Things started on the Internet almost 6 months ago. He is 19 and he is 18. We live in two cities not far from each other. For almost a month we communicated only on the Internet, we had our phones but we only wrote to each other on Skype and all night long. One day he called me and told me he was in my town. I was super scared and didn't know what to do. When I saw him I just shivered, my legs sagged and I said I would pretend that I did not see him alone but alas .. We were together only a few minutes but it was a wonderful 10 minutes .. I thought that if I do not write in the evening will is somehow .. I can not explain. not that I consider myself a great beauty and that's what I was saying to myself where do I put myself on such a boy ... I underestimated myself! But by the time I got home and I was on the computer to check my mail, he had written to me, I was the happiest .. a week later we were parents together and they both knew they were fertilizing our relationship. We have been together for 4 months now, we say that in the future we want to continue together, to start a family, we have talked about how many children we want, what they will look like, what their names will be. Just wonderful. We decided to have sex .. I can't talk ..: X I thought the reason was in me. it will be my first time and I don't know why but just when we are going to do something and everything fucks up .. he is angry that I don't tell him I love you enough, we fight over nonsense .. and in the end he apologizes and barely isn't crying .. he accuses me that I don't love him and it's not like that .. Please without nasty comments .. I want advice on how to help our relationship ... what they will look like what they will be called. Just wonderful. We decided to have sex .. I can't talk ..: X I thought the reason was in me. it will be my first time and I don't know why but just when we are going to do something and everything fucks up .. he is angry that I don't tell him I love you enough, we fight over nonsense .. and in the end he apologizes and barely isn't crying .. he accuses me that I don't love him and it's not like that .. Please without nasty comments .. I want advice on how to help our relationship ... what they will look like what they will be called. Just wonderful. We decided to have sex .. I can't talk ..: X I thought the reason was in me. it will be my first time and I don't know why but just when we are going to do something and everything fucks up .. he is angry that I don't tell him I love you enough, we fight over nonsense .. and in the end he apologizes and barely isn't crying .. he accuses me that I don't love him and it's not like that .. Please without nasty comments .. I want advice on how to help our relationship ...
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You need to talk to him instead of looking for advice on the internet. Talk to the person against you, no one can give you advice if you can't deal with your problems on your own. The answer to most of the questions about the links on this site is the conversation between the two. Sit down and talk to him about the things that bother you, about the problems, tell him. Share it was people. Good luck
It is written Approved and Frightened. Your spelling is just a sign of low self-esteem. Develop as a person and your relationship will develop ...
I think you're still young with your boyfriend and you're as smart as a 13-year-old.
... darling, do you like a man, or rather a boy '' who apologizes, almost cries and blames .... '' this only shows insecurity and fear on his part ... do you want a relationship with such a person, my advice is only one, with compromises on your part ... and whether it is worth .... judge ... ZARA
Zara, what more do you want, because they are only 18 .. weren't you ... aren't we reckless then ... it's unlikely that at 18 the girl will look for the man of her life .. the prince on a white horse to judge
By 3 I don't think we are as smart as 13-year-olds, if you ask me I'm sure I've seen a lot more out of life than YOU. At the age of 11 and a half I lost my mother, at the age of 13 I was already living with my stepmother who hates me. I have learned to handle everything on my own. I don't need someone to tell me you're as smart as a 13-year-old paw! Look at yourself first, then judge the others and for another time at least close your mouth a little bit because you look more intelligent like that ..;)))
.... '' recklessness '' makes 19 years old boys brave and omnipotent, not whining .... but every woman obviously attracts a different type of male behavior ....:) .... and have I been to 18 ... I haven't thought about it ...:) ... ZARA
I'm with him, not you .. I think it affects you the least whether he whines or not, whether I'm with him or not and my taste for boys is my own :) Come on, run and play;)
.... to the author; you ask for advice, "no nasty comments", ... and you just wait to get annoyed .... you don't know what you want, you actually know ;, roars and whining idiots ...: ) .... I'm sure that all will be yours ....:) another type of men can not pay attention to you ...:) ... of course you can comment on me .... and you "Let's run" to take a bath ...;) ... ZARA
Love is not said, but shown and I can not understand your friend, what are these whims? This will not fix your relationship, you will only hurt yourself and eventually break up. If he loves you so much, then he should support you, don't you think? , not to cry like someone in the 5th grade. Look, I don't want to offend him, but I don't think it's possible, it's not normal for a 19-year-old to behave so superficially, given that it will be your first time and it's only natural for you to be worried. Think about whether this boy is for you, I know it's hard for you because you love him, but won't he continue to behave like that? and how would she swallow the fact that he would forever doubt? , and what will you do? , will you still have to prove yourself to him? and in words? Darling, understand, you have nothing to prove or show, in this case the problem is in him.