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He Wants To Do Only Anal

By kellykeat August 13, 2020 13 answers Last updated August 13, 2020

My problem is that for two years now I have been starting to forget what normal sex is. My husband is a big fan of anal, and he claims that otherwise he does not. I am a very attractive woman and I do not know what the problem is. Sometimes I even think he's not gay or has such fantasies. Almost every night for me, sex from paradise has become an impersonal half-pleasure. I do it for him, and I'm content with a vibrator to distract the discomfort with pleasure. I don't know if it's due to doing it regularly, but since then I go to the toilet much more often - and that prevents me from working. Sometimes my stomach hurts too. And she still can't get pregnant and I wonder if she wants us to have children, and from there if she loves me. We have talked about this many times - but if we try to soften it immediately and it does not work. I don't know what this is due to and is there a way to fix it?

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iamgoddessamber answered · August 13, 2020

   Horror! Poor thing ... Your husband is selfish, you shouldn't let him ... I'm not going to criticize anal sex (a matter of choice), but sex should be a pleasure for both of you ... And not for you but it's not, well, it brings you physical problems ... I have no words ...

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sammi_chengsauman answered · August 13, 2020

   When it softens, it gives him a little oral love and he will rise again

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vicky_rendon answered · August 13, 2020

   "I'm a very attractive woman and I don't know what the problem is. Sometimes I even think she's not gay or has such fantasies." You can be sure it's not your problem. And your husband is not gay. : D

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emiily__grey answered · August 13, 2020

   Change it !! 932

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ramyhani6655 answered · August 13, 2020

   Talk to him at all costs. If he doesn't understand you, then he is completely selfish. This also causes you health problems !!! Be sure to talk!

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pnpdaddypervbi answered · August 13, 2020

   Your husband is selfish, talk to him, because this is not normal, how can you put up with him for 2 years, you hardly have a problem or just ask him, just keep your fingers crossed that he is not gay! SIS

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aspengirl answered · August 14, 2020

   Darling, it's as if I wrote it myself ... But at least with us things are a little different ... Absolutely every night we have sex, we have normal sex ... and as soon as I'm done it is transferred to the anal ... otherwise it is very difficult for him to finish. I don't know where the problem is, he's 22 years old, he's 32 ... we get along great, there's a lot of passion between us, but somehow he gets more aroused than his dominance over me by fucking me anal ... He always ends up in my ass ... and fucks me like a machine ... with an awfully fast pace and awfully strong thrusts ... not that it's not nice at first, but there is a certain pain ....

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leafsquad22 answered · August 15, 2020

   Girls, are you crazy to put up with such a thing? I would never be patient if the most handsome and good man were otherwise!

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lolielpoplisa answered · August 15, 2020

   Hey girl, find a normal man, that's it. People went crazy in this world and life. It is difficult to find a normal relationship, but think about yourself, you can still get something with this anal sex. you have to become a mother someday. and if he loves you, there is no guarantee. I'm quite disappointed with women - you don't know who thinks what in their head. It is.

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countrygirls.upfront answered · August 15, 2020

   Your husband is gay. They are used to fucking asses and then not suitable for sex with women.

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celeste_fox69 answered · August 16, 2020

   There is a very easy way to deny someone anal sex. Eat as spicy as possible for a few days and then give it without a condom. Just don't tell him why he's in pain so he doesn't slap you.

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diabloswingorchestra answered · August 16, 2020

   My wife and I do not use protective equipment. She was with mascara and then I didn't want anal. But after I remove my mascara, it ends and I have to take it out when it's sweetest. That's why I want Anal after she's done. She also complains that her stomach hurts after that and I feel bad. I'm very gentle and I put it in very carefully and it ends once more when we do it there. I don't know what to think, he likes it and complains. He also calls me gay. I'm not gay, I just like not taking it out so I can feel it. If I take it out, it's like masturbating.

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froy answered · August 17, 2020

   Hello lovely girl!!! I have extensive experience with such problems ... certainly the problem is NOT in you! Tell your husband to go to the doctor and examine his prostate gland ... because of its inflammation and swelling, men need stronger stimuli to get aroused and cum ... so it only ends with anal ... From this problem most men suffer from a certain stage of their lives ... In other cases, men start wanting many other sexual practices that stimulate them more sexually ... and many men for this reason even resort to infidelity, because at some point they start to feel insufficient stimulus from their partner and again they look for a stronger feeling through a new woman ... literally men start to feel that their wives are no longer attracted to them ... this is the situation, no matter who tells you what ...