It's about my ex-boyfriend and his current one. In principle, we never got along with him, there were always disputes - he is jealous, I am jealous, he wants freedom, I want freedom, there were big disputes. We went for two years and we broke up. He has been dating a really nice girl for a year and a half, she is 20 years old, a student. Extremely nice and good, we met quite by accident and we are currently in a very good relationship. She doesn't know I've been with her boyfriend, and I don't want to mention it. Anyway ... I doubted he was cheating on her.
They don't go out together, he doesn't even take her for coffee, he doesn't introduce her to anyone - we met, as I said, quite by accident - in general, as if it doesn't exist for him. She's madly in love with him, she's there for some idol, god, she's ready to be with him ... Well, at first I thought that my suspicions are too much ... Well, two weeks ago our man called me and asked me in a cheerful voice if I was ready to go out. The word for word, I realized that he wanted us to go to a cafe, to a restaurant, and then maybe to hang out in a hotel room (: From then on, you understand. His girlfriend doesn't know about it, I cut him off, of course. ..
My idea is to tell her about this incident, to tell her about my relationship with her man and to warn her that he is cheating on her or to last? It is important that the girl believes me, but I do not know if her love and faith in him are not too strong ... His girlfriend doesn't know about it either, I cut him off, of course ... My idea is to tell her about this incident, to tell her about my relationship with her man, and to warn her at all that he is cheating on her or not. do you last It is important that the girl believes in me, but I don't know if her love and faith in him are not too strong ... His girlfriend doesn't know about it either, I cut him off, of course ... My idea is to tell her about this incident, to tell her about my relationship with her man, and to warn her at all that he is cheating on her or not. do you last It is important that the girl believes in me, but I don't know if her love and faith in him are not too strong ...
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Turks and Arabs, Muslims in general, do so. You last, not wanting to fuck him, why are you so angry.
Don't tell her, just talk to him and explain to him that anything between you will not go back.
It is best to make a threesome - so you will be all together and everyone will be satisfied!
I don't think I specified it well. I don't feel anything for him, as far as I know - and he for me, the call was obviously for sex. But I'm sure he's cheating on her now, and not with a girl ... and not with a whore for one night (: And I'm angry because his girl is a great person and I feel quite close to her, even though we've known each other recently) (:.
My opinion is to tell her. It is very bad for someone to deceive you - I have been in this situation and I know it from personal experience. Put yourself in her shoes and think about how you would feel if you found out that someone was cheating on you. And how did you meet her, if it's not a secret? bubka-P
But all three (1-3) are talking big nonsense! I think talk to her darling! Explain everything! So your conscience will be clear! And if after everything you tell her she continues to be with him - well, her problem already! Let her shake her head! But I think you should open her eyes!
A better treasure and tell him to know what kind of commodity he is, if you don't feel anything for him, what do you care? If she really is your friend and say no and it will unite your friendship, say even that you were with him some time ago because sooner or later she will understand if you hold on to her better and you say it :-)
If you persist, it turns out that two people are lying to her - you and him. She will find out sooner or later about these infidelities. Then what - he's the adulterer, and you're the bitch. You hardly want to be in that position. Right?
I have been in a similar situation, but on the part of the male sex and believe me I suffer so much for all the lies and twists that I suffer to this day ... I turned them both on my little finger and thought it would always be so .. .I will be with whom I want when I want it! But in fact, everything changes when the truth comes out ... and it will happen to you, this friend of yours will understand someday and then you will be fucked ... better say everything, but also explain it so that you can you understand
Tell her. Talk to her calmly so she doesn't take it for granted that you want to displace her. Explain to her.
And I'm "FOR" to tell her..but you still have to check if she trusts him so much..but if she doesn't believe you at least you will arouse suspicion in her which can help her a lot ... I have to understand clearly that you he doesn't care so that he doesn't think you're doing it because you want to..think the plan well..but better if you stick to it and it's not worth telling her;)