My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and I would say that we have a good relationship, many people are happy and tell us that we are very sweet together. I like being with her and she seems to be saying the same thing, but lately I'm starting to have strong doubts. It all started after she went to the village for two weeks and one night she didn't start writing me suspicious that she was at a party and then invited two boys to sleep with them because they couldn't go home, but nothing happened. It turned out that she slept on the same bed with one, but nothing more. Then it turned out that he told her that he liked her, but again nothing happened, so yes ... We quarreled, but I confided in her that she cut him off. After a while, he started telling me things like why people should be monogamous if we split up whether we will remain friends and the like. I told her, that I do not deal with such nonsense. Here I began to doubt that she was really itching already and wanted to put me on reserve. Last night we were at a party of my friends. Before we left, he just told me how nice I was, how he liked me, and so on. When we went, he behaved as if we didn't know each other and just ran after one of my friends. Then I talked to the company and they think there is something rotten. What would you do in my place? How can I save the relationship and is it worth it? Am I wrong somewhere? Otherwise, in short for me: I'm 22 and she's 19. Medium height, I go to the gym and keep fit, I would say I have an athletic body. I am a programmer by profession, but in my free time I also do photography. In principle, I like a little "nerd" - I like to read various things, lately I'm attracted to philosophy. Overall, I'm a slightly introverted person - I like us the most, I don't like going to discos and I'm rarely the soul of the company, but I can chat with almost anyone and I like going to home parties and concerts / events. Here we are slightly different, she likes to give more, while I am more controlled. I apologize if there are spelling mistakes, it is written on the phone.
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You're tired and he wants to mess with others. You are the reserve.
I think she likes you, or at least there is something that keeps her with you, but she touches the ground or she just enjoys harassing you. I have developed such stories about monogamy precisely because I had another man in mind. I cheated later. Running after your friend is extremely offensive and insulting. It definitely doesn't sound like normal behavior to me, and you haven't walked for a long time. Apparently she likes to deal with boys and crosses the border. Some people sleeping in her bed and the truth gradually being revealed ... quite suspicious. I would not have faith in such a person. You seem comfortable, but if you can wipe something else, or at least boost your self-esteem, flirt with others. You sound like a good boy, and some girls like to abuse that. It's not worth going with such a drag. They like to have a few of them to run after their skirts and brag about how beautiful and beautiful they are. The biggest punishment for them is simply not giving them the attention they think they deserve because it hits them directly in the self. That's what I would advise you to do ... I myself had quite similar behavior years ago and I remember what hurt me the most.
Cousin, boyfriends, she's 19, in the 21st century ... you read philosophy ... do you think this relationship can develop into something more serious? I will answer you - no. Chance tending to zero. Have fun as much as you can, when you feel the rot run away and that's it. There is time for the other. Brother.
Some kind of spinning tail is the one, small
I've had enough of nonsense! I have dozens of male friends, most of them my friends have befriended, they often stay at our villa, our relationship is free and open, but ... to go to bed with one of them is simply unthinkable. The man would rather sleep on the floor or on a mattress on the terrace than in my bedroom. The only time I slept with a man in the same room and I died of anxiety. My colleague and I were on a business trip abroad and it turned out that instead of two rooms they booked us one, with a shared bed, not two. And there are no other rooms. I called my husband to look for another hotel on the Internet, he shouted: abe, stay there for one night. My colleague's wife died laughing when she realized what an idiotic situation we were in. Finally, we turned it into a joke and crooked left, with thousands of inconveniences and disguises in the bathroom, we spent the night and still remember this incident as a joke. But to go to bed with the guests, sorry! Author, unfortunately your girl doesn't particularly like you. You are young, you have time to focus on something more meaningful. And don't get caught up in the rumors that "nothing happened." You're not in fifth grade.
My husband just described a dream ... So ... You drop it, I take you and everything exactly. There is no problem with me. ; DDD
I would blame your girlfriend if n3 was 19 years old. Young people think that if they do not live now, then there is no time and they will miss the moment. Plus, she's 19 now, she's starting to become more of a woman, the traits are changing. He feels "in the prime of his life." Of course, he will want to see something different, he also likes attention. Your relationship will not last long, it must experience this once it has such beginnings. ,,