Hello people, My friend and I have been together for 1 and a half years in the beginning, I liked him, he didn't like me that much, but over time we got closer and got to know each other and decided to be together, we liked each other. The first month after we left I saw that he had written to his ex-girlfriend, with whom he has not been together for more than 2 years, how he missed her, how I gave him a lot, but he missed her then we quarreled a lot, and before that they played my tricks and I don't have much faith in people. Now he has started a new job, but I feel that no matter what happens, I am jealous of him, whether he is out or at work, I only think about whether he is with another .... and in this new job there is a colleague with whom he last communicates. and he had asked for the number allegedly for work ... my question is do you think that this jealousy and these thoughts are meaningless and I am just harassing or maybe I like this girl ??? I will be very grateful if you help me :)
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Rake this one and don't deal with such men. The same goes for men in relationships with such women .... In general, these are people type - uncharacteristic hypocrites and users.
He uses you as a replacement for the former. He should have completely forgotten her in 2 years and devoted himself to you and your feelings. A man who thinks of the front one after so long is just another thrill. You will be the background, my friend, but not quite. For example, she will remain the special woman in his life if time has not cured her. His eternal thrill. Everyone has one. Easter eggs and friendships with exes, only with common children. Otherwise it is not normal. Fool you because you let him. Send him to his ex to watch.
You are insecure. And if you are insecure, then his actions, inactions and words do not give you the confidence you need. In that case, I would wonder if the relationship is worth it. F31
Kick him out of your life and save yourself future suffering. If, years later, he missed the other one with you, go to her. Don't be humiliated to investigate, you only raise his self-confidence, how much he is wanted.