Hello, read the story of a 17-year-old girl from the city of Sofia. A few months ago, I met a boy we liked right away. He was not one of the best - he smoked trumps, did not get along with his family and was irregular at school, but I was ready to put up with it. The problem is that my best friend and I do nonsense when we're together and we decided it would be fun to give him a number. I won't mention exactly what we did, but then I felt guilty and obligated to tell him. Well, I confessed to him, but the relationship between us has changed dramatically. He became a little more withdrawn and began to behave slightly mockingly, although he kept looking for me and assuring me that what had happened had been forgotten. I, on the other hand, felt humiliated by my action and his reaction and also started to behave colder, trying to demonstrate indifference that I didn't really feel. Then we would see each other, he tied me a tin can. I experienced it very hard and suddenly we stopped keeping in touch. Neither he called to apologize, nor did I hold him accountable. A few weeks passed and I went on with my life, suggesting that it was best for both of us. However, I recently met another boy from his school. I learned from him that you now had another girlfriend for some new bad events. At first I felt disgusted, but then I thought more and more about him and found that I missed him. I want to renew our relationship, but I don't know how. I have decided to change a lot this summer (both externally and internally). I have some shortcomings to fix, in addition, I need to raise my self-esteem a bit. Do you think it's worth fighting for, after so long I keep thinking that things could have turned out differently and there has been a huge misunderstanding. Thank you in advance for your attention! :))
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I don't think he's worth it. You were right, but he did worse. Find someone better.
Don't change for him, but for yourself :) As mentioned N1 is not worth it :) There are much better than him
I'm smaller, but I have a similar story. :) I don't think it's worth changing for someone. If you do it just to impress him, don't do it. He hardly thinks the way you constantly think of him. You will find someone to match. It's hard to forget, but don't take the risk. If there is a second time, there will be a third ...