness. Precisely because he ran after her for half a year, he couldn't say that she was easy and think that how easy it would be to take down a woman for half a year is not easy, and it shows that this woman is not easy. , on the contrary, it is even difficult to access. You are right about the author (number 14), but if he is aggressive, only you can know that. And aggression is manifested from an early age, in the low patience of man. To have such patience with you, he doesn't seem to be one of the aggressive people, especially if he hasn't shown rudeness and aggression so far. Just think. Yes, he made a mistake, he should have thought, but when you talk about him, you should also at least think. You must be very sensitive, and easily affected, I understand you. You don't let everyone near you, and if you give someone a chance, it's like getting to know the person first, which is very good. But people make mistakes, and if they are aware of their mistake, it is right that we can compromise, if it is in our hearts. ~ winterfire ~ and if you give an opportunity to someone, it is like getting to know the person first, which is very good. But people make mistakes, and if they realize their mistake, it's okay to be able to compromise, if it's in our hearts. ~ winterfire ~ and if you give an opportunity to someone, it is like first getting to know the person, which is very good. But people make mistakes, and if they are aware of their mistake, it is right that we can compromise, if it is in our hearts. ~ winterfire ~
He may have predicted that you could easily burn. It's hard to say from the side. I gave my husband on the first date and for 12 years. he didn't tell me I was easy. Apparently you have complexes. Sorry, but for me it's like that. Magicians
Well, beat his jester and show him that you are not as easy as you think. You are absolutely right that these things should not be overlooked. By uttering such words, the person in question shows his complete disrespect for you, but most of all his own immaturity, limitation and simplicity. It's not worth it, even if you waste your time writing about it on the forums. Do not get mad. Be thankful that he showed you how much money it costs and throw this story in the trash. Every trial in life is given to us in order to gain experience and to learn some lesson from it. Now you come to the conclusion that this person was not worth it, he is definitely not your person, the one you want to have next to you. Well, let him be alive and healthy, and you continue boldly forward in life and somewhere along your path, you will meet exactly the person who is for you. Let this one graze. It costs nothing. Thank you for showing what a pathetic man he is so you don't waste any more time with him. Good luck.
It may be in the sense that you give in easily, but in fact why don't you ask him what he meant ..
When he is angry, even if I ask him kindly, something starts screaming at me, insulting me and I keep quiet, I'm just used to such an attitude. Apparently they looked at you like a painted egg, you were the coolest at school and you are used to receiving respect, attention, flattery and at some point when you meet his anger, which does not adore you and you feel bad. I wonder what you said to him when he told you that you were "easy"?
I hate the type of women like the author the most! Blalala but I will never run half a year after a skirt. Congratulations to your friend for hurting you, well done
to 22 - I acted at the first signal - I told him to find a harder one: o}
I think you're wasting your time on nonsense! Don't think so! Ask him if he bothers you, but generally don't pay so much attention! Stefka
I think you're wasting your time on nonsense! Don't think so! Ask him if he bothers you, but generally don't pay so much attention! Stefka