Height, Women, Mind And Perceptions

   I don't know who Tibu Courtois is, but I know from personal experience that it is not appearance that is most important. It is told to you by a beautiful and young woman who is alone because she repulses all men, because I have my "oddities", because of which - superficial men who want only sex - disappear quickly, because they see that I will not be with them, and these , which are different and we have in common - I can not find meaning in our common future, because I see a future in which our relationship is not developing well because of my fears. We are alone because we want to be alone, that is the truth.

   No, you don't have to, but you have to be social and communicate freely with women. Height is important, but you are not such a dwarf, as long as you are in good shape (it is not muscular, just tight and athletic) and maintained you will compensate for it. It's good that you have some interests, but first you have to share them and then expand them.

   Things are not going well for you now, because I think you have been assigned a special girl and your destinies must intersect. One day you will understand what I am telling you.

   Being "split" is not cool for many girls, I assure you. Even in most cases it is repulsive. Being tall is attractive, really, but you're also wrong about the chalga. There are those who do not listen to such. :)

   Are you a dwarf? Please, being below the average 175 or 178 there doesn't make you a dwarf. I'm shorter than you, 165, I think so bro, me.

   The coolest chicks go with small, ugly, slimy and simple boys so don't worry.

   You're wrong, man. It's not the reason for your height at all. At 173 you're not a dwarf. I am 165 and I am still happily married to a woman who is superior to the majority of women. I also graduated from VINS and I had a colleague in the course who was 170 and definitely not handsome, he outdid all colleagues, and his official boyfriend was an erotic dancer. I know even one like me 165 tall, but he has done even more, in my entrance there is one who is even 160 and still has a beautiful girlfriend with whom they live together. Yes, I agree that height is always welcome, but it does not mean that being short and there is almost no woman in the world who likes you, and you are not even that short. The complex bothers you that you are short, not the height itself.

   You are not as short as you think. Not that you are very tall, but many women will not stand over you if they are not in high heels. And others will not mind at all that they are taller, and others and high shoes will not reach you. I know men who are shorter than you, but have had enough girlfriends and frankly live their lives at full speed (I do not mean discos and alcohol). Yes, you are right that there are superficial women in this world, but what is the probability that everyone around you is like that? It's not very big, is it? You mentioned that you are not very sociable. You also talk about the chalga, the simplicity and the split body as if this is a standard for a modern and cool person. Open your eyes. For several years now, every second person has explained that these things irritate him. They have long been out of fashion. When a trend has been at its peak for many years, it sooner or later leads to a "riot", people go to the other extreme because they are already fed up. After the emo fashion, muffins appeared, followed by various modest girls with glasses, books in their backpacks and the presence of a brain in their heads. As it was fashionable to drink and play kyuchek, we suddenly started talking about positive energies, meaningful influencers, books, meditation, healthy eating and so on. We live in such times that everywhere you look at these and antitheses, people change. The problem is not in your height, the problem is not in your lack of desire to dance to the rhythm of chalga and pour alcohol while your biceps are about to burst. Your problem is that you are not sociable and there are some things that you hate so sincerely that it is repulsive. And I don't go to discos, I don't know the lyrics of chalga songs, I don't drink more than a glass of wine every 3 months, but I don't explain to anyone that he's a simpleton if he does these things. Open your mind, accept that everyone is different, communicate with more people and find your environment. If we believe in your logic, then every man who is not tall 1, 90 must die alone. Relax, stop hating and start living freely.

   My friend is 1 and 65, I'm 1 and 73. By your logic, if you're a dwarf, he's a midget. Yes, but we are engaged and thinking of a child. Growth is not everything, believe me!

   The only problem I see is that you are complex. My friend is 175 cm and is the coolest boy in the world. I just don't see a reason for you to feel bad ... Even if I tell you, I went out with a man 165 tall and he was just great, charming, smiling ... One such caring and kind to me. I want you to realize one thing - there is no such thing as a standard, in real life anything is possible as long as you are honest and true to yourself! As long as you have the qualities of a brave and confident young man. There are men without arms, without legs and they still turn out to be more successful than you, because you lack exactly the basic qualities.

   You are who you are, whether you like it or not, you have to accept it. Some time ago I went with a boy who was much shorter than me and to be honest I was uncomfortable at first, but over time, I realized that this is not the most important thing .. We broke up for another reason. So head up.

   I'm 187 cm, but like you I studied exact sciences - mathematics and physics. I work as a pretty 'hardcore' programmer (embedded C dev). I take very good money for the Bulgarian, and maybe for the European standard. I'm not sociable, I only had a boyfriend when I was 23, now I'm 27. So don't worry - you can be tall and still not do well with women ... The weather is such that you have to or have a great appearance (to make you like someone online) or to be super sociable and confident (so that you can succeed in real life) ... And by the way, I know men taller than me, who also do not do well with women. I'm looking to work on the communication aspect now.

   You are very well-read, and you post absurd topics. And many people will believe you. The truth is that no one cares how tall you are, but you are probably quite annoying and arrogant. Your thoughts are on a 15-year-old. No normal person is interested in such superficial things. And what do you care who is chipped and who is stupid. People like you always find a reason for their failures. And the reason is always beyond them. Realistically, you are even more superficial than the people you list, because it is obvious that all you are interested in are external traits such as height, muscles, etc. Success with women. You will need it.

   Just don't deal with chalga type girls, it's so simple. And enough with these complexes for height. I'm annoyed to talk about it. Recently, many topics on the topic of height have appeared on this site as well ... like some kind of epidemic. High or low, one must accept oneself and like oneself as one in order to radiate positivism. Positive and confident people are the most attractive. I don't want to upset you, but there is truth in the words of comment 13. Yes, he spoke quite tactlessly, but he is right. Follow the example of number 12 and start working on your communication skills, which you will generally need in life in general, not just to find a girlfriend. Now I'm tired of reading the other comments. I am a woman if it matters to anyone.

   Well, I'm 175, and despite that, 65% of the men I see on the street are as tall as me or shorter. Say such at least where you live, so that they know where in Bulgaria 173 cm is a dwarf and where are the two-meter Bulgarians.

   Napoleon Bonaparte was shorter than 165 cm, and the whole civilized world was at his feet, and women lined up to pay attention to them. If you have self-confidence and charm, you will have much greater success among women than a split father, who cannot tie two tales. However, if you live in a world of elite self-pity, of course they will avoid you. Grandpa Torbalan

   The thing is, the shorter men mentioned several times above, who move with taller women, are actually good-looking, though not tall. I have seen hundreds of couples in which the man is shorter than the woman, but in 100% of cases he had either a cute female face or a very masculine jaw and proportionate growth of the hair roots (as in boxers or cool male models with a two-day beard from magazines), or a pronounced broad-shouldered body (we are not talking about inflated muscles, but a gene with a broad skeleton and shoulders like a wrestler). So far, I've seen exactly zero short men with a taller woman who don't have at least one of the above characteristics. Whoever will change and twist anything, the truth is, that women are crazy about appearance (as evidenced by their obsession with their own) and almost all women look for someone cool and ignore those who are not. Of course, money helps even fat and disgusting grandfathers to catch mannequin-type muffins (ie prostitutes), but we are talking about normal couples and we exclude money from the big picture. Some women understand "cool" as someone taller than 190 cm, others are looking for someone with the appearance of a gorilla, others want someone with a dangerous look of a rapist, others want a masculine look like a model (at least in the face, but would not refuse and fully developed athlete), fifth want someone with bullying behavior (even if it is unworthy of others) and even impudent in life, because they see in this the ability to take care of the family, and most such women are cruelly mistaken in their judgment, but understand it only after pregnancy or birth, followed by separation). And almost always, for women, the attractive appearance of a man should be garnished with a good material basis, because the female sex generally likes to lie on the success of the man ready, wanting many times more than they (women) have achieved in life. you so far. You will also be surprised how many fools there are, who are easily tied to the false beautiful inventions of the played players, provided that the latter clearly show that they are players. However, these women want someone to make them dream; to hear how cool, unique and unique they are; and if the player is deep enough "in his craft," I will skim them with a well-played role in a dramatic relationship in which the hooked woman will dare to "

   Author, excuse me, but I can't help but notice that you have too naive an understanding of women, especially given your high self-esteem. You should know that women do not choose a man only on the basis of his outward characteristics, but on the basis of a set of things he possesses. In this line of thought, it is absolutely ridiculous to think that the absence or presence of one or another quality in a man would have such an impact on the final choice of a woman. Indeed, there are women for whom only the appearance of the man next to them is important, but in my opinion, these ladies are not distinguished by the presence of common sense, if any. Would you hardly stop at this type of woman? And I think it's better for you not to enjoy the serious attention of some women. Interestingly, even this type of superficial women, like different things related to appearance. Look at the comment on number 17, and you will understand what I mean. Some like men with gentle and beautiful faces, while others like those with a strong masculine appearance. There are others who prefer muscular men and do not care so much about height. Some prefer tall but well-built men with proportionate bodies, without emphasizing so much on male beauty. In general, it is a very complex combination of external scars, which is individual for each woman, and is very difficult to describe in two or three lines. Those who like tall men would definitely not stop at a 190 cm tall man, who, however, has narrow shoulders and is as weak as a twig. Such a man would look funny in their eyes, believe me - I've seen him with my own eyes. But if they are so superficial, they will never guess that in 10-15 years, the man they "fell in love" with will no longer look the same ... He also may not like them so much, because over time, beautiful women change to worse. Basically, it's all a combination of qualities, and you can't say exactly what women like.

My best friend from my student years was 168 cm tall, but his chicks clung like a magnet, and he walked with several at a time. Of course, he had a beautiful face and a proportionate body for his height, which was 100% influential. He was also the soul of the company at every student party, which meant that fun was guaranteed with him. It is not known exactly what he attracted women to, but he was obviously a little of everything, including his ability to communicate with them without worry. It should not however, to expect that appearance is absolutely irrelevant to some women. Even if the woman is not superficial, she would still pay attention to the way the man looks. Simply, this element of the overall image of the person will be much further back in her personal "ranking". And believe me, Thibaut Courtois, except for his height, would not attract a woman with anything to do with his vision. It's especially funny to me, and it reminds me of a weird talking owl from the "Hello, Hello" series. In general, my advice to you overlaps with what they have already given you as advice above. I believe that the main reason for being alone comes from the lack of sufficient communication with the fairer sex. You consciously stay away from them, how do you want someone to like you? You need to be more open to people (not just women) if you want to achieve results in this area. that appearance is absolutely irrelevant to some women. Even if the woman is not superficial, she would still pay attention to the way the man looks. Simply, this element of the overall image of the person will be much further back in her personal "ranking".

And believe me, Thibaut Courtois, except for his height, would not attract a woman with anything to do with his vision. It's especially funny to me, and it reminds me of a weird talking owl from the "Hello, Hello" series. In general, my advice to you overlaps with what they have already given you as advice above. I think the main reason for being alone comes from the lack of enough communication with the fairer sex. You consciously stay away from them, how do you want someone to like you? You need to be more open to people (not just women) if you want to achieve results in this area. that appearance is absolutely irrelevant to some women. Even if the woman is not superficial, she would still pay attention to the way the man looks. Simply, this element of the overall image of the person will be much further back in her personal "ranking". And believe me, Thibaut Courtois, except for his height, would not attract a woman with anything to do with his vision. It's especially funny to me, and it reminds me of a weird talking owl from the "Hello, Hello" series. In general, my advice to you overlaps with what they have already given you as advice above. I believe that the main reason for being alone comes from the lack of sufficient communication with the fairer sex. You consciously stay away from them, how do you want someone to like you? You need to be more open to people (not just women) if you want to achieve results in this area.