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By enjoymomentsunshine November 04, 2020 10 answers Last updated November 04, 2020

I live in a small town. In 2012 I finished my university degree in "Finance" and since then I have been looking for a job - I am submitting my CV, I saw that it is like playing a lottery ticket and I started calling. When I saw that this didn't help either, I started going to the place to ask ... They want either girls, even though the advertised positions are written by a worker, or with experience (even before you did that), or with another university degree ( technical) or something else. I know the language, I have computer literacy, I worked for a few months in a program in administration and that's it ... Unfortunately I live with my parents - I tried bushcraft - life in nature, but after returning to the city I ended up in the emergency room! I am still learning to survive, although sometimes I feel like committing suicide because I am useless NOTHING that society does not want to allow ... Do I want so much - some rotten job for no money if I have to for the first months ... And let me tell you - I've been to 3 more cities to look for myself, including in Sofia and ... nothing ... promises ... promises. M28

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lyra_foster answered · November 04, 2020

   M28, I am also an economist, but I graduated abroad. Do not write where you studied. The university here is of great importance. Otherwise, with us, the economists, the diploma in general is not enough, but you must have experience and professional skills. Gathering data on a computer is for the average person. As an economist, for me the best strategy is to start working during your studies and to come up with an internship at least as an intern, but also with OFFICE / BANK LINKS. Students are very attractive to employers because they are exempt from insurance. I worked in a large company and on various projects, then I had no problem working, but my colleagues, who relied on their parents for finances, then enrolled in master's and doctoral programs because they could not find a job. Internships and LINKS are the key, and the latter are made in the workplace, proving themselves. If since 2012 you can not find a job in the specialty, I advise you to apply for other things, higher education will always be an advantage. You don't write what language you speak, but I hope it's English. Why not go to the labor office and ask for a job in the field of tourism - receptionists are in great demand. The good thing about hospitality is that you can rise with a lot of work and even become a hotel manager, where your education will be useful. The summer season is coming to an end, but there is a shortage of staff and you can start something, and for the winter season apply more seriously. Most hotels provide shelter, so you won't be living with Mom and Dad. I am from a town near a winter resort and I guarantee you that there will be a lot of work this season as well, and the employers are worried about the lack of staff. And now in our city there are vacancies for hotel administrators. The salary is low, but you have food and shelter. See the Nationwide Labor Office. In Smolyan, I say that they have announced such a position, and do not look at the salaries, because after the trial period they will offer you more! For a start, 600 BGN shelter and food is not bad, is it? If you are interested in a natural way of life, maybe working in the countryside is not bad for you. Why not? Workers are constantly looking for in cooperatives and from tenants, and then you can open your own small organic / organic farm, so to speak, and again, your diploma will be an advantage for you to write projects and so on. It is important to have ideas of what you want to do. Don't just focus on looking for a job with a degree. A diploma is not a profession, it does not say anything special about your abilities. Write on a piece of paper what you are good at, what you are better at than others and what you want to do in this life. Forget your diploma for a moment. Good luck and smart! PP Suicide for me is for cowards. Death will not escape you, calm down, but try to prove yourself in life. Don't be a cowardly bastard! I am currently pregnant and I guarantee you that your mother has suffered a lot because of you, so you spit on the work and deprivation of your parents with a possible such decision. In addition, you have expended a lot of resources so far and created a lot of CO2 chaos if you commit suicide before doing something good for people / animals / the world. calm down, but try to prove yourself in life. Don't be a cowardly bastard! I am currently pregnant and I guarantee you that your mother has suffered a lot because of you, so you spit on the work and deprivation of your parents with a possible such decision. In addition, you have expended a lot of resources so far and created a lot of CO2 chaos if you commit suicide before doing something good for people / animals / the world. calm down, but try to prove yourself in life. Don't be a cowardly bastard! I am currently pregnant and I guarantee you that your mother has suffered a lot because of you, so you spit on the work and deprivation of your parents with a possible such decision. In addition, you have expended a lot of resources so far and created a lot of CO2 chaos if you commit suicide before doing something good for people / animals / the world.

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FInnLuv answered · November 04, 2020

   See on the job sites what kind of workers are looking for and complete courses for the specialty. Then get down to this job that the market offers.

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timmayyy answered · November 04, 2020

   I'm number one - I forgot to add another idea - you can apply to the Army. They are constantly looking for people there and do not require any experience or anything. My cousin is a high school graduate with a low degree and is in an elite alpine battalion, where they are taught exactly how to survive in nature, climbing, skiing and so on. The salary is low - about BGN 800 NET, but you have other extras, and besides, you can live with this money especially in our city. I do not completely agree with No. 2. Not everything is about diplomas. The Author's diploma did not help him either. It's too late for diplomas. It is more important to start some work, to prove yourself and make connections

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kendalldorsey1 answered · November 04, 2020

   Sign up for a worker in a store while they hire and then sign up. What nonsense! At 28, he will commit suicide. Not only do you live with your parents, but you are too lazy to go to work because it is not your specialty. As if it were like under communism ... With the money from a seller you can easily pay for your accommodation and make a living.

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jath236 answered · November 04, 2020

   Man, in 5 years you have 5 months on the program and apart from that not a day of experience? The SV looks at where you worked, not what diploma you have. I'm afraid to ask what you did during these 5 years, but I suspect that you were just lazy because there is no job for your qualification ... 90% of people with a university degree do not work in the specialty, but economists because the market is literally flooded and saturated with financiers, accountants and administrators. Take matters into your own hands, work for 2-3 years to create some work habits and then look for something close to your specialty, or close to what you want to work.

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jhonyhotlatin answered · November 04, 2020

   It is normal to despair, but the stronger ones then try to get back on their feet. This with life in nature is, to put it mildly, strange and I would advise you to bet on the standards: D The fact that you want to work without money for the first months also forgot it. Have respect for yourself

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jaylen_smith answered · November 04, 2020

   From the author - thanks for comment 1 for the adequate advice. Up to 4 - you don't know me, and from bitter experience I know that on someone else's back and a hundred sticks are few! What the hell does "lazy to go to work" mean? !! To finish my damn university I cut the wood of the neighbors, I looked after old people (to provide accommodation), I sold online vehicles and I DIDN'T look only for the specialty !!! If you want to vent your anger - go to the neighborhood pub! I don't give a damn how you're going to fuck me, because today I'm there, and tomorrow I'm gone, thank God! Regarding the army - I tried - 48 kg. I didn't and it doesn't happen, and they look at me with disbelief :( Regarding suicide - to comment 4 - I don't wish you to go so far as to totally feel rejected and lost any desire to put even a bite in your mouth, because life so it has become meaningless, that I still have this! And yes - there is no hope! Bye and good health, and once again - thanks for comment 1 - God bless you! This is from me...

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dumbcbslut answered · November 04, 2020

   Look now author, there are many in this jar. Take yourself in hand, because there is no one to take you instead. Finance is a very good profile. From personal experience I tell you, appearance, clothing and appearance are also taken into account. Maybe there is a weak spot, because you were not active and you may be a little tired, I'm not saying it badly, I'm just looking for an explanation. Everyone falls into a hole sometimes, you're not the only one. See the positives: young, educated, healthy and eager to work. Start submitting documents and proactively, without an ad, post everywhere. In a contact center why not start, to have some experience at least, there is a high turnover and people are always looking for. Upside down, everything is changing, there is no static in life. And leave this bushcraft if you can't stand it, there is no point in ruining your health!

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victoriadinizofc answered · November 04, 2020

   Hello, It's best to forget about your diploma and get any job, because if it's hard for you to find a job now, in time it will be even harder for you, because you will be completely detached from the work environment. It's normal to feel depressed and have dark thoughts ... but that's the easiest thing to do, isn't it ... instead of fighting, thinking that if we kill ourselves, it's over. You have to tighten up and keep trying, even if you get rejected, even if you are rejected, you keep going until things work out. If you have the financial ability, move to a bigger city or abroad. Have you thought about trying abroad? once you know a foreign language you can go to a country where that language is spoken. And if you don't have money now to move, start some work in your city, if you live with your parents, at least you won't pay for accommodation.

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vannahmontanna answered · November 04, 2020

   Suicide is the dumbest thing you can do, because it won't solve your problems, it will only cause suffering to your loved ones! Do not do it! Know that there are many people in your situation, and they will become more and more. Maybe the solution is to unite and change the system that leads to unemployment and inequality. I am also an economist, and I see that there is no work, especially in the small town. And why should we be forced to work, whatever it takes, to make a living? What is this fucking system called capitalism? You work something, in most cases without any sense and usefulness for the society, and your fat boss collects the bundles .... The system is definitely not fair for the ordinary person, but I don't understand why nobody does anything to change it, and everyone just come to terms with it ... People, we live in the 21st century, the century of the most rapid development of technology in human history, and we continue to work a fixed 8-hour day, 5 days a week, for the benefit of the oligarchs, not for society, because there is already an overproduction of goods, and society he does not need the labor of all men to prosper. We just have to accept, finally, that there is a surplus of labor on the market, and much of the production is dumped in landfills instead of consumed. My university colleagues, who were on brigades in the United States and were in fast food chains, told me that after work, they regularly dumped huge amounts of edible food in containers ... That's why word! and we continue to work a fixed 8-hour day, 5 days a week, for the good of the oligarchs, not for society, because there is already an overproduction of goods, and society does not need the labor of all people to prosper. We just have to finally accept that there is a surplus of labor on the market, and much of the production is dumped in landfills instead of consumed. My university colleagues, who were on brigades in the United States and were in fast food chains, told me that after work, they regularly dumped huge amounts of edible food in containers ... That's why word! and we continue to work a fixed 8-hour day, 5 days a week, for the good of the oligarchs, not for society, because there is already an overproduction of goods, and society does not need the labor of all people to prosper. We just have to accept, finally, that there is a surplus of labor on the market, and much of the production is dumped in landfills instead of consumed. My university colleagues, who were on brigades in the United States and were in fast food chains, told me that after work, they regularly dumped huge amounts of edible food in containers ... That's why word! We just have to finally accept that there is a surplus of labor on the market, and much of the production is dumped in landfills instead of consumed. My university colleagues, who were on brigades in the United States and were in fast food chains, told me that after work, they regularly dumped huge amounts of edible food in containers ... That's why word! We just have to accept, finally, that there is a surplus of labor on the market, and much of the production is dumped in landfills instead of consumed. My university colleagues, who were on brigades in the United States and were in fast food chains, told me that after work, they regularly dumped huge amounts of edible food in containers ... That's why word!