Hello, I decided to share my story .. My boyfriend and I were together for almost 3 years. We didn't understand each other a lot, we fought a lot, but we always fixed things .. We lived together, we supported each other .. we also had a lot of good moments .. A moment came when he started telling me that it was suffocating him, that we shouldn't have lived together, that is still young and everyone has to move on .. I did not want to part, I tried to talk to him not to part, but he was adamant .. I left and thought I would miss him .. Now almost We haven't been together for 2 months .. I want to get it back .. I wrote to him recently and he just wrote me what you care about me we hate, he wrote me that he doesn't want a relationship with anyone there was no love .. It hurts a lot .. I want to get it back what to do .. help me he is everything to me ..
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Well, since he doesn't want to see you anymore, then he doesn't love you anymore, forget him no matter how hard it is and move on, I know it's hard but somewhere new love awaits you. Greetings
The question is not "how to get it back?", But "what will you achieve with this"? Nothing, everything will happen again. Believe me, it's for your own good not to take it back. And without that there is no way to get it back, beauty does not happen by force.
You're just a drug addict in a period of abstinence. It will be funny how bad you were and how low you fell when you passed. 2 months is nothing ... I did not know what world I was in for 2 years, when I was in your situation ... And then things got better - and the right person appeared, and we made a family, and children were born .. Now I don't even remember that misunderstanding in my life. If this will calm you down - do not bloom and do not tie! And I'm glad I'm not around, because it could have dragged me down.
the boy has clearly told you the end, so he doesn't want you to be together. you say yourself that you fought a lot, that you had problems, he was obviously tired and decided to end it. you can't get it back, don't be humiliated to ask or explain it, from personal experience. accept it as much as you don't want to now and move on.
Pure sample masochism. The man told you he didn't want you, and you even want him back. If you don't tighten up, it will be scary for you and there will be consequences that will drag on for a lifetime. I know several women who screamed at such events, started drinking a lot to do love spells, then got married and now it is very difficult for them to have a healthy and normal relationship. M25
He doesn't want to be with you, don't try again. Here, lovers of suffering relationships will say that this is possible love, but it will definitely not be shared. Tighten up and stop being annoying. If it was that good, it would have continued. I don't know how old you are, but think seriously about punctuation in what you write.
I immediately thought of something while reading, I will share it, I hope I'm wrong. I think that while he was with you he seriously fell for someone else and you just stopped being interested in him anymore. You broke up, but it didn't work out with the other one, and he was quite in love with her and now he's hurt. I don't know, that's what I thought right away. Anyway, with this person you have no future anymore, be strong and move forward, otherwise you will only lose time and nerves! Success!
Unfortunately, you're just tired of him and he doesn't have any feelings for you anymore. This "we hurried", "I'm very young", "I lack space", etc. are on-duty explanations in such situations. How can he tell you softer "I don't care about you at all anymore"? You can't give back anything because you haven't separated because of a specific problem, and love just isn't there. The most important thing is not to blame yourself, not to think that you could have changed something earlier and not to allow separation. There are many such men, who are quickly bored by living together and their feelings evaporate, and yours is hardly better than the others like it, to deserve your suffering. If she had given in to every quarrel to please him and not "suffocate" him, would you have felt happy in such a relationship? I think that there wasn't, and the sooner you realize it just wasn't love, the better for you. I know how difficult it is and it may be a long time before you break away from your feelings, but don't look for it anymore. Men do not like women to annoy them and so you only humiliate yourself and create dislike for yourself. Not worth it!
If you really think "He is everything to me", then you are nothing to yourself ...!
Here, everyone cuts very dramatically - either there is another, or he does not love you. I want to tell you, darling, that young men who have not yet found themselves very often succumb to outside influences and especially from their free friends who have no connections, go around bars and discos, change numbers and this in the eyes of the engaged man often is a super life that they cannot live for understandable reasons. And we all know how in men's companies it is exaggerated, men brag and your boyfriend is in a state of complexity and self-pity, he even told you, explaining that you are young for a serious relationship, etc. It's just you very young and you failed to dissuade him from this nonsense, you did not know what to tell him to sober up. Well, he already knows what a chimera it is to change numbers, he even told you that there was no love ... Nonsense on wheels, he had love with you, but he lost it because of nonsense. Tell him these things if you think it makes sense, if not, go ahead, life is good.