I'll start like this: I decided to write this story, at risk, to offend some women ..... but internally everyone knows I'm right :) I'm writing the story, along with a big bowl of ice cream. A small personal victory, ice cream replaced alcohol. ... And where did the alcohol come from, right I loved him ... infinitely much, so much that I can't even describe him in words. He swore that he would be faithful to me, he swore that he would never betray me .... He swore, but he did .... Send everything to hell for 6 big vodkas ... Alcohol does not forgive anyone, bad things happen. My city is small, in general everyone knows each other. But there are some people who are better known than others. ..Me and I were like that .... One night he wanted to go out only with his friends, I agreed, I didn't see any problem. But obviously I had to see him .... They ate more, k * wrestler everywhere ...
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Wow-wow ... typical country thinking! People, you are very bad, you are very immersed in the material! What are these pathos, these "infidelities", these "morals", "oaths", "solidarity", "guilt", etc. !? What is alcohol (or ice cream) to blame for? Do you think he can do something for you? Or does it relieve you of responsibility for your actions? Well, imagine that quite by chance the person is NOT your private property, and quite by chance he can and has the right to do whatever he wants - including to forget you tomorrow, and to die the next day? UNDERSTAND - you can't tie anyone to you by force! Neither with oaths, nor with "morality", nor with the use of social prejudices, norms and dogmas! Two (or more) people can be together only by MUTUAL AGREEMENT - in a way that does not weigh on either of them, does not impose restrictions, does not hinder the development of personality, gives enough freedom to make mistakes and analyze them, and so on. n.! Neither marriage, nor oaths, nor spells can "save" things if they have gone "to walk away." And no alcohol or crap is to blame if this happens. Better, dear boy, think very well, and very honestly, what has repelled your partner in YOU? I will only suggest to you that the person and the soul do not tolerate any VIOLENCE - neither to demand from him (him) OATHS, nor to be required to observe social norms and "decency" - nothing like that. gives her enough freedom to make mistakes and analyze them, etc.! Neither marriage, nor oaths, nor spells can "save" things if they have gone "to walk away." And no alcohol or booze is your fault if that happens. Better, dear boy, think very well, and very honestly, what has repelled your partner in YOU? I will only suggest to you that the person and the soul do not tolerate any VIOLENCE - neither to demand from him (him) OATHS, nor to be required to observe social norms and "decency" - nothing like that. gives her enough freedom to make mistakes and analyze them, etc.! Neither marriage, nor oaths, nor spells can "save" things if they have gone "to walk away." And no alcohol or booze is your fault if that happens. Better, dear boy, think very well, and very honestly, what has repelled your partner in YOU? I will only suggest to you that the person and the soul do not tolerate any VIOLENCE - neither to demand from him (him) OATHS, nor to be required to observe social norms and "decency" - nothing like that. and very honestly what has repelled your partner in YOU? I will only suggest to you that the person and the soul do not tolerate any VIOLENCE - neither to demand from him (him) OATHS, nor to be required to observe social norms and "decency" - nothing like that. and very honestly what has repelled your partner in YOU? I will only suggest to you that the person and the soul do not tolerate any VIOLENCE - neither to demand from him (him) OATHS, nor to be required to observe social norms and "decency" - nothing like that.
I am absolutely in solidarity with you, for many it would be just sex, not infidelity, but these are animals. And alcohol is not an excuse at all, it usually hits the weak spot - some in the head, others in the legs. The ancients rightly said that the truth is in the wine - drunk you will see it in its truest light. Years ago, my girlfriend fucked with one of the company who had a friend from the same company. And he told me it was a momentary passion, just sex, no feelings. I, for my part, "just" rubbed it, our city is not very big and the fame of easily accessible went, so she remained a girl, albeit with a whore's taste. The happy tramp was left without a girlfriend, but also without authority, and got stuck somewhere. So from this "simple" sex no one gained anything, at least in time I knew what kind of garbage I had gathered,
'' ..The girl in question knows him and me, she knew we hadn't been together for 3-4 months, she knew how things were and yet she fell so low, ... '' excuse me, but were you last together? when did he do it or not ?!
Number 1, :) What if you're from Sofia? Aren't you more than a country man? You are not ! And you're even simpler! "Typical provincial thinking" - exactly this way of thinking is vulgar :). Kill your complexes elsewhere. I also support the author, because infidelity is not forgivable in their case :) Good luck to the author, and to number one - I hope she comes to her senses someday :)
:) Hello from me too! I am very sorry for the inglorious end of your relationship. I personally think he even did you a favor. I understand your pain, I understand what it's like to feel so easily interchangeable, even for a one-night stand. I do not understand, however, why you blame the girl and appeal to all women? If I'm not mistaken, he was tied up, wasn't he? He committed the "betrayal" in your eyes. If he didn't want to, the chick would hardly have raped him. "5-6 vodkas" for me is no excuse. Obviously, things with you - at least for him - were coming to an end. I will agree with the commentator under number 1, BUT the elementary moral code requires clarification of the relationship between two people, either in a relationship or in marriage. Then - yes! Everyone is free to do what he wants. Megan
Dear author, blood in this world, without morals - as much as you want. Unfortunately, they break up families without blinking an eye. Dumb men like to cheat with just such geeks and base fat. I've encountered this, but what's worse is that I'm married and just such a geek ruined my life - brazenly, constantly calling him at my number at home - he even deliberately wanted to separate us, but if there are simple men like mine - so will is! She uses it, and she doesn't ruin her family - so what is it?
I understand that it is difficult for you. However, alcohol is not a reason for infidelity - he did not get drunk and she raped him. His restraints have simply fallen and his courage has come.
Well done, girl! I had decided that honest and sincere women were dying out! It's good that you have moral values, not like number 1, he would do it with a bucket of buckwheat, he just doesn't know how, the city worm! I hope you meet a good and honest moral person! There is a lot of garbage lately!
To number 3 ... The author wanted to say that the boy knew that they hadn't been walking for a while and how things were between them;). And as for the author herself ... just with each new story I read, I make sure that one can have the most confidence in oneself. Simply, no matter how much time you are with someone, no matter how much you swear, promises, etc., YOU CAN ALWAYS ALWAYS TAKE A LITTLE WRONG!
Well, dear author, welcome to the team! The pain of infidelity is so strong that it does not allow you to breathe, to think, to even work ... Some will not believe that there are such women - faithful and loving to the grave, consciously undergoing all this. And I don't want men to write that it's "just like that, by the way, that's their nature." Pure nonsense is for me. I do not find any excuse in alcohol or accidental digging in the sites and looking for pieces. It is gradually becoming a system that unfortunately only kills injuries. The topic is complex and painful. Personally, I'm sorry I'm not as strong as you, I love and forgive ...
Well done to number 1. Also to Megan. All other comments are expected. It's time to start looking for guilt in yourself.
Megan, philosophizing from the sidelines would be very simple! Get in a similar situation and then give so many generalizing comments and advice. №11, "all other comments are expected". And what are they ??? And do you think that everyone is inclined to blame only the other? But even self-blame doesn't help when you're hurt ... Here, people want support, not how to look for flaws in a relationship.
Number 12, how "non-general" and "non-general" can be a comment about a story on a site? And how, if not aside, could I "philosophize"? I do not know the author so that my comment can be more personal, nor can we drink coffee and support her. And she hardly needs to be patted on the shoulder as a sign of consolation. However, reading your comment, I do not see anything written that could be in "support" of the author (not to mention the benefit). So, write your comments, stay your opinion and let the other users have their own. Good chance, Megan
There are people for everything. Because of such boys, at the moment I am afraid to fall in love or go out with a boy and for this reason I am lonely .... infidelity is severe, but life is so arranged
Philip T. "Wow-wow ... typical country thinking!" What does that mean? Don't you consider yourself special, smarter, enlightened when you're not from the countryside? As number 4 said, find another place to kill your fucking complexes, how I hate people like you who allow themselves to insult and belittle people from the countryside, and you yourself do not realize that you are below the level of many of these people. Both intellectually and morally. I'm also from Sofia, a man of 22, and why didn't I want to insult the people of "peasants" and so on? Maybe because I don't have the complexes to kill. I have seen people in Sofia and outside it, here are my conclusions: There are intelligent people with morals everywhere, but there are also those who have neither. There are such people everywhere, the work is there, that there is a difference in morals and actions between humans and animals. Your comment showed which category you fall into, how come a person is not obliged by any social norms, dogmas or "prejudices", do you even know what prejudice is? "People, you are very bad, you are very immersed in the material!" If you mean that people (someone) treat their halves as their material things, as if they are just soulless things, that's right ... But we can't to compare a person with material gain, or at least I don't remember a case where the phone cheated on me with another owner (there was such an American ad with a vibrating dildo) And to all know that the person "is NOT your private property" and has free will, but no the right to do whatever he wants, that's where the job is. He who has a mind in his head will make the right decisions, alone with his own free will and reason, he will be respected. He who does not have, he will bear the consequences and he will not be respected. And again I will ask how we have no right to judge if our closest one cheats on us? So you don't mind if your husband sleeps with another? And we have no right to judge him, because morality is no longer modern? I have seen with my own eyes how cheap and vile blood breaks another's family without even sleeping with the full awareness that the person is married and with the full awareness of what he is doing. She later fell ill because there was someone who saw and punished. He is not a saint either, but there is no justification WHEN YOU KNOW that the person you want has been taken. No matter who you are, what you are. Thousands of years ago the Bible wrote, "Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife." - and this with the same logic applies to the opposite sex, but there is no one to read, today we are modern and watch porn, shake and kill each other ... The morale of young people has dropped a lot and I am very disgusted. Besides, I didn't like you blaming the victim for why the loser decided to cheat on her. When things don't go well with a relationship, you break up and then do what you want. You have no right or excuse to cheat. The men and women who cheat are just selfish and immoral animals who are brazen enough to afford it. They have what they have, but they want to taste someone else's fruit in someone else's garden, like that. They are not hungry, they just want to see what it is. The only thing he said is true about alcohol. It is true that he is not an excuse and just being sober can ask for something, but he will not do it. When he is drunk, all restraints fall and if he had hidden bad desires, they often turn into action. But in the end, even when you're drunk, you have free will and you still make your own decisions. I would tell the author to look ahead and this animal does not think at all. Do not forgive him and do not take him back, it has been proven that people who cheat will do it again, no matter how much they apologize to you, I swear allegiance and promise not to do it. They still allow it, rather make sure the next one is not such an animal. The last thing I will say: a person who cheats and / or makes a bound object of his feelings to cheat has no respect for him or for himself. You will learn to control yourself, so we are humans, not animals. But in the end, even when you're drunk, you have free will and you still make your own decisions. I would tell the author to look ahead and this animal does not think at all. Do not forgive him and do not take him back, it has been proven that people who cheat will do it again, no matter how much they apologize to you, I swear allegiance and promise not to do it. They still allow it, rather make sure the next one is not such an animal. The last thing I will say: a person who cheats and / or makes a bound object of his feelings to cheat has no respect for him or for himself. You will learn to control yourself, so we are humans and not animals. But in the end, even when you're drunk, you have free will and you still make your own decisions. I would tell the author to look ahead and this animal doesn't think at all. Do not forgive him and do not take him back, it has been proven that people who cheat will do it again, no matter how much they apologize to you, I swear allegiance and promise not to do it. They still allow it, rather make sure the next one is not such an animal. The last thing I will say: a person who cheats and / or makes a bound object of his feelings to cheat has no respect for him or for himself. You will learn to control yourself, so we are humans and not animals. they will do it again no matter how much they apologize to you, swear allegiance and promise not to do it. They still allow it, rather make sure the next one is not such an animal. The last thing I will say: a person who cheats and / or makes a bound object of his feelings to cheat has no respect for him or for himself. You will learn to control yourself, so we are humans, not animals. they will do it again no matter how much they apologize to you, swear allegiance and promise not to do it. They still allow it, rather make sure the next one is not such an animal. The last thing I will say: a person who cheats and / or makes a bound object of his feelings to cheat has no respect for him or for himself. You will learn to control yourself, so we are humans, not animals.
I sympathize with the author because she was hurt and betrayed by the person she loves, under the foolish pretext that his alcohol was to blame. But I also agree with Megan - to stick labels on single girls who have fun and are not to blame for the fact that a man can not keep it in his pants, even though he has a relationship with another woman .... Come on it is already dull and outdated thinking. When I look, there are a lot of people thinking in that spirit - oh, how bad these nasty women are, seducing innocent men who just stood and waited for their pants to be taken off hahahaha. Tighten up, there are also easy men, as described in the story, not to mention that prevail!
Only one question impresses me the most: otherwise I think that the author is intelligent enough, maybe more than me, to survive this filth faster. I ask the following: when we were introduced to the former element, he was separated from his girlfriend. I did not know either of them when they parted verbally, and we had sexual intercourse 5 months after their last one. Well ... from different cities, free according to the matchmakers ... who I am from ... I ask, because some people feast that justice has almost triumphed after we separated. Where were the first months and weeks of our relationship to tell us, very interesting. But years later they bristled and called themselves moralists, because it came back to me and they rejoiced. I want to wash away this filth already. And to be the same pure girl. Otherwise yes, Philip T. I think like you too. And yes, I also want to feel as clean as I was before. But I ask: where is the border, where is the guarantee that emotionally both sides are over, so that I don't feel bad afterwards. I want to be clean again !!! And to be beautiful in front of my eyes, white, clean, fresh and smiling inside ..