I am very confused and I will be very grateful if you approve it! Thanks in advance!
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Go directly "I like you, do you want us to kiss in us (or in them), etc." If he reaches out to touch or undress you - do not pull because if he is shy (as you say) he will withdraw. He does not die from pushing with a boy - calm down! I also want to know what "I'm different" means.
Calm the ball. How old are you? Are you small enough to bread yourself? Don't worry, if you panic you won't expose yourself - he must be wondering at the moment how you will meet without him going crazy with shame ... Become friends - if you find it difficult, write to each other in the mail or talk on the phone. Finally, ask him: - An acquaintance told me that you like me, she seems crazy! Right? And you'll assume he'll admit it - if he tells you it's true, you'll just admit it. Don't worry, he probably likes you too - you have the same taste after all. Good luck and write about the result! I'm serious, write! A girl who hasn't met the right boy yet ... yet!
Well, you are looking for a suitable moment of intimacy and you tell him that you also like the edikoybanda that you listen to a lot. Then you ask them if they also like the band that the listeners think they like and wait for the answer. If you have survived, you will still arouse some interest and there is a great chance to start a conversation that will eventually bring you closer. Next, just be yourself. It takes a little courage in the beginning, overcome your fear, worry, fight, life is a constant struggle for something, get used to it. Success!
Don't worry, I'm a teen girl, as I said, and I'm one of the most sociable and open people. Everyone has been through something like this, the best advice I can give you is to be yourself in the first place not to pan out and if the boy is worth it everything will be fine over time. Before you meet, do something that calms you down, for example, listening to music (light a candle helps me a lot) so that you know what is your means of calming the soul. I know it's hard for you and you probably think that no one understands you, but it's not like that at all, believe me, you have nothing to be ashamed of, the whole situation is absolutely normal for our age. I wish you success
Be yourself all the time. There is nothing better than that. If he is your man, he will like you the way you are. Even red as cancer, lol.
If you never swallow some of your shame, nothing will happen to you in life, for the simple reason that if you are silent no one knows what you want, what you think, etc. Smile, what's wrong, talk about common topics , don't pretend to be arrogant, poisoned and very talkative - you'll just look dumb. Be yourself, but part of the shame aside, because if you are silent like a fish and red as a crab, it will be difficult to get to a conversation if he is shy too. You start as a friend, quietly and calmly do not start with liking you, try to spend more time, talk to him, etc. After you meet, if he does not do something further, post a topic and I will give you advice. So I gathered my girlfriend - very shy with her boyfriend, who does not give in to shame and in fact if it weren't for me they would never have done anything even though they liked each other and I saw him, but she didn't,
I don't know about you modern "teens" but I as a woman never worry about men. If I like a man, I treat him normally. I think the man is the one who has to take the first step. If she doesn't do it, she either doesn't like me or she doesn't deserve a husband. A man who allows himself to be taken down by a woman is not a man. Only a crazy man will go with the flow. Or someone who doesn't really like you and only temporarily takes advantage of the fact that you like him. In both cases it is not worth it. I don't need one. That's why I left things as they are in nature. The man must work hard to win the woman. So you have nothing to worry about. And what you're obsessed with this boy. Pick up your emotions a little so we don't read "help doesn't call me what to do". Men are generally selfish and don't deserve to have too deep feelings for them, because those feelings come out of your nose. And when he sees that you like him very much, he stops fighting for you and starts fighting for someone else. Such is their nature. But he's still your child and he may not warm up at all, you like him and take action.
You don't have to show that you like him when you meet him, not that he's cheeky, you just don't have to think about it. Whether you look him in the eye - well, as much as you look at everyone else when you talk to them, don't think about it. Whether to smile - smile, but of course, do not think how much you smile, just do it. And talk to yourself and that's it. Talk more and don't think about how you look or whether you blush and how you look at all. Focus on talking.
Yes, I have a problem ... From the title I thought it was something very serious. You will always get together, calm down.
Thanks for your advice ... But I'm very worried ... I just think about it non-stop, and I don't have any girlfriends and I can't be distracted by anything! Thanks I'm still open for more tips! Everything is welcome!
You are not alone. I'm just like you. A teen girl who has a hard time making friends, is shy and has a social phobia - in general I like best with those closest to me, without strangers. And I'm trying to overcome this and be more sociable and open, but I don't know how :(
Darling, find friends - it's important to have someone to share with, to go out. Somehow it's not good to hide everything in yourself. They can support you, reproach you, advise you, or at least there will be someone to share with, so that certain things do not bother you. Don't part with people, the girls around you may not be your type, but through online games, etc., you can find girlfriends, and you have to find them. It is important, it is good - nice, somehow things start a little, to bother you if there is anyone, to share them. Shame in these years is something normal, it can stay for a lifetime, but with the right people next to you, with experience you will start to relax. It all depends on you, but it's normal at this age, you haven't had boyfriends, experience yet - we've all been through this. I, from a shy girl, became hellishly talkative and loose, I know I can have faith in myself, self-confidence and no problems with the boys. Remembering years ago, when I liked someone, I sank to the ground in shame, I couldn't say my name, but look at me now. I want and I have them, you just need confidence, maturity and everything with his time. No matter how shy you are after a few relationships, you will be safer and less anxious, and if you have girlfriends everything will be 6. My girlfriend was the same until the age of 20, the man too, but I was a friend, poisoned I also gave advice and gathered them, because they didn't even look at each other out of shame, but from km. they seemed to like each other. They are already happily married, and I am more than proud because without my intervention and grumbling she would be more confident that he also has feelings - nothing would have happened. Just try to relax, talk about something like that, for a start you start conversations like a friend. Relax, it's not scary, it's normal to be ashamed - we've all really been that way, but you decide what to be and how to behave. The talkative ones always have more friends and not in vain, and the silent ones share themselves. When you are silent, no one knows what you think, you are ashamed, but how can others know that. Calm down and everything over time :)
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