Good day / evening. Suddenly, my husband started wearing tattered suits, bought a much more expensive phone and put a password on it. I had no problem, but once he was not at home and his phone rang. I decided it was a relative or mutual friend, so I picked it up. I heard a girl say, "Hello, (my husband's name), I'm free tonight, shall we go out?" Numb, I closed. When he came home, I immediately asked him who she was. He scandalized me and cursed me. He didn't know which one it was, that she must have got the number wrong, and I'm suspicious and I didn't trust him! When I paid for the phones, I took a printout and saw how long he had been talking to this number and at what time - when I was with my parents or taking the children to the park! I followed them and shot them in a video - in the evening I showed it to him and again I received insults. However, I saw the girl - 15-16 years old, naked, and even smoked! My husband admitted and said that (unlike me) she was young and beautiful, she understood him and did not burden him with housework! Should I divorce him? I have 1 child and now I am pregnant with twins. I don't want to grow up without a father. Please post and comment! Thanks!
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From the author: Sorry for the mistake, I wrote that I took the children to the park, and it is a child ... I'm just pregnant and I was wrong. Forgive the mistake.
Wait a minute now. The girl was waiting for your husband's voice, but she hears your voice and still says directly "Hello, (my husband's name), I'm free tonight, shall we go out?" If I hear a voice other than the one I'm looking for, I usually say "I'm looking for who you are," rather than directly explaining to him why and when I want to see him.
From the author: Number 1, I didn't say anything, I just hung up. She said that because it was his phone after all.
Haha, someone read the new Magazine. Don't get attached to the story.
You're lying.
Fictional story;) Not that it doesn't happen, but thank your husband!
He lost me on the printout! I tried to take a printout for my own child's phone and it was refused. Her phone bill exceeds BGN 60 for the second month. I am not given a printout because of the subscriber's personal inviolability. So write these fictional dramas on a book and don't bother us!
Let's say it happened as you say: You didn't understand that you only ask once. A lie? Well, ok! You pretend to be simple and arrange things so that you both pay dearly for the "trick" and the children are insured before the final blow. Now what did you ask after you said yourself that you didn't want your children to grow up without a father? He has another "daughter" to take care of. On top of that, there is not a gram of respect for you. If you are not economically stable, just resign us to bow your head and pretend to be a dead dove until it's time to act.
Next time, think of the subject better. ;)
1 star for number 2, because the author did not speak, according to her story. The girl yawned that the phone was no longer ringing and there was a connection, and with her stupid mind she immediately talked about what was so strange ...
Your husband is complete rubbish, objectively speaking.
11, when a person picks up the phone, he usually says "hello" especially if the phone is not his. And don't tell me how they can even say "hello" to you directly, you shoot directly when, how and why you want to see the person without hello, without hello, without anything. 1 star for your naivety.
To 13: "I heard a girl say, 'Hello, (my husband's name), I'm free tonight, shall we go out?' - this is what the author wrote. There is a "hello", there is an address. The author didn't say anything, just to hear who was looking for her husband. PP: I'm not n11, and I suppose that the story may have been made up, but it may not be ...
Oh, and being a woman is not easy. But tell me. How did you meet your husband? In a sense, before you met him, had she put on the animal bait (short skirt or panties in the summer, and possibly blonde hair and light demeanor)? Women are the ones who choose their partner, and the opposite is true to a much lesser extent. And if there are so many relationships with a catastrophic end, then the problem is in the woman and in her criteria by which she chooses a partner. You can't put an animal bait and expect a responsible gentleman to get caught there! Responsible gentlemen are caught on a bait for responsible gentlemen, not a lure for animal instinct. You cannot go with material expectations to a man and expect love and a lasting relationship. Women seem to fail to take into account the fact that the man is not an ATM, and a being who can analyze why someone is with him. May you have an earring on the ear of all the women where you walk the streets dressed as highway priestesses !!! And that's when I look at 90 percent of young women. The same awaits them as you !!! Each one of them. When you have evidence that he is cheating on you, there is a court that can oblige him to pay child support if you divorce him. At least the children shouldn't steal the towel from your idylls.
And is this the father you want to have. You will not become younger. With three children you will look even older and uglier. And you still have a lot of housework and need help. He is brazenly mocking you. If you have dignity, divorce him, condemn him for alimony and so on ... If he has gone to school, apart from being .... he will have no time for our fatherhood!
Don't get divorced. He told you what to do - "she was young and beautiful, she understood him and did not burden him with housework!" So try to understand him, listen to him, pay special attention to him and do not burden him with housework. Housework is for women. You can't get younger, but you can get prettier. Eat healthy. Go to yoga, beauty salons. She does her hair. Make up. Always wear an expensive and nice perfume. Dress sexy and show him often that you want him. You know that a 15-year-old girl is temporarily his entertainment. Let him scratch his ego with her. He will come back to you again.
From the author: I bought this new Magazine. The story is really like mine! The world is small. But what are you kidding, every 4th woman is cheated on ... It's not just the woman where you wrote the story in the magazine. You are very skeptical. If someone asks you for advice, you HISTORY IS FICTION! Why should I write such a story? What will I get out of this? Thanks to 11, 12 and 14 for believing.
Only n.2 has shown intelligence by reading the author's false story. When someone calls and until he hears an answer from the other side, he never says what he wants, otherwise there is talk in the wind. But the author is a champion of lies, she is the least worried that she is caught in a lie. First she says that she went to the park with the children, and then she catches herself in her lies and hurries to correct herself. The saying: "The legs of a lie are short" is very true, but the author and her eye will not blink that she is caught in a lie. And just look at whom she thanks, but at numbers 11, 12 and 14, the naive people who believe her. I appeal to all commentators who believe everything written. Please don't be so naive. The author of this story is an absolute plagiarist. Only when she is exposed to plagiarism do she admit that the story in the new Magazine is like hers. Only the story in a new Journal was published before hers here. This author lies about everything and always. She cannot live without lying. There is no sense of shame in her behavior. Dear commentators, if any of you have read the topic: "Why do most Bulgarian women have an extremely wrong opinion of themselves", again in this section "Love and Infidelity", read her two comments 114 and 123 and see how she presents herself there. Especially in com. 123, where she pretends to be a doctor and she is no doctor at all. Also read my com.139 and see what I tell you about it. If any of you ask how I can know so much about her, my answer is that I have known her for 6 years from another site and we have argued many times on various issues. For so many years, I have known her style and manner of expression. So on the other site I caught her plagiarizing several times, as now here com. H.5 catches her plagiarizing a new Journal without shame. This is the "author" of this topic. Please let the moderators post my comment.
N. 18 by the author: "Why should I write such a story? What will I get out of it?" Answer: Mental satisfaction of your sick psyche. Stop lying and plagiarizing.
Well, are you a dear, worthy woman or not? Will a schoolgirl make you 2 cents or not? You have to thank him, he showed you what a person he is. Drop him, as a child of cheating parents, there is nothing worse than an unhappy marriage and the cheating that children always feel. Better a poor horse than no horse at all. Once he cheats, he won't stop.
Fiction squared! At least I don't know which normal man will be a schoolgirl. They are their children, no matter how naked they are.
Your husband is a terrible brat - divorce and take everything from him.
For a schoolgirl, she will not go to costumes and buy expensive perfumes, but will pretend to be a young man.
He must have found someone pretty stupid, or he should be stupid enough not to tell her he's married or at least that he has a girlfriend - if she calls him to be careful who she's talking to.
I did not read the comments at all, but I understood the problem. He does nothing like actions - legal, domestic and so on. Get in his mind. It's easy. Make him believe he's the coolest, most successful, smartest, sexiest and greatest dude in the world. He is just a genius, but only you know it, the world is not old enough to understand the extent of his genius. Plus nice underwear and shoes - this is a must. From there it's yours. And you don't have to worry about the students anymore, he won't look at them. I tell you from personal experience, I would not risk giving advice in such a delicate situation if I have not already dealt with it.
I know you will not like my comment, author, although I will not write a single insulting word. No, I will not agree with №22 that a normal man will not be a schoolgirl. There will be some more running away from the lamb. This with the phone call is doubtful to me too, but I will pass it by in silence. I agree with you that the stories here are repeated, nothing new under the sun, no one finds the hot water - and my husband cheated on me with a woman he works with, and even older than him - I have read so many similar stories I have nothing to do with. But to confuse the number of children, it just refused to read me. Here people accept with confidence what is written, do not abuse people who take the time to read your story and give advice.
The story is not made up One girl;) Don't do that anymore.
30, I wonder how with his "rich" life experience of 13 years he came to this conclusion? The school year is about to begin - focus on the lessons! Please, the moderators publish my comment - this girl is constantly on the site and comments on topics that are absolutely inappropriate for his age!
N. 24 you very correctly judged that no man would wear expensive suits and perfumes as a schoolgirl. But the author, because she always lies and lacks too much elementary logic to judge what in her story is believable and what is not. It is important for her to write all sorts of nonsense in order to scratch her grandiose EGO. She suffers from grandiosity and I'm sure you all know that grandiosity is a mental illness. Let no one imagine that she will stop lying, it is impossible for her. In this story, the author exposed herself as ugly as others and showed that she was plagiarizing.
N. 30, and who are you to say that the story is not made up! Did you read the same story in the new Journal? Or you are defending the lies of your girlfriend Sasha!
of 30 who had to understand, understood the meaning.
The story is not made up, the story is made up of many other stories, but the conductor who worked with the mold is not good at making it up. A slight summary of what the other commenters have said so far: - a man playing with 15-16 year olds does not buy suits, but wears cropped jeans, T-shirts with their favorite bands, gets a tattoo, puts on earrings and buys a motorcycle - printouts for phone calls no are given to Sulio and Pulio, and it is unlikely that the infidel will allow someone to pay for his phone, even if they are in a group - there is no infidel who will forget his phone, if he wants to have an unbreakable password - usually appointments are made by SMS or Viber, and if someone hangs up for no reason, you call again - there are few 15-16 year olds who will say "I'm free tonight", the students are free during the day - this with the video,