Hello, I am 17 years old and the boy I am dealing with is 21 years old. What worries me is that his ex-girlfriend is sexier than me. Would he come back to her just for that, given that they broke up 2 months ago even more. He blocked it in general, but they have mutual friends and I'm worried if they ever come across whether they can talk for example and something happens again. As far as I know, they have emphasized sex, and we have not done it yet, because I do not want to hurry. He treats me very well and doesn't press me, but with them sex was like a routine. Do you think that if she was sexier he would come back to her?
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What's sexier with his ex? Apparently there is money from mom and dad and she is bored, and you are not, which is normal, because you are still at an age when you do not make money and you do not have a stable income. The one is obviously a liberated one ..... and he is overjoyed. If you come to her, you don't care at all, just watch what she does ... I would even check it, secretly in viber, once it turned out that my boyfriend from my class puts horns on me ... no one believes, check to be calm.
Sex is not everything !!! There will always be some software! Instead of digging into the past and comparing yourself to someone there, focus on your relationship, or if you are going to compete with someone, let it be with yourself !!!!
I don't want to bother you, but you're probably still in love with your ex and you're rebound. In other words, you are the girl with whom he will be treated after parting with her. Apparently she hurt his ego and now he has found a more gentle girl with whom to recover it. There's really nothing wrong with that, because you're going to get a lot of attention and love that she probably didn't get. With you, he will overcompensate for everything he lost by parting with her. This is a very common behavior among men nowadays. Don't worry, he won't come back to her, because she probably doesn't want him in her life anymore. Things are probably over between them, just be careful not to become a substitute for a short time and then dump you too, continuing to search for a new love. You do the right thing by waiting. This is how you feed his interest:
Of course he will return. As long as you squeeze and just justify and procrastinate, she will give him what he needs. Lafa is, while the smart ones think, the crazy ones go crazy. When you understand the meaning of this story, you will answer for yourself
If looks and sex were enough for a relationship, he would still be with her. The main thing in your topic is that she is a former and you are a present. Over time, a person stops seeing the beauty in his loved ones, gets used to their face and body and does not glorify them as much as he did in the beginning, relationships based solely on appearance are doomed. Don't worry unnecessarily, such thoughts ruin a relationship, your jealousy is unnecessary. Support yourself enough to feel confident and beautiful, do it for your personal comfort and pleasure, do not worry. Your friend gave it up himself.
Whether he will have a relationship with his ex no one can tell you. You have learned to value yourself. And be with people who value you for who you are. Ž
It is normal not to rush into sex, and it is normal, if your boyfriend wants to, to have someone to emphasize sex with.
* To the author: What does it matter? There will always be sexier than you and his ex in question! Men are primary, accept that everyone has a different taste for sex. Some like fat, and find ugly well-groomed women, others like thin, others like "jagged" chicks. As with facial features, I like certain types of women, but my husband finds them ugly and vice versa. * Tip: Do not get complex, you can be replaced by the most, most atypical for him woman, it all depends on the heart, soul and head. -Maryan
Yes, but she's an ex, and now she's with you. In general, think in the direction of how lucky he is to deal with it, not that he can escape. Only he will lose. Don't worry about sex. You are so much fresher. At 17, you must be in great shape. Men often like something fresher and are drawn to playful women. As my boyfriend says - a woman should always be "a little virgin".