rave at all writes you a girl of 16 years. So I will try to describe in as much detail as possible the situation in which I find myself. Two years ago, when I was in eighth grade, I didn't take care of myself at all. I didn't take a bath, I didn't change my clothes very often and I didn't brush my teeth. Abe was in a very bad situation with me then. My parents are separated and then I was with my mother. She didn't pay much attention to the way I looked. In short, she didn't care at all that I walked like that. My father hardly saw him then. He kept telling my mother that I looked just awful which was the truth. But she told me that he had insulted me and did not want me to go to him so as not to be sad. And I never went to him very much. And that was eighth grade for me. It was a total disaster. Last year in ninth grade I looked at my pictures from eighth grade and I just felt sick. No wonder I didn't have any friends and I fixed it all. I was already taking care of myself too much. I thought everything was fine. But my classmates still avoided me. They didn't want to communicate, even though I had obviously changed a lot. This year in tenth grade are better things to communicate with everyone. But today I received an Instagram message from someone from my school. The message was very offensive and wrote things that were too personal for me and I don't even know who might know all this about me. The message was, "Hey, do you think that by bathing every damn day and spraying yourself with perfume, you've changed things?" And do you think that when you start putting on make-up and straightening your hair, it is very beautiful? Haha you are so stupid. You hang out with the biggest hypocrites in the world. Until a year ago you laughed and cried at home, but now you sit next to them in class and go out on the weekends. You will always be the scum of school. I wish you all the wrong. And I hope you haven't been hurt too much. Greetings. ”I don't even know how to react to that. Please give me some advice. I've really changed a lot and I already think it's all over.
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Your development has seriously annoyed someone :) someone who probably never achieves the things he wants. Just delete it, or write him a comment "Thanks for the kind comment" and congratulate him on the path you have taken. Forward and up! Your situation is better now.
This is some "girlfriend" of yours who envies you. There is no need to react at all to what they have written to you, even if they tell you the same thing in your face. Smile and pass by, so you will show how strong you are mentally and do not succumb to attacks. Many people will immediately want to defend themselves and justify themselves. If you start to justify yourself, then you show that they are right. The only answer you can give is "I'm sorry you put so much anger into yourself, I'm moving on."
do not react in any way. keep taking care of yourself and looking good, communicate with others and things will work out. and there's really nothing you can do, even if you know who it is, in the end anyone can write whatever they decide. there are evil people, just accept it and don't pay attention
There is always someone who is not happy and pours some of his own poison on you. It shouldn't affect you, you can't go back in time and change things. The past is past, that's why we learn from it and in the present we try to be better. This is the situation. In eighth grade, no one gave you a chance, you saw the guilt in yourself and you corrected yourself. Everything is good now. According to some, it will be hypocritical that the people who laughed at you are your friends today, but many factors have changed over the past two years. It happens, really. And I have friends with whom we didn't get along at all some time ago. We have changed a lot, we have apologized, we have shared everything bad that we thought and now is a new time. By the way, yes, that you bathe every day, that you perfume and walk in clean clothes, definitely takes you out of the reputation of a scumbag. It will take time for everyone to forget, but it will happen. Every miracle is in three days, wait for some more interesting news to appear and you will see that no one will remember that in 8th grade you did not take much care of yourself.
Well, obviously you will have to go through it, but you still can't erase their memory. If I had such a classmate, I would not bother to humiliate her, no matter what I think of her. But, unfortunately, there is an awful lot of violence among children. Low culture, no empathy, etc., just avoid such people and conflicts, take care of yourself, be nice to others so that they do not turn against you.
Keep up the maintenance. You seem to have delved into the aspirations of your old close friend. This; - But she will never do that, forget it. "Every goat hangs on its leg." I have also received similar messages. I ate a fight. But this is done by evil and envious people. You have no mental attitude. You will catch a boyfriend tomorrow and there will be nonsense again. Even a venereal disease can be attributed to you. Live well and keep looking good. This is the way things are in this life. Everyone is trying to offend or harm the other. Welcome to reality.