Hints

   Abe, we even understand each other very well. But if we don't like the woman, what do you expect us to say? "Even if you stand on the front stand, it won't light you up, you don't like me"?

   You have a mouth to speak, not to give mixed signals and then to pretend to be hit, but he did that, but this or that.

   I'm not blaming you, but can you explain why you're hinting and not saying it directly?

   If you make hints, then make sure that they are extremely clear and unambiguous, otherwise you only give confusing signals and lose both your time and opportunities and the person to whom you give them.

   Hints are nonsense. If you want something specific, say it straight. Metaphors are about stupid poets and writers.

   Officially: we do not understand men by hints.

   And wouldn't it occur to me that asking for a favor or advice, a lady actually wants at least sex with me? !! Hints only make sense if they are clear and indicative enough, such as a hug or a kiss. If you want to, ask boldly. The other is uncertain and confusing - I can't answer with intimate interest.

   It is not very clear what exactly the author is disappointed with. For example, hints and "signals" are not the same. I would advise the author to tell us more specifically what it is about. Here under anonymity, she can say it quite directly - what / how she hinted and what is the opposite reaction. This is the only way we can help her (because she probably needs help. Either she doesn't "hint like people", or the other side doesn't really care, but she doesn't react firmly out of discretion ... maybe. There will probably be a lot of insults like usually, but what of it - he ignores them, doesn't write more ... Still, he is a little more likely to receive adequate advice than so - unspoken ...

   Some men and a map to draw them will still not understand. Others understand very well, just have no interest. Others see something that is not there at all.

   So, a woman's hints of one thing are often the opposite of another. Which is normal in the beginning - everyone has their own understandings, and they don't have to be the same at all. In this line of thought - nothing will happen to you if you tell yourself what you think (without the relevant unnecessary details) with 2 stories, instead of waiting for the other to think or take initiatives because it is never clear why the man should to take it nowadays at least. Thought reading is not yet developed, so we rely on speech as a means of communication. Use it as intended, it helps and saves time.

   Author: to Number 3 and Number 8: I hint because I have always stepped elegantly. There are no men interested in me, but ironically, in most cases I do not like them. I have a failed marriage, I will not go into details. I wasn't the reason it didn't work out. The man lied to me, just to be with me at any cost .... I say this just to make it clear that I'm neither fat, nor naughty x-ter, nor ugly (though in someone's eyes). ..I just fall into the criterion of ": you're not my type" for someone else's eyes. Like my fans - for me. I have no middle ground. Either they're crazy about me but I don't want them or they don't last me ... and it's hard for me to figure out. That's why in the rare cases when I like someone - I show them with such a hint, like "I need you" People who know me well, they know that I am super independent and do not beg under any pretext for help, unless I have back thoughts about someone. Sometimes the story is as follows - I like a friend of my close relative - A LOT! we've known each other for years, but we got along ... I started a family, then things dried up, it doesn't matter. we have seen each other 3-4 times. Now I am alone. we didn't get down on time with the person in question ... I felt uncomfortable around the close relative. Now, I figured I wanted to see myself around a real problem of a close relative. The man untied, his problem is true and it is serious. Even at first my motives were pure - to help by talking to my friend, but then I decided that he liked me and that in fact he always attracted me. Some key clarifications. 1: He turned to talk when we saw each other, but we parted ways. he is not always in my city and the only time he offered to see me I couldn't because I was at a really urgent event. So I gave the initiative, untied it, looked for me ... but a beam with his only supposed opportunity for a meeting, which turned out to be the only time I couldn't. 2. I'm not looking for anything serious, but how could I give him this joker ?! Most men think that divorced women want to bond with them. 3. Then I wrote to see him - he was not in town. Now I have transferred the ball into his hands, to write to me when he can ... so my idea is how likely it is to guess that the problem with the common acquaintance is not a cornerstone in my desire to meet, and that I fall for it ? Or has he guessed but doesn't care and elegantly pushes me away? So I gave the initiative, untied, looked for me ... but a beam with his only supposed opportunity for a meeting, which turned out to be the only time I couldn't. 2. I'm not looking for anything serious, but how could I give him this joker ?! Most men think that divorced women want to bond with them. 3. Then I wrote to see him - he was not in town. Now I have transferred the ball into his hands, to write to me when he can ... so my idea is how likely it is to guess that the problem with the common acquaintance is not a cornerstone in my desire to meet, and that I fall for it ? Or has he guessed but doesn't care and elegantly pushes me away? So I gave the initiative, untied, looked for me ... but the beam with his only supposed opportunity for a meeting, which turned out to be the only time when I could not. 2. I'm not looking for anything serious, but how could I give him this joker ?! Most men think that divorced women want to bond with them. 3. Then I wrote to see him - he was not in town. Now I have passed the ball into his hands, to write to me when he can ... so my idea is how likely it is to guess that the problem with the common acquaintance is not a cornerstone in my desire to meet, and that I fall for him ? Or has he guessed but doesn't care and elegantly pushes me away? Most men think that divorced women want to bind them. 3. Then I wrote to see him - he was not in town. Now I have transferred the ball into his hands, to write to me when he can ... so my idea is how likely it is to guess that the problem with the common acquaintance is not a cornerstone in my desire to meet, and that I fall for it ? Or has he guessed but doesn't care and elegantly pushes me away? Most men think that divorced women want to bond with them. 3. Then I wrote to see him - he was not in town. Now I have passed the ball into his hands, to write to me when he can ... so my idea is how likely it is to guess that the problem with the common acquaintance is not a cornerstone in my desire to meet, and that I fall for him ? Or has he guessed but doesn't care and elegantly pushes me away?

   Author, you are confusing the male audience of the site a bit. Not all women make this type of hint when we like someone. For example, I may not like a man, we may not be close friends but just acquaintances and suddenly write to him asking for advice. And in this case I do not want sex or attention, but I just saw that the person is competent in a given area and can give me good advice.

   Avgorka: 12 yes, I know you don't all make that kind of hint. For me, what you do is use. I emphasize if it is not a person I have known for many years and see myself regularly and want something. (These are 90% women) If he is only known in a good field - he will pay for the service / advice as it is right for professionals. Shurobadzhanism and profiteering are inherent in society and are extremely foreign to me. I do not blame anyone. I'm just explaining that if this breed of women like me want help and intervention from a man, they obviously have an interest and want to reveal their intentions through communication and help on a topic ... the hint is thin, yes. Now that I have clarified the situation, I am waiting for opinions

   As soon as I hear about hints from a woman, I feel sick :) So I turned around with the countless hints of a colleague, who finally said that there was no such thing! But the good thing is that she came back, and in the end she sank, but she doesn't admit it :) :) :)

   This hint is no hint ...

   Author, your approach is delicate and elegant (unlike your written expression) and the person initially understood you correctly, but here the mistake was made: "he is not always in my city and the only time he offered to see me I did not I could ". Now he thinks you're using it to tickle his self-esteem "they're praying for me, I'm cutting them" and he's not motivated enough to do something.

   To me, a woman who makes hints and is not direct is a filmmaker living in her universe. And this is a sign of lack of gray matter ...

   I will tell a story from my student years. In fact, the first student year, the first month of it. Just arrived from the barracks, as I entered the auditorium, a girl literally stopped my watch. The inner. I sit next to her, we smile at each other, we drink coffee in the break, the lectures are over and I go to send her away. Her apartment is fuck, we sit in a restaurant, we talk more, we continue to them. Eventually we get to the lodgings, it's evening, I'm looking for the most romantic place for the first kiss. I stand in front of her with such an intention, just to reach out, she looks up and asks me if I want to go upstairs. Honestly, this exceeded all my plans for tonight, and in an attempt to recover, I asked her if anyone was there. I get the answer that her roommate is not in Sofia at all, so the terrain is absolutely clean. We enter the apartment, puts me down and goes to bring something. I don't know what she brought at all, because when I came back I took her hand and kissed her. Very gently, on the lips, not on the hand. And do you know what the reaction was? Gypsum! Complete paralysis. She just lost her mind and her words. I stood for a minute staring into her horrified eyes, wondering what to do. Finally, I asked, "Do you want me to leave," and she somehow overcame the paralysis by nodding. I left, what was left for me? Then he came to lectures for three days, and when he was afraid to go to university at all, he ran away from me like the devil from incense. In view of the above, I ask the author a counter-question: how the hell do you suggest we understand your hints? on the lips, not on the hand. And do you know what the reaction was? Gypsum! Complete paralysis. She just lost her mind and her words. I stood for a minute staring into her horrified eyes, wondering what to do. Finally, I asked, "Do you want me to leave," and she somehow overcame the paralysis by nodding. I left, what was left for me? Then he came to lectures for three days, and when he was afraid to go to university at all, he ran away from me like the devil from incense. In view of the above, I ask the author a counter-question: how the hell do you suggest we understand your hints? on the lips, not on the hand. And do you know what the reaction was? Gypsum! Complete paralysis. She just lost her mind and her words. I stood for a minute staring into her horrified eyes, wondering what to do. Finally, I asked, "Do you want me to leave," and she somehow overcame the paralysis by nodding. I left, what was left for me? Then he came to lectures for three days, and when he was afraid to go to university at all, he ran away from me like the devil from incense. In view of the above, I ask the author a counter-question: how the hell do you suggest we understand your hints? what was left for me Then he came to lectures for three days, and when he was afraid to go to university at all, he ran away from me like the devil from incense. In view of the above, I ask the author a counter-question: how the hell do you suggest we understand your hints? what was left for me Then he came to lectures for three days, and when he was afraid to go to university at all, he ran away from me like the devil from incense. In view of the above, I ask the author a counter-question: how the hell do you suggest we understand your hints?

   I am a woman and I do not understand hints. If a man asked me for help with something, I wouldn't have any idea what his intentions were - in case we hadn't flirted. I don't see how this man will remember that you want something more but not something serious ...

   Author, your whole topic is a hint. I did not understand anything. So many confused thoughts that only happen in your head ... Get really learned to present things in a way that makes it easy for other people to understand you, not easy for you to explain. There is a difference. Here the site is anonymous and no one cares how beautiful you are, in case you use your beauty in communication with people.