Hello! I recently started a driving course. It is 10 years older. From the first meeting we felt a strong attraction, but I thought it was something momentary and decided to wait, but after each meeting I realized that what I feel is serious. The problem is that I have a relationship for 3 years, which does not work at all and it is only a matter of time before it ends. I constantly started thinking about instructing, I look forward to each of our meetings. During driving, we joke, talk and I feel that he likes me too. Well, time passed and after one of the meetings I told him that I like him very much. He told me that he also had sympathy for me, he liked me, but he also had a relationship for half a year and was not ready to end it. The truth is that I like him very sincerely and purely, very much, I'm in love, but that's it. From that moment when I told him, the jokes, the laughter, and my feelings have not changed, on the contrary, I want it even more. Communication between us is calm. I'm in love a lot and I don't know how to continue. I'm very happy with him, but I can't do anything more because he has a girlfriend. Okay, I like it, but nothing can happen ??? What should I do? I really like it!
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"The problem is that I've been in a relationship for 3 years" - Obviously not a problem for you? The problem for me is that then there are topics like, "Why don't men want a serious relationship?" Do you know why? Because there are women who "fall in love with the instructor" and abandon everything built until then, and men no longer want a relationship to build in order to throw away a whim. This is for the readers darling, I know very well that you are only interested in your own desires and whims and their realization and you do not even think about how actions like yours affect society.
Haven't you heard that instructors don't just like you? There are a lot of girls in the queue. In fact, the only thing that will happen is that you ruin your relationship. And then when you "look" you will see that you did it for one e ** not with an ordinary instructor.
Come on, another caravan of whores. When your relationship is "over" and it's a matter of time, what are you waiting for? To swallow someone's dick, to be your mother and then to separate? This woman is like a monkey, they said. He has to grab another branch to let go of the current one. I feel sick from people like you. Unconscious and unaware of the whore's inclinations. Brother.
There is nothing more you can do but forget it. You even admitted to him that you liked him and he told you you didn't stand a chance. Keep your dignity and don't intrude on him anymore. The course will end and you will not see each other again. If one day he changes his mind, he will surely find a way to tell you.
Play the old Bulgarian film "Ladies Invite", it's just about the topic. Where there are two, the third is superfluous. In this case, you are the third. Your man said it directly. Have a little self-esteem and don't push yourself anymore.
Girl, the man told you it wouldn't happen. Leave him alone! He has a boyfriend, don't ruin his relationship. You tried, ok, it's time to reconcile.
Give him a whistle in the school car. It will both loosen the veins, you will calm down a bit, you will gain training for the future.
Your man told you in plain text that there is a relationship that he does not think will end. Your feelings are not his problem. You can not like a "sincerely and purely" committed man. to do? -sit on your ass and do what you went for-learn to drive. Aman from ..... let's not write what, that they will not let me comment.And anyway, everyone will guess what I mean.
"Wow, do you know that you have scary eyes!" Take a look at the Bulgarian film "Ladies Invite", please! And just look at each other in a scene.
You're in love, but he's not. If he was attracted enough, I don't think another relationship would stop him. Rejoice that he is honest and correct and has not taken advantage of you. And beware of the future, do not reveal your feelings so easily that there are many individuals other than your instructor - you will ..... once / several times to have fun and so on.
You told him you liked him ?? Now please do not become his stalker, because I am convinced that this will happen soon ... Where is your dignity too? We girls never say first that we like a boy.
Author: Come on, please, don't pretend to be holy water! It's as if you've never fallen in love with someone else! And even if it isn't, please don't attack, everyone is different, it can happen to you! You are not in the position of anyone to put labels like "whore" and so on. I have not cheated, nor will I! Maybe my relationship is not going well for other reasons, the problem is not necessarily in me, because usually what is happening now is a consequence of everything! I asked for advice, not attacks! Thanks to number 5!
Did he tell you you had scary eyes? Look for the Bulgarian movie Ladies Invite!
I'm not picky, I just want to ask one question. If your relationship isn't going well, why don't you break up like people instead of doing such nonsense? Sorry for the moralizing, but I've never understood women whose relationships both don't work and stay in them and do nonsense. Let's be married, have children, I can understand to some extent, but why are you together at all? You see that you fall in love with someone else, you see that your relationship is not going well and despite everything you are still together. Why? Are you so afraid of loneliness? It seems that the story of the monkey and the branch will come true.
To the Author - Read the title and the penultimate sentence. You want an opinion, people tell you what they think. And when you don't like it, you start accusing them of not being holy water, etc. Whatever they are, they still paid attention to you, and that's what you wanted when you started the topic, to read it and give your opinion. And don't throw yourself away so much that you haven't cheated. It didn't happen because the man came out decent and didn't take advantage of you, if he had offered you, you wouldn't have refused. Have you not heard that in addition to physical infidelity, there is also emotional infidelity, it is the same filth and meanness. If you are an honest person, you will leave the one you are with if you want to be with someone else, not to sit on two chairs.