Hi, maybe my story won't touch you, but I want advice on what to do? I have been in a relationship with a married man for half a year, I love him very much, of course he says the same thing, but he needs money and in about a month he will go abroad. He told me that September would return, that he would not forget me, that he would always love me. But between us there will always be SHE at lunch :( What can I do, he will leave, he may forget me, nothing that tells me so, I'm afraid .. The most terrible and inevitable is that he shares one thing every day bed with her, all this kills me knowing that they live together, he told me that he loves me much more than her, that he has never felt anything like this before. Confused alone; (PLEASE help !; (
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Don't worry, author, not only will you not die, but this is a chance to start LIVING for real. Draw the line - what did you get from this man besides pain, insult and a goal x ...? Here, now he is going abroad to earn some money for his wife and family, what has he ever done for you? Tighten up and use the chance that he will not be around to torment and irritate you - concentrate on the important things in life - education, work. Go to sea with your friends this summer and concentrate on the person who is faithful to you and is always by your side - YOURSELF. You only have yourself - pay attention, while this man has his family, has his family friends, his social status, job, home, car, etc ... soon there will be money. What do you have? I tell you - this is your chance to save yourself from this disastrous relationship and start a normal life. In the end, the years go by, and he doesn't think he'll leave the lady for you? How long will you go to bed and get up alone? How long will you not have family, children, family friends and a person next to you? Wake up!!! This one will be back in September, but he'll go to her first - will he? spill the money he made, have good sex and make plans for the future, in which darling - in which you do not exist!
if people died when their boyfriend dumped them, the world would be over by now :-) don't you think you're the first to go through this? I don't know how old you are, but you sound hyper naive. if he will always love you, he does not feel such feelings for his wife, let him divorce her and reunite with you. but from now on it is clear that he will not do it, because he is comfortable with the current situation: a woman at home for the household, a mistress for sex, someone like him. rejoice that he is leaving, so you will have the opportunity to forget him and see that there are other men, imagine, free.
I agree with comment 1, dealing with married men / women and hoping that something can happen is very risky. Usually for a married man, another woman is just a mistress, and the fact that someone says "I love you" is just words. True love is seen through the deeds of people, it is not talked about ... Good luck!
THE AUTHOR: He wants me to promise him that I will not forget him, he said that he is afraid of losing me. He even wants to dump her for me, but she will take his child. I am so confused and blinded :(
Author, and I want to land on the moon. You are very naive. The person is selfish enough to spin you both. He is selfish enough to go and make money for his wife, but look - to ask you not to forget him. Well, promise him with a clear conscience - and don't really forget him. Let it be like an earring on your ear not to deal with such egotists - married or not. As for the children, his wife can't take them from him. In Bulgaria, in case of divorce, both parents always have parental rights. The children live with the mother until the age of 10, then they can choose. It is very difficult for his wife to take away his parental rights - he has to prove that he is an alcoholic, crazy, aggressive, etc. I will tell you the truth - the man is a coward and is selfish. It's good for him - two women play his whistle, and now he hopes to hit someone abroad at least for sex. Especially, if he goes with other men, he will necessarily go hunting / in clubs and in extreme cases when paid /. He will think of you, he will look for you, but from a pure sample a sense of ownership. If he loved you, he would divorce you, start a new life with you, or at least offer you to build your future abroad together. Nothing like that - he goes abroad to earn the money to carry out the plans of the faithful. You, darling, are for use. Look, don't end it, don't stress. Away from the eyes away from the heart! Just look like him, you won't stop locking yourself at home and waiting for him - there's nothing to wait for. Go out, work overtime, STUDY and find hobbies, friends, a pet if you have to. The outside is full of smiling, wonderful men who can offer you a normal lifestyle and are enough men to fight for their love. What do you get from this man now? When you are alone in the evening, who is next to you? Who is next to you in illness when you have problems? Who gets up and sleeps with you? When did he take you to lunch, to dinner at a restaurant? On holiday? When did he spend the holidays with you or did he take you on weekends to meet friends? All this, darling, is reserved for his wife, whom he did not love (ha ha). Wake up! After being abroad for women, he will bring the necessary mangoes and become number 1 for his wife and children. Who knows - they can do another one. Where are you staying, darling? If he loved you, he would at least think of you and release you from commitments before he went to wave his ass abroad. He thinks only of his ass and loves only himself! But I tell you again - live your love until it leaves. But summer is coming, and if you don't use it to finally start living, not to wait, you will be to blame. He will not abandon his wife until his children are 30 years old, then he will tell you that his house is not shared, etc., until you go out alone, old and REJECTED by society. If yours understands, if your friends understand, you will be destroyed. Think about it - this man who claims to have loved you has turned you into a ..., rejected woman in the shadows. Do you think the person who loves you does that to you? If you had a daughter, would you want her to go through yours? Why are you doing this to yourself? You just don't deserve it !!! Think about it - this man who claims to have loved you has turned you into a ..., rejected woman in the shadows. Do you think the person who loves you does that to you? If you had a daughter, would you want her to go through yours? Why are you doing this to yourself? You just don't deserve it !!! Think about it - this man who claims to have loved you has turned you into a ..., rejected woman in the shadows. Do you think the person who loves you does that to you? If you had a daughter, would you want her to go through yours? Why are you doing this to yourself? You just don't deserve it !!!
ha, see how you define yourself - you're blinded. Open your eyes and see! What are you waiting for from there? !! If he loved you so much, he would still find a way to break up with his wife. And for the child he will always remain a father. That's what real men do, that's what I think is fair. Look around - the world is full of free, unattached men.
Well, if you die, you will rid the world of one ..., after all, little by little it is good to purify humanity ... And if you decide to live, become a Man, they are disappearing!
You are the one who stands between THEM, your superfluous one. You know?