I have lived with the man next to me for years. When we were younger (we are now about 30 or so), he reached out to me. Now, after so many years, in a scandal, he pushes me, hits me, insults me for being fat, and I look completely normal. After so many years, it is very insulting to behave like that, and there is no clear reason for his behavior. When you're 16-17, you don't take things very seriously, but as you approach 30, it's hard for you to overcome that attitude. When you're probably not far from starting a family, thinking about many issues, and now with the holidays approaching, no one wants to be alone. This aggression and insults to me, ruin everything.
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Hi, no small big, hitting stays a lifetime. Don't think it will pass, but keep telling him you don't want violence, even though I don't think it will stop.
Well, you hit him with a kick in the ass and change the lock. If he worries you then he has a law to protect against domestic violence, they will very quickly issue a restraining order.
There can be no reason for his aggressive behavior. There is and obviously he makes it to you, unfortunately. If he insults or hits you again, get angry with him. I hope he realizes a little then.
He will not stop. Even though you are already 30, leave him. I've never been beaten. My husband and I have been together for 23 years, but he never touched me. There have been quarrels, quarrels and we often argue. I don't shout, he sometimes shouts, but then he explains that in this way he throws away the negative emotions and then it passes very quickly. I don't think a man who hits a woman next to him can then hug her. There can be no love here. Love cannot be rudeness and causing pain, both physical and mental. Think again, you are young, you look good as you write, if you would like this to continue. Or you will look around you for a man who deserves you, who will embrace you with tenderness and respect.