Hello, everyone ! Since I've been a little disappointed lately about a relationship I've been infected with, I have a question that I hope will get enough answers to make a proper judgment. My question is, do you think that once they have infected you, it is not good to go back to the same person if he wants to, and is it an unworthy position for a man to go back to the woman he was with if she wants to be with him after she's already infected him?
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Give it a chance, but also say that if you make a mistake even once - everything ends in an instant :). Explain things before. What do you want from her .. what and with whom do you NOT want her to have a job, etc. And if she doesn't like it .. to go beat her head, you don't lose anything;) A. S5
Yes, I don't think it's right to come back once you're dumped by the person in question.
Once you broke up, there was a reason. If during the time you have not been together you have changed, this may have eliminated the reasons for separation, but a person does not change so easily, and to change, there is no guarantee that it is for the better. In short, it may happen the second time, but it is more likely not to.
Not right - expect the same development!
It is absolutely wrong to renew such a relationship, it leads to repeated breaks and reconciliations, where you only tread in one place. Yes, there are crises in every relationship, but problems are solved through dialogue with your spouse, not divisions.
Do not put any emotion, treat it from the beginning as a sex doll. You have a good opportunity - total control. You say when, how, how much. You order who can be seen, what can be done. You are right, because you have not sinned. If not - the middle finger and the next. It won't be masculine if you bend over and let the saffron dump you again.
to 6 in 2 words to act like an asshole as far as I understand, he wants things to work out this time. if he behaves like an ass from the beginning, what is the point of this relationship? to melt the pepper 2-3 times at most, but I don't know how much it will satisfy him
Hohoho! Number 6 you took something very seriously! Don't think that if she has sinned, he has the right to get on her head. Once again I write, if you can not swallow the betrayal, split up! Don't end up with another pair of horns from a lot of prohibitions, numbers and squabbles. And look at yourself first. Apparently something is lame somewhere and accordingly the other has decided to look for it;)
Dude, tell me first how she dumped you, give a little more info, otherwise it's hard for anyone to tell you to do this or that. Basically, once she dumped you, I don't think you should go back. In general, women return when they are shown the way on the other side and the former turns out to be the most convenient prey (if tied naturally). I was played the same scenario some time ago, but while I was abandoned I had time to rethink things and in particular what kind of person I was dealing with. The rest was easy, I didn't accept it and I don't regret my choice at all. I didn't do it out of stubbornness, pride or revenge (not that there were no such feelings), I just realized that this is not the woman I need.
There's no point. If it didn't happen, it won't happen.
There is a lot of nonsense written above ... I am a woman and I dumped a man for a serious reason. I don't want to go back, I don't mean that. BUT if the woman the author is talking about had a good reason, but later she disappeared (I mean over time .. a lot of time not a month, two or three ...) Think from this side is not fair given that no reasons, facts, etc. are mentioned. I would tell the author only one thing - to make sense of the reasons for separation in a REAL WAY, and not to be deceived by his ego. If the reasons were on both sides, but were not very serious, why not give a chance? If you still have any feelings left?
Almost everyone deserves their second chance - it depends on the reason for your separation, some things are forgiven, others are not - you are the person who can show generosity and forgive, there is nothing shameful and insulting in this, your masculine dignity will not be harmed in any way! It also depends on whether you still have any feelings left - the best way is to talk to her, not to wait for ready-made recipes in the forums. Success!
After three months, what happened, author? I think we should be given a second chance. Everyone is wrong. My experience so far, however, shows otherwise that things do not work. The same situation is reached again. But you can be an exception ..
It is not a question of dignity. But I'm also of the opinion that once you manage to separate, it's obviously not good for this job.
Dude, are you crazy or what? Let the women not end, we all have an unforgettable love, unforgettable but past. Find a new girl, custom it if it doesn't work out, the next one and so on.