Hello! I am 26 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. Sex is very nice and varied, but I recently found out that he shared with his friends about sex with me and what exactly we do, so I'm ashamed of how I will look at them when I see them. I told him that I was not happy to share this because he was between them and he told me that he just wanted to tell someone about the emotion. What do you think? Is this correct?
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It would be right for what you do in bed to stay there. Personally, I don't share such things, even in detail ... even with my best friends. Especially if I have a long relationship and serious intentions towards the woman. Come on ... if it's sex for one night ... to some extent it's justified .... Talk to him face to face and share your feelings. It can kill a complex.
Tell us, why should only his friends know?
Your friend is attention whore. Apparently you have a relatively superficial relationship, since you like such a person who reveals everything about himself to be interesting to others. From my point of view, this person does not respect you and uses you to draw attention to himself.
Well not much. After all, sex is quite intimate. Tell him you're not happy, you have nothing to ask us.
The thing is, unless you're a fan of 50 Shades of Bozavo, everyone else is doing almost the same thing. And there are men who JUST have to show what kind of men they are and how their wives moan while they ***. Tell him you don't like it and if he wants to share it with someone, let him share it with you. If he doesn't stop, hit him.
It's not right .. but as we share with girls for example .. so they share with each other However, it also depends on how deep he went into his stories de
IT IS NOT RIGHT. Sex is the most personal thing between two people. Even if you ask me, CHANGE IT. If he valued you, he would have asked for permission if you allowed me to share with them. Disgusting act ... who knows what he tells them, what whistles you gave him and where you gave him, horror! Getting rid of him can get you a bad name! Beware
It is normal to talk about sex. After all, they are men, they brag, exchange experiences and so on. You are obviously more shy and that is why you react this way. Honey, advice from me, there's nothing better than your boyfriend sharing your sex life with his close friends. They talk anyway, just like us women, except the difference is that they only talk about their great experiences, about the best sex, so to speak. Praise you, at least. Feel proud that your boyfriend is so happy with your sex that he will share his great experiences with you. However, if you were talking about your ex, then you might have a problem. Rejoice, come and be healthy!
Well, I don't think I know a man who doesn't brag about such things. Don't take it personally.
Not normal of course.
It is normal for a man to want to brag, it is not pleasant for the lady, but it is normal. There is no point in putting it to heart, whatever I tell them about them remains only dry and impersonal information, but the emotion is only for the two of you. Do not harness and drive the old way.
I would love it if he praised me in front of others. It happened that a friend commented to me in front of others how good I was (he was drunk). I remarked to him, but I felt cool.
Better a poor horse than no horse at all. From experience.
Why do you think all women share with their girlfriends? My girlfriends (they are not many, I communicate with men more) do NOT know ANYTHING about my sex life, they do not get into work. The same goes for my friend - I forbade him and I don't think he does, it's not complex. For me, this is what complexes do. If you do not like it - do not be silent. Tell him to stop commenting, otherwise separation will follow. But you have the right to impose this condition on him only if you do NOT comment. And how did you find out that he shared, with details?
And my friend shares what we do in bed. And in front of me he tells his friends how we had sex. I don't take it personally, I don't feel offended or cool. He does it because he needs to brag about how I beat him on the back, how I rode him, how well I did, how he drove me crazy by making me French (which isn't quite the case - I don't like doing it French), etc., etc. All his boyish nonsense. Don't pay attention, it's not a big deal. It makes me more nervous when he says about a woman how cool she was just to annoy me. Something I do too ... even with his best friend, haha. And all this just to annoy each other - which is completely meaningless. but anyway. So my thought is - don't work so hard. Let him do what he wants.
I support comments 2 and 12 :) :) :) :) I would also be happy if my husband comments on me, but I will pretend to be indignant :) Can you imagine how much you are wanted by his friends :) just look at them next time
Well, it's not bad to play the clock with others ... I also have good memories. We were a big company. I had a friend who was dating a classmate ... And he always bragged when they had sex, or rather he complained to her that she was tight, that she had bitten him on ... she was a "tree". And when she was short-haired, she never refused sex !? . They had an argument with Niki and one day we saw each other and I told her that we would gather in an apartment, let her come ... We came and drank and at midnight some dancing started .. . Then we sat on the couch, I was braver .... then in the other room ... she was in a short skirt - I had info - I undressed her as we danced, and she me. nor did it bite me, and it wasn't tight at all, it just took 30 minutes to relax .. we didn't leave the room for 3 hours .. It worked out well. So info is important. After 2 weeks they were with Nikki again. And he bragged again about how he managed to "tame" her and she already knew what to do ... EH I just smiled ... We recently had a class meeting ... We remembered the old song in a hotel room ..
However, what kind of women are you with this "Don't tell anyone" and in the end you are silent and it is clear from her.
I had a boyfriend who, in response to her friend's question about why she looked so fresh, said that we had sex before we went out. She shook her head, "well done, well done," and my groan "oh, may my ass be alive and well." I would fall permanently. And the one "oh ohhh, perverts. Look at them", my "don't pretend you don't do it from behind". And that "well, I'm not soon. Mine doesn't want to." I wondered where to hide. They talked like I wasn't there.